I’ve been lurking on this forum for months and thought that I would contribute. First, some background:
I have been facinated by women’s boots since I was very young and I am one of those guys who would sneak into closets to try on boots when I was at someone’s house. Later in high-school and college I managed to start buying some for myself. I’m now 38 and have 80+ pairs of boots. Plenty of them are high-heeled or thigh-high, but lately I have been buying mostly lower-heeled boots that I can wear to work and in public. During the summer, I could dress like a beach-bum and be happy, but once the weather cools off, I prefer dressing better and wearing boots. I wear a women’s size 11 if I wear thin socks or hose, and size 12 if I want to wear my regular athletic socks.
Most of my everyday boots are riding-boot style with ½ inch and ¾ inch heels. I have enjoyed reading about you guys who wear higher heels on a regular basis. BTW, Jeff, great photos of you at work in pumps, can you post some of you in your boots?
And to further set the scene: I am a fairly conservative person in manner and attire, work in a fairly conservative setting and go to a church of a fairly conservative denomination. So I am not someone who overtly lives an edgy lifestyle.
So I thought that I would recount some boot buying adventures for those who are still rather timid about it.
Last year, I was doing some Christmas shopping at the mall and went into a Rack Room shoes and looked since they sometimes have larger sizes. Sure enough, I found some Maripe boots that I thought would be perfect: knee-high zipper boots with about a 1.5 inch block heels. These would be higher than my regular boots, but still low enough for public wearing. I was wearing a pair of blue riding boots at the time. I don’t usually try on women’s shoes in public, but I didn’t want to have to return them if they were too small, so went to one end of the aisles, pulled off one of my riding boots and zipped on a black pair of the new boots. They fit! One woman and a sales guy walked by, gave me a glance and kept going. I walked around a minute and discovered that the boots, while snug, were comfortable. I decided that I wanted to wear them that night so I put on the other one and put my blue boots in the box. I then scooped up a pair of the boots in brown and went to pay for them. As now seems to be the custom, at the register they checked to verify that the boots in the box are the same size and the brand that is supposed to be in the box. This went fine for the brown boots, but then she (girl in her late teens or early 20’s) got a puzzled look when she saw the blue boots. I casually said, “Those are the boots I was wearing when I walked in.” She did a double-take and you could see the mental reset occur, and then she asked,”Are you *wearing* them?” (meaning the new boots). I said “Yup” and smiled. She recovered and completed the sale and I happily spent another hour or so walking around the mall finishing my shopping. No one gave my boots so much as a glance. I have worn them out in public since then and even to work a few times.
This past month I went into one of these shoe warehouse store where all the shoes are sitting out on low shelves and there is zero privacy. I would go through there every now and then to see if there was anything worth buying in my size. So early this month I found a pair of size 11 over-the-knee boots! These are stretchy vinyl or pleather with 3-inch heels. I did not try them on, but I did grab the box and headed for the checkout. Another young lady in her early 20’s. As she checked the boots in the box, she lightly asked, “Are these for you?”. I just as lightly replied, “Yup” and smiled at which point she smiled and said, “I thought so.” Now I have no idea if she was asking me seriously, or if she was just kidding with me and thought that I was kidding back. In either case, the whole purchase was a non-event. She told my bye and I left. The moral for guys who are nervous about buying shoes: it’s not that big of a deal, so relax and make your purchases.
I have also been told that retail is sooooo boring, that a guy wanting to buy some girl’s clothes adds a bit of something different and is welcomed more than rejected. So far, I have found nothing to refute this. I love wearing leather, and this includes skirts and dresses. At one shop, I was I guess being too obvious looking at one outfit. There was a short line a the checkout and the salesgirl looked over and said that if I could wait a minute she would let me try it on. With everyone in line looking at me I chuckled and walked off, but I did return ten minutes later and she was good to her word and I bought the outfit. I had a similar experience in another store where the sales women were actually upset that I didn’t come out of the dressing room in skirt and jacket to show them. Gotta like that.
