HeelsForMen

Name:John Age:40ish Gender:Male Location: Southend essex Occupation:Jobless Height:5'9 Weight:86k Shoe size:womens 8 What's your favourite heel style: thin stiletto What's your favourite shoe style: Court and sandal Do you wear your heels outside:Have occasionally What is: (a) Your favourite heel height: 4" ( Your highest heel height: 5.5" How often do you wear: (a) Your favourite heel height: Daily ( Your highest heel height: cant walk in just for show but occasionally Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes:Mostly bare foot but occasional hose if have patent inlined courts you just cant beat that feeling Anything else you wish to add:

Now i love this site for bringing out the positive side of heel wearing but id like to ask about the negative and who else feels this. My problem is i was married a long long time to an attractive lady who always supported my heeling right down to buying for me and always wearing them in bed herself but we have parted, the problem isnt just how will i ever meet another but mainly being that she was attractive but icouldnt give a toss as for me its just shoes shoes shoes she had to wear them in bed and the few times we tried without to prove its not shoes but her i loved i was proved a liar when couldnt finish the job, so my problem is lack of confidence meeting a new girl and insisting immediate that basically our whole relationship will be based on her wearing shoes, i wish i could turn this fetish down a few notches but as most of you know its hard to go backwards like drugs you need more whether it be a rush nearly getting caught or higher heels for instance i used to get a rush in sisters kitten heels now i wouldnt even bother trying them on its 4in or higher nothing else interests. Anyway id love to know your thoughts or similar experiences

Definately, many years ago i used to work in a bowling alley doing the computers and the shoes and every weds was womens coffee morning where id normally work only behind the counter taking cash and changing the shoes which very often the better looking heels were being taken for a spin as soon i had a chance, I always look back at that job affectionately.

Wow you really have got bottle, what an inspiration, must be great anyway ive just moved down this way from London and just getting to know these places you mention like reflex and its ok here, are you from near here or just come for nights out?

I voted just man in heels but toe polish and even stockings have been worn for purely more shoe pleasure, i mean dipping a stockinged foot into a patent lined court shoe is one of lifes pleasures that should be made compuslary to all to realise how great a feeling that is.

sorry if not allowed to put websites on im not sure but its justto show this guy and his friends heels you may need to be a facebooker to see.

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=21208181377&ref=search&__a=1#/photo.php?pid=1947211&o=all&op=1&view=all&subj=21208181377&aid=-1&id=588975756&oid=21208181377

oh and love those red boots in your picture

Great idea yes im pretty casual type of guy with sporty clothes but loves gigs so just wear more lairy stuff with heels high and hidden and perfect yes may try that

nice shoes but i think my fear is probably not general public as the two times i did wear heels it was like you said as long as they werent blatant in your face no one cared but my fear comes from bumping into a friend or family since i lived and partied in london many a time

I am new on here joined today so want to know if anyone knows anywhere in London or Essex where you can have a night out in heels, i am not a crossdresser but would if meant i could wear heels also not into fetish parties but would consider so please let me know if there are such nights you know of and also any planned London or Essex meets especially as just bought some new ones and love to know how long i would last in them.

Hi im new to the group but have been looking in for a while, im the shy type who lives on the stories here of people walking out in public in Heels i would love that bravery as did it once in Oxford street in 3in chunky rubber heel boots during xmas period for about an hour so no clacking and long jeans to cover but still the biggest adrenalin rush probably ever. I also have done the standard fancy dress parties where last one i went as a nun and had heels on underneath and found a new pleasure as good as putting them on and that was taking them off after a whole nights partying it was fantastic the pain i had. Anyway about me divorced 40yold whos worn shoes from early paper round days in early teens but knew i had heel fetish from as early as 6 looking back.