Good subject. If you think about it, every member here is looking for acceptance whether they publicly heel, still hide it or are in between like me. I know I feel somehow better since joining hhplace, knowing that my deep, unending enjoyment of wearing "women's" high heeled shoes and boots is shared by others. It does feel good to not be alone. And anyone that thinks this love of heels by men means we must be gay or have a screw loose is just ignorant and their opinion doesn't matter.
I totally agree that we should just be ourselves and wear what we want. If you don't act like yourself, who are you, a clone, a follower, a product of how you view society? I know that I don't need everyones approval, but it is nice to come here with like minded individuals and not be judged by what I have on my feet(5 inch black pumps), or that my legs are shaved, or that my toe nails are painted(blue)