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I see your point. My message does come of as harsh and please let me state again it is not a direct insult or attack to this site. I don't mean for it to sound harsh or to be taking that way. The whole reason why I posted here again was because I was honestly worried about how some of the people I use to talk to here like you Tech, and Nigel as well as a few others. But before I could post again I had to resolve the old unfinished business which is the reason why I left never got explained in the first place by me or anyone else. Then that last remark by Bubba kinda put me on the deffensive because I didn't know where he was comming form. My messages are not an attack nor a attempt to start trouble. Just my feelings about why I left nothing more nothing less. I'm sorry I didn't mean to come here and upset everyone. See it was just me misunderstanding. I'm sorry Bubba. Its hard to see what people really mean with text if you not what I mean Sigh this isn't a way to make a comeback to a forum LOL. But I do wish everyone a happy holidays with lots of nice fashionable shoes underneath their trees. Not quite sure what my activity is going to be here I go back and forth a lot. I think I might post because like I said this is the only site where a guy who wears heels can talk about them outside the fetish aspect (which gets annoying on other sites.) I just might not post as often. A. Becuase of the last inncident (think thats already been established.) B. Past year or so I've come to realize its good to have a life outside of high heels and message boards. Unless you live in LA and plan on making a carrer out of it if you know what I mean.

Nice to see you to. You struck me as sounding somewhat condescending with the by remark? If that's the case I'm sorry I made you feel that way. I was just simply stating why I left the site in the first place. I wasn't trying to be insulting to this site and its members. As you remember I was a onetime huge fan of this site and visited regularly as it was the one place I could talk about wearing heels in a none fetish since which was nice but that incident chased me off and similar events have chased other people off and I feel that people on this site need to know that. Its a nice site people on here are nice, I'm aware of what the admins where trying to do as far as the site's image was concern but at the same time I just felt some poeple where beings well, as I stated overzealous. And my feelings are just that my feelings. Which remain the same.

Hello everyone I haven't been on here in a while Just thinking about this site how is everyone doing? Sorry I haven't been on here in a while. I'm still kinda mad over what happened the last time I was here. I thought it was unfair that I was just defending myself and got made out to be the bad guy and then the admin edited my post when I tried to explain what really happen which I thought was extremely overzealous and prudish at best. I've met a BUNCH of other people that think that same way about that site and I still don't intended on coming here that much as that left a real bad taste in my mouth for this site. Sorry I hope I'm not being offensive to any of the long time goers of this site I just feel I left without explaing myside of things. But still none the lest I was just wondering how is everyone as I did have a friend or two on here that I do miss and think about from time to time.

Leaving the site for a while. I think it is time for me to take a break for a month or two seeing how I'm not the type of person that can let anything go when I get upset. So anywho laterz. I'll be back in a month or two hopefully I will have calmed down by then. Ya got my contact info!

Those are nice.

Sorry to hear that happen. The highest I can stand in and sort of semi walk in is 6.5". I still need to practice more.

Can't see the pic. Would like to see though. Don't think I've seen a pair of 7" ankle boots before.

Huh? I've never seen this post I don't think. Oh well awsome heels!

Well that sucks about the two pairs that are two small. I hate when that happens. They are all nice shoes though.

I don't know. I've seen pictures of people wearing socks with their pumps and I thought it was a kinda cute look. (I feel weird saying cute) lol.

I don't know. I'm not saying was right becasue I don't think she was at all. But from my own experience I think a lot of people draw that conclusion when they see a man in heels. You know kinda like sterotyping.... especailly when it comes to heels that are like 5"+ and plats becasue those type of heels or typically associated with the fetish type world. And when people see men in heels I think TV/TS/CD typically pops is one of the first thing that pops in people's head. Not saying that it is right.

Not too long ago I saw a a nice looking lady walking out of a Mr. Good Sents (a very good sandwhich shop) in the very clasic Black 6" Pump. Just like the ones in my pic. Though I'm sure hers was some kind of real good expensive brand. She seemed to be the Model type. Real tall, slim, short blonde hair . I think she was in her late 30s, early 40s. It was a cool site. And I just thought to myself wow, I have a pair of pumps like those. Only I think mines are cheaper.

Those are cool. When I looked at them I thought about the high heel chair, and the high heel car as well.

Nice mules!

Nice pumps. Gwen - Gwen Steffani, was the lead singer to a band called No Doubt, now she is solo. Has had a few hits. Its bananas!

Thanks. I feel a little better now. I just gotta find something to do instead of calling her. Still haven't beat Devil May Cry 3 yet....

Thank you, thank you, thank you. You have no idea of how much it means to hear all of this right now. I have been stressing out big time over her. Yesterday I got the day off so we could spend it together. I told her about this friday, then on saturday and sunday I reminded her and yet she ended up babysitting. I just deleted her out of my cell phone this moarning. I mean I haven't had these kind of anxiety attacks in a looooong time. And the worse thing is I don't know why I'm choosing to let it get to me.

Yeah I know, I know. I just need to grow a backbone and do it. "Don't say you're going to get lucky! The truth is someone might get lucky with you."... I like that, thanks!

A quick update, I'm back together with her. Don't know. Wel'll see. I think I' m just despriate and I doubt I can find anyone better and I'm too nice (she likes the thugs and the bad guys.) Funny huh? They talk about not being able to find a good men and yet they pick... I don't know I'm just being bitter. Its just that the thing is I've known her since July, we've only slept together twice, and the only time she wants to see me is when she needs money. She says its becasue of school and stuff, but she only lives 15 mins less then 15 min away from me. She even talks to me defferntly then other people. When she talk to me its a one sided conversation of me asking her 20 questions and getting short responses. Kinda like she dosen't seem that conected you know? Her voice is even kinda monotone, like she is tired or stress, but she brigtens and opens up when she talks to other people. She even came home with a new cell phone number after a "girls night out" and said she just wanted a new number. Just strange stuff like that. But If I were to say not call her for a week, she calls me up and acts concern? So I don't know. We'll see.I mean whats going on is obvious, like I said I'm just despriate. LOL. Thats just how it goes I guess. Mean men get all the time, nice men just get used.

Don't see anything wrong with plats at all myself. I love them. I also love non plat shoes.

love the louboutins.

Yeah that is a great ad. Love the guy in pumps. Don't know why I'm just now seeing it but I know where I'm buying shoes from next pay check!

Glad to have the two of you on the fourm! I think its great to see high heeling couples.

Hey mate

No offence meant by that, I just have this habit where the longer the post is, the more carefully I need to read it so I dont miss anything, or mis-interpret things people are saying. Sorry mate, didnt mean it in a bad way

Thats cool. I didn't mean any offence either. Often when I read I get lazzy and just end up glanceing the whole thing over so often I miss points. And I end up asking a lot of questions (some of them stupid.) just to clearify things. Something I should probaly stop doing. But anywho I don't really have a problem when a company decides to impose a dress code, espacilly if it is done for the wrtie reasons such as safety. Besides we get to wear what we want when work is over. At least its not like my job where they try to impose things on your life outside of work too.

Jim

Didn't he already say "All we drivers" which would obviously incorporate male and female employees. This is not a gender issue, its simply a safety one, especially if a customer has seen him almost breaking his neck on their premises.

The same would be true if it was a woman doing the same...

Very very good point. Only problem with pointing thought out to me was that I was just asking out of pure curiousity. Nothing more nothing less. And I had just merly glanced to see the point like I normaly do with long post so I didn't see the "all we drivers thing." So I didn't know.