This weekend, I was at the mall and discovered a store called the Shoe Dept, and was happy to see that it carries size 11 and 12 women’s shoes. I found a pair of Aerosoles boots that caught my fancy. These were knee-high zipper boots with a 2.5 inch black heel. I was already wearing my 1.5 inch heel boots under some black leather jeans, and I really wanted to wear the new boots. The store was too open for me to try them on there, so I bought the boots and headed for the restroom of a nearby department store where I changed boots. The new pair fit great and my pants hid most of the heel. The nice thing about Aerosoles is that they are very quiet, so there didn’t attract a lot of attention because of their noise. I went up and down the length of the mall doing some more shopping and window shopping for boots for my wife. I wasn’t trying to be noticed, nor was I trying very hard to see if the boots were being noticed. I think that only a few people even noticed the boots, and these were the ones that were sitting on the benches staring at the floor while waiting for someone. At any rate, no one said a darned thing or even gave me any funny looks. I think my leather jeans attracted more attention than anything else. It wasn’t an outfit that I would wear to church, but it was great for any afternoon out and about.
Then yesterday, we went to a movie and I wore my brown leather pants and the 1.5 inch heels under them. Afterward, I helped the wife with some boot shopping and helping her try on some boots. She normally wears a size 10 shoe, but in boots she likes to wear thick socks and prefers a size 11. After trying on some great looking riding boots, she declared them not to her liking and asked if I liked them. I did. So there I am sitting on the little stool that the shoe sales-people use and holding an upzipped boot in my size. And I’m just 5 feet from one of the main aisles through the store. I still said (to myself) to heck with it and decided to try on the boot that my wife had just been wearing. This meant hiking up my leather pants and unzipping a knee-high boot and putting on the new boot. Even though I was wearing a thin sock, the new boot was too snug. But here is my wife very casually asking if I liked them (Yes!) but I had to admit that they were too small and I would decline. So I took the boot off and put my otherone back on. I don’t think that anyone noticed and it was a non-event in terms of negative response. But it was a BIG event in terms of how much fun I had.
I know that this has been a huge, long post, but I thought you might enjoy reading about my little adventures. I wish that I could join you fellows at the boot meets in England and Europe. Most importantly, for you guys that are still bashfull, the lesson is that you can go shoe shopping without worrying about fuss. Go buy some shoes and enjoy them!
Corsair
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I’ve been lurking on this forum for months and thought that I would contribute. First, some background: I have been facinated by women’s boots since I was very young and I am one of those guys who would sneak into closets to try on boots when I was at someone’s house. Later in high-school and college I managed to start buying some for myself. I’m now 38 and have 80+ pairs of boots. Plenty of them are high-heeled or thigh-high, but lately I have been buying mostly lower-heeled boots that I can wear to work and in public. During the summer, I could dress like a beach-bum and be happy, but once the weather cools off, I prefer dressing better and wearing boots. I wear a women’s size 11 if I wear thin socks or hose, and size 12 if I want to wear my regular athletic socks. Most of my everyday boots are riding-boot style with ½ inch and ¾ inch heels. I have enjoyed reading about you guys who wear higher heels on a regular basis. BTW, Jeff, great photos of you at work in pumps, can you post some of you in your boots? And to further set the scene: I am a fairly conservative person in manner and attire, work in a fairly conservative setting and go to a church of a fairly conservative denomination. So I am not someone who overtly lives an edgy lifestyle. So I thought that I would recount some boot buying adventures for those who are still rather timid about it. Last year, I was doing some Christmas shopping at the mall and went into a Rack Room shoes and looked since they sometimes have larger sizes. Sure enough, I found some Maripe boots that I thought would be perfect: knee-high zipper boots with about a 1.5 inch block heels. These would be higher than my regular boots, but still low enough for public wearing. I was wearing a pair of blue riding boots at the time. I don’t usually try on women’s shoes in public, but I didn’t want to have to return them if they were too small, so went to one end of the aisles, pulled off one of my riding boots and zipped on a black pair of the new boots. They fit! One woman and a sales guy walked by, gave me a glance and kept going. I walked around a minute and discovered that the boots, while snug, were comfortable. I decided that I wanted to wear them that night so I put on the other one and put my blue boots in the box. I then scooped up a pair of the boots in brown and went to pay for them. As now seems to be the custom, at the register they checked to