Bubba136

The worst part about living alone is getting used to it. While I am totally self sufficient, I do eat out a lot. One of the best things about living in a popular tourist area is the number of excellent restaurants that are available. While I do shop for groceries about once every two weeks, there are about 6 different restaurants where I love to eat.

I believe that JK is right. While I remember walking around the block in our neighborhood wearing my heels when a teenager, and those instances probably totaled 10 miles, I can’t remember any time in the last 30 years that I put on a pair just to go for a walk.

And your impression is? (If you are really interested in finding out, why not rent one and wear it out to dinner.)

They are all lovely. But why are you trying them on? Are you contemplating taking the plunge?

Isn’t there an old saying “Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder?” I, like JK, do not find nudity to be attractive. Nude men, not my taste. Nude women, I find alluring but far more attractive when wearing sexy lingerie and high heels. Long live attractive women! 🤩 Doesn’t it depend on the job? A department store sales person on their feet most of their working hours is more likely to wear lower heels than someone sitting at a desk. I have noticed some women salespeople changing out of their high heels shoes after a short time at work.

This is interesting. In my younger years, the height of the heel didn’t play a large role in my desire to wear girls shoes. After all when I was younger, girls my age weren’t allowed to wear heels higher than 1 inch or 1 1/2 inches at the most. As long as I was wearing “girls shoes” on my feet, I was happy. At home, around the house I, on the other hand, would wear my mom’s heels. Her shoes had heels around 4”. And when she finally bought heels for me, they also had 4” heels. Over the years, up to about ten years ago, I lived in shoes with 5” heels. I owned shoes with higher heels, some as high as 7 inches that I really never completely mastered, and shoes with 6” heels that were comfortable to wear but were tricky because of the extra height, you had to be more careful about where you put your feet. These days, in my more advanced age, I am happy to be able to wear shoes with any heels at all. I rarely see any women my age wearing shoes with heels as high as I usually am wearing. These days I am satisfied just wearing my girls shoes again, regardless of how high the heels are.

There is a “saying” that my old granddad used to say. “If you don’t think to good, you shouldn’t think to much.” This goes along with “after listening to what he said, it tells me all that I want to know about him.” Amazing at9, how you managed to demonstrate the truth in both of these “old sayings.”

KH! Thank you for what I feel is a true heartfelt post. One of the more positive features of this website is that each individual member has their own individual personality formed by their inner most socially unorthodox behavioral characteristics that, if generally known to others, might alter their acceptance and position in today’s society. The fact that they can openly discuss their unique characteristics with others without fear of disdainful criticism, sharing experiences as well as often receiving advice about their own personality characteristics that are not usually talked about in open discussions, makes it unique. For those of us that possess “antisocial” desires and behave beyond what is considered as normal social behavior, whether it is living a alternative lifestyle or crossdressing experiences, etc., it is a place where we can express ourselves, relieve psychological tension all with complete anonymity, without fear of being revealed. What is absolutely astounding is that all of this discussion takes place for the most part with a minimum of conflict, disagreement or argument. While some of the members are not fans of the leadership and others would like to see some of the rules relaxed or broadened, the fact is that there has to be an organized system of maintaining order. While members might not like or always agree with those in charge they can, as you so artfully put it “I can dislike you but be grateful for your efforts for which I truly am.” All this being said is just my way of asking you to just acknowledge the point, take it for what it’s worth and remain amongst us as a truly revered member. You really do belong here. I thank you for your contributions.

You are probably right in thinking that Tech has already deleted the post. There are probably a large number of people cruising the internet, coming across this website that would consider it to be flaming antisocial because “what male in their right mind would ever want to wear high heels or any garment designed for a female?” I know for a fact that tolerance for any lifestyle other than the traditional male, female separation is highly offensive to a point of in sighting physical violence against anyone outside acceptable social behavior, is possible. Those of us that chose to participate in this website can be, and probably are, considered to be “social misfits” because of our “antisocial” behavior, by advocates of traditional social norms. Each and every person has three reputations. One is the one that we present in public, where we work and to our friends and other outsiders. The second one is the one that we have with our families and other really close relatives. The third one is the “secret” one. The one that is known only to us. This is the one that we are prepared to share portions of in this website. It has been demonstrated again and again that while a male member here would love to be able to wear female clothing or shoes when ever or where ever they chose, they are not able to admit that they have these desires to anyone. This is the secret so important that they cannot allow anyone to know. But, this website is a place where they can associate with other people that have the same interests and they can share experiences with them openly and anonymously without fear of exposing ourselves to others outside of this venue. It has been said that “opinions are like assholes.” Because everyone has one. In the context of the United States Constitution, the right to free speech permits the people to freely express their opinions. While this is true, it doesn’t mean that some opinions should not be kept private.

Wearing shorts usually presents a warm weather casual look which would call for sandals. Whether wearing high heels, wedge heels or flats is a matter of preference. Wearing shorts automatically attracts attention to your feet. In some of your past pictures you are wearing wedge and high heel sandals. In all instances, the choice is appropriate for the function to which you are attending. In all cases, in my opinion, you present a positive appearance.

While I believe that I keep well up to date on postings to this website, particularly those from members that are well known here, I don’t recall the post to which you are referring. Would you please post a link link to this post? Not that I don’t believe you, l would like to see what this is really all about. If this word was used as part of an explanation, as you say, then the use of any descriptive adjective would be offensive to someone. And, in Your opinion, is their any other word that he might have used to make his point? To me, this is a learning experience because I don’t wish to make the same mistake.

You are correct. Most pastors of the larger, highly organized churches of major conferences are routinely transferred after three or four years. My experience over the past two decades has been with small rural churches that my son, who is a pastor of a small independent church in rural Virginia, (think John Boy and Billy Bob) refers to as “family reunion churches.” Their budgets are often smaller and leadership positions, outside of the pastors and one or two other positions, are usually filled voluntary. As to your shoes 👠 wear what you are comfortable wearing. But it takes real courage to wear high heels openly in church, not to mention performing on stage in full view of everyone. “ More power to ya.” 🤗

It has been my experience that Leadership positions in most churches are usually voluntary unpaid positions. Assuming a leading role by taking on the responsibility requires dedication and commitment that is becoming increasingly difficult to find. While most parishioners are still willing to attend to listen to pastor’s messages, for one reason or another, are not willing to contribute their time. I would guess the current economic situation in America has a lot to do with it. People are working more hours trying to earn enough just to pay their bills and that takes more time away from their free time. That plus the more secular mindset of our society has a great deal to do with it.