@Spareheels, you are asking what do you think people will notice when you are wearing heels? The toe or heel? I am in that same boat, I keep thinking that I need to get more of a rounded toe shoe so it looks more like a mens shoe and doesnt alert everyone that I am wearing heels. I too like wearing a stiletto heel and I dont think that a lot of people see it as it is mostly covered by my long pants. Its the patent leather pointed toe that I think is a give away that I am wearing a womens shoe. Do you agree. I think the skin that you show on your shoe is a dead give away also i think wearing something black to hide that is a big help but it just is not the same feeling for me. I have to wear heels barefoot, I love that feeling.
So I guess my answer is the toe design and the skin that shows with the low cut shoes and toe cleveage.
Glad to hear you prefer stilettos!!! It is such a great feeling!!