verify that the boots in the box are the same size and the brand that is supposed to be in the box. This went fine for the brown boots, but then she (girl in her late teens or early 20’s) got a puzzled look when she saw the blue boots. I casually said, “Those are the boots I was wearing when I walked in.” She did a double-take and you could see the mental reset occur, and then she asked,”Are you *wearing* them?” (meaning the new boots). I said “Yup” and smiled. She recovered and completed the sale and I happily spent another hour or so walking around the mall finishing my shopping. No one gave my boots so much as a glance. I have worn them out in public since then and even to work a few times. This past month I went into one of these shoe warehouse store where all the shoes are sitting out on low shelves and there is zero privacy. I would go through there every now and then to see if there was anything worth buying in my size. So early this month I found a pair of size 11 over-the-knee boots! These are stretchy vinyl or pleather with 3-inch heels. I did not try them on, but I did grab the box and headed for the checkout. Another young lady in her early 20’s. As she checked the boots in the box, she lightly asked, “Are these for you?”. I just as lightly replied, “Yup” and smiled at which point she smiled and said, “I thought so.” Now I have no idea if she was asking me seriously, or if she was just kidding with me and thought that I was kidding back. In either case, the whole purchase was a non-event. She told my bye and I left. The moral for guys who are nervous about buying shoes: it’s not that big of a deal, so relax and make your purchases. I have also been told that retail is sooooo boring, that a guy wanting to buy some girl’s clothes adds a bit of something different and is welcomed more than rejected. So far, I have found nothing to refute this. I love wearing leather, and this includes skirts and dresses. At one shop, I was I guess being too obvious looking at one outfit. There was a short line a the checkout and the salesgirl looked over and said that if I could wait a minute she would let me try it on. With everyone in line looking at me I chuckled and walked off, but I did return ten minutes later and she was good to her word and I bought the outfit. I had a similar experience in another store where the sales women were actually upset that I didn’t come out of the dressing room in skirt and jacket to show them. Gotta like that. This weekend, I was at the mall and discovered a store called the Shoe Dept, and was happy to see that it carries size 11 and 12 women’s shoes. I found a pair of Aerosoles boots that caught my fancy. These were knee-high zipper boots with a 2.5 inch black heel. I was already wearing my 1.5 inch heel boots under some black leather jeans, and I really wanted to wear the new boots. The store was too open for me to try them on there, so I bought the boots and headed for the restroom of a nearby department store where I changed boots. The new pair fit great and my pants hid most of the heel. The nice thing about Aerosoles is that they are very quiet, so there didn’t attract a lot of attention because of their noise. I went up and down the length of the mall doing some more shopping and window shopping for boots for my wife. I wasn’t trying to be noticed, nor was I trying very hard to see if the boots were being noticed. I think that only a few people even noticed the boots, and these were the ones that were sitting on the benches staring at the floor while waiting for someone. At any rate, no one said a darned thing or even gave me any funny looks. I think my leather jeans attracted more attention than anything else. It wasn’t an outfit that I would wear to church, but it was great for any afternoon out and about. Then yesterday, we went to a movie and I wore my brown leather pants and the 1.5 inch heels under them. Afterward, I helped the wife with some boot shopping and helping her try on some boots. She normally wears a size 10 shoe, but in boots she likes to wear thick socks and prefers a size 11. After trying on some great looking riding boots, she declared them not to her liking and asked if I liked them. I did. So there I am sitting on the little stool that the shoe sales-people use and holding an upzipped boot in my size. And I’m just 5 feet from one of the main aisles through the store. I still said (to myself) to heck with it and decided to try on the boot that my wife had just been wearing. This meant hiking up my leather pants and unzipping a knee-high boot and putting on the new boot. Even though I was wearing a thin sock, the new boot was too snug. But here is my wife very casually asking if I liked them (Yes!) but I had to admit that they were too small and I would decline. So I took the boot off and put my otherone back on. I don’t think that anyone noticed and it was a non-event in terms of negative response. But it was a BIG event in terms of how much fun I had. I know that this has been a huge, long post, but I thought you might enjoy reading about my little adventures. I wish that I could join you fellows at the boot meets in England and Europe. Most importantly, for you guys that are still bashfull, the lesson is that you can go shoe shopping without worrying about fuss. Go buy some shoes and enjoy them! Corsair