Crazyewok
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Yeah I havent heard much about him. BUT DAM he does make heels look good!. Given me a few outfit ideas.
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I'm rather looking forward to wearing my 3" boots out with my freinds next time we all go out. And if there ok with it then hopefully in a few weeks time I can slip some of my mid heel court shoes in.
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I went for 3" reaso being that what I wear when street heeling. I think the public much more willing to accept a man at those heights than say tottering around In 5" stelleito pumps. Plus at 3" can still maintain a some what manley walk or pose even im stelitos. If we are to be truley accepted then I think we should start small and build up. In private though 4 and 5 " are a hell of alot of fun
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I'm probbaly gunna get some negative comments for this. But in public NO!!!! Not yet anyway. I think it would look to odd and draw to much attencion. In private sure.
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Well my attitudes changed alot in the past week. Now If I go shoe shopping I dont try pretending there not for me and the sale assitants can easly see there for me and treat me as such. I dont try them on though unless invited as I know rom there perspetive It might upset other customers even if they ok with it.
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Well I dont wanna risk loseing freinds and family. And I dont wanna do things that will make them uncomfortable.
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Well Intresting enough two of my male mates admited to wearin heels, one out in public a few years ago cause he wanted to see what it was like. Plus my freinds have said they will give it ago with me wearing my boots around them........
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I have slowly started to tell people about my like oh heels....... It intresting. My freinds dont seem to be botherd. My best mate does think its funny but he dont really care. Oly things that been said is not to wear them around him incase people think we are gay lol Girlfreind Iv been aproaching this with great care....she knows I have 2 pairs of heels (I origanly said i brought them for a charity walk) but she does sort of know I like wearing them. She said she thinks its a bit odd but that it. She does'nt seemto be intrested in talking about it so I'm not gunna push it. I think It more about how it will affect her image rather then not likeing it in general. She also only 18 so I can understand her being concernd about image so wont push things for her sake. My mum was negative at first. Infact made me purge my first lot of heels. But she slowly come round to it. She knows Iv brought more and did say she kinda liked my boots.
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If I saw a man in heels I would probbaly stare and do a double take! lol And I wear them myself. This is just a normal recation when you see something that you dont normaly see. As far as other people I think most people would'nt care if heel where worn by men. I have been discrety bringing the subject up with freinds (they dont know I'm a heel wearer) quite frankly I dont think they care if I wore them in private, infact a few know I own a pair of heels lol The problem is if I wore them in public with them. I dont think they would like the posisbility of unwanted attencion brought to them and most importatly to them.....THE GAY FACTOR........lol Im not gay and nor are they but they would not under any circumstances want to give that impression to people and it sad to say if I wore my heel around them they would worry that we where seen as a group of gays. To put it simply its a fear thing........ Then theres the point of view for women. Ok here my take. Men are never gonna get acceptance from 100% of women nor are 100% women ever gonna be turned on by it. And there nothing wrong with that. Id say a quater may find it attractive half would'nt care and a quater would hate it. That not there fault or our fault. I also think there a fear factor with women as well, theres a worry that if people found out there man wore heels or skirts socity would frown on them and reject them (even I have that fear), and my girl freind I thik is in that camp. And on the other note there are plenty of things that women can do that will act as a turn off. All us men have them. For me short hair, I would never go out with a girl with really short hair. Its not that I dont agree with it, its there hair they can do what they like BUT I just simply dont find it attrcative. I know guy that are put off my women in mini skirts or shorts. I personaly dont care it neither turns me on or off. Also I know for a fact that there are plenty of guys who dont agree with women wearing trosuers or haveing short hair, normaly the old fashioned sexist ones. There alway guna be a small percentage of small minded ones. At the end of the day we should'nt ask everyone to like men wearing heels. But they should just accept it.
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They may not scream for attention, but they are a very handsome pair of high heels. Congratulations on your purchase. And it is so cool when the clerks ask if you would like to try yhem on. I think that thrills me as much as any heeling experience.
Thanks I saw them ad thought they where perfect for street healing. They did make my feet ach after 2 hours though lol Love the heel in your picture. If there yours where did you get them from?
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YupI brought the pair shown in my avatar from house of fraiser to today. They are brilliant for going out. They feel good to walk in but dont scream out for unwanted attencion.
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Yeah if there one local but not too local Id be intrested. The heel I brought today are what displayed in my avatar. Nothing spectacular but they are good for street heeling. Mostly coverd by jeans but you can still still see what they are if you look closly enough and they make a fair amount of noice
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yeah at house of fraiser the assitant said they had a number of larger sizes in stock. Still it amazed me she actually asked. I did'nt think its that obvious, Iv brought shoes for the girlfreinds enough time (at other stores). Anyway I will be makeing another trip back hopefully very soon. Its just such a shame I have to only wear heels when out and about on my ow
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Well done mate. I love it when an assistant asks if you want to try them on and they're being genuine. The last time I was in Faith they didn't even ask, the assistant just invited me to take a seat and said that she'd bring the shoes over for me to try on.
It makes you wonder how many men they see buying for themselfs. They would'nt ask if it did'nt happen. It a nice feeling being treated as normal though and not a freak.
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Well I was bored and just got a new job so decided to go for a trip to a large shopping mall 30 miles from me to treat myself to some new heels. I went in plain men shoes. And descided to go into house of fraiser. I was looking for a mid heel that I can wear out without drawing too much attencion to myself. I found a nice pair which I liked and asked to get them in size 8. I was'nt planning to try them on as last time I did I got laughed at. Well the shop assitant politley smiled and asked me if i wanted to try them on! It took me off guard but I said yes and it was a rather pleasent experiance. I'm normaly pretty good at gauging some one reactions and she did't even seem to act like it was unusal, which i would't have blamed her for. After that nice experiance I decided I would change into them and walk around for abit in public in them. Maybe go into a shop which I did. I had now reaction.....none from anyone....... except one guy look down at them in suprise but them again you cant blame him and I would'nt say it was negative. I went into faith with them. Did'nt find anything I liked so went out....again no reaction. This is where it got intresting....I descided to go back to my car and head home. I had done 20minutes in heels in public so thought I deserved to end there and be proud of myself. Well due to the way the mall is built I could'nt find the carpark I parked in! I spent a further hour walking about trying to find my car!!!! I was lost stuck in heels and no where to change lol At first it was a pannick but after 5 minutes it was rather fun. Plus I went into a few other shops. One I did get a negative look. I schu a job clerk looked at me and started smirking and made a dart for the door. He was a spotty faced teenager though so he probbaly laughs at alot of people. I also noticed a few people stop and look but more in a intrested way that a disgusted or amused way. I would deffinatly recomend the house of fraiser there. They where incredably freindly and as such will be getting more buisness from me. Maybe next time I will have the nerve to strike up a chat with the shop asistant and ask her if she gets many men.
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Ahhh, lovely Kent, the home of the "chav" and foster home to all creatures of migration
your invisible!
O it gets better (or worse) I live at the chav captial, the chav birth place...... Just wearig a suite would be enough to get the crap beaten out of you in the high street at certain times lol
Yeah I considerd oxford street. Problem is getting to the train station in my area in heels lol
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I too love the peep toes ones. Shame I have terrible toe nails otherwise I would get a pair lol.
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Hi been absent for a while on the forums due to work. Anyone know of any good place to street heel in the UK?. My area in Kent Is pretty rough and I would likely be beat up lol That and I wanna avoid freinds/family ect. I would love to find a place where I can hang out in my heels every now again and do some heel shopping etc. Especialy looking for freindly shops. First time I decided to try heels on in a shop I got laughed at
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Yeah I gunna play along and take it slowly. I putting up a fake bit of resistance as well, wish is makeing her want me to do it even more. Be a while before we will probably be able to get round to it. should be intresting though.
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My girldfreind knows nothing about my like for wearing heels. Although I have droped a few hints. She rather conservative and extremly femamine . Last night though we where talking and she droped into the convosation on how she wants to see me in a skirt! I was rather taken a back. Skirts have never really intrested me but It would be hypocritical of me not to give it a go. And hopefully it can be used as a stepping stone to introducing her to me wearnig heels. Only thing she has though though is that she only wants me to wear the skirt in private lol which suits me
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Ok honnestly. I would hate that. But heres my reasoning. A guy should still look like a guy and a women should look like a woman. A guy wearing heels or a skirt can still look like a man, the same way a woman wearing trouses or a mans shirt can still look like a woman (to me clothing swapping should work both ways). When I wear heels I'm not trying to look like a woman, I just like the fashion. Now I would except if it my girlfreind wanted to wear mans shoes (though why the hell would anyone choose that lol) But if she shaved her hair and grew body hear I woul'dnt except that. Hope that all made sense lol
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Well I did I went out for another stroll in my boots. Went into next and tried on and brought these nice heels http://www.next.co.uk/shopping/women/shoes/19/8#reviews Maybe abit fem for some but I saw them and imeadiatly new I had to have them. The sales assistant that got them for me was ok. Although proffesional when dealing with me and it seemed at the time it was like a normal request to her, I did see her laughing with a male collgegue on the way out. Though the male collague did'nt seem to impressed with her. Though it could of been only a diffrent matter. In reguards to the general public, I dont think I got so much as a stare except from a mum and children when trying them on.
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Tomorrow I'm hopeing to go into next and try on a few shoes, but a little nervous. Even though the shops 20 miles from anyone I know I'm dreadig some one I know walkig in. Im also a little scared what the shop assitants will make of me. I'm planning on wearing my boots into the store.
List of shoes I'm intrested in looking at.
sp%3bShoes
sp%3bShoes
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Problem with next is they are a little bit more expensive than M & S and new look. But they do seem to have more size 8 i stock.
As a update, I enjoyed going out in my new boots so much I just went for a 2 mile walk round the block. Nothing really happend except some guy walked past, but he really did'nt take much notice. Even though my boots were makeing a racket.
All i can those is these boots from M & S are amazeing, http://www.marksandspencer.com/Limited-Collection-Round-Buckle-Boots/dp/B002F55SAU?ie=UTF8&categoryNodeID=42967030&node=83157031&page=1&mnSBrand=core&rh=n%3A83157031, even after 2 miles my feet were still not in pain. Plus no blisters! when ever I break in normal shoes I get blisters.
Pink Heels
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I'm not aginst men wearing pink. But I think society needs to get used to heel wearing men first before throwing pink heels at them. All I'm saying is that its best to take small steps. But that just my opinion.