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I notice that you are from mexico. Why not get a pair of 3" cuban heels. No one will notice anything at all and you still get the feeling of hh's. My first time was back in 1997, but I was a lot younger looking, so I could pass a girl if I fully dressed. which is what I did to get out there. Unfortunately for me, I have matured and can no loger pass as a female. Now I just wear my heels as a man with his wife. I feel confident that when people see me with my wife and we're both in heels, I feel more confident. Who cares what other people think. Their thought are in their heads not ours. But whatever you do, be strong.

My wife has more heels than I do, even though I like to wear them more.

U used to wear my heels in private, untill my wife found them. There was a lot of explaining to do, and a lot of trust to be regained. Now it is acceptable to my wife for me to wear them in the house whenever I want. My advice is don't hide this for too much longer. Open up to her and let her know what your feelings are. She will be greatful and will trust you more if you tell her, but opposite if she finds out on her own. Best of luck to you.

Found this pic on the web, and thought it would fit in here.

I voted yes, because I hope so. I don't see too many guys in heels on the northeast coast of the US, but I can hope!!

great outfits. My favorite is outfit 1.

These are my dream pairs. Don't know where to buy them, nor do I have the $$$ to get them.

I find that platforms are more comfortable to walk distances in. 10 miles is a pretty far walk, you sure your up for it. I think the delight 667 have the most support, therefore will feel the best at the end of the long walk. Just my thoughts.

Today its my adidas telstar indoor soccer sneakers. I am in the process of moving, so not too much choice at this time.

You all have great input in this discussion. Thank you! I love the idea of this day being done for a charity event!! (Kudos to wetwilly for the comment) Does anyone have any ideas how to get that kind of charity started?

I will try to get some pics today. Hopefully I can get a hold of a camera today. a warning though, the heels do not look that good, but they still feel great.

these remind me of that style (shankless)

I like that shoe. It kind of reminds me of a pair I saw online. I'll try to find it and post a pic.

Sorry, I don't have a pic, but I did finish my project. I was successful in removing the upper, and I have made my inconspicous 4" heels. They actually are 5" heels, but have the arch and lift of a 4" heel. the trick was to remove the upper of my size 10 heels, and put them into size 8.5 sneakers. When worn with pants I just look like I am 5 inches taller, and wearing sneakers. This puts my toes at the correct location in the sneaker so it doesn't feel like wearing clown shoes. My small sneakers are now used for sneaking around in my heels.

What is the easiset way to remove the upper on a wedge heel. Is it ok to just cut it off with a razor, or will it damage the integrity of the heel. I am removing the upper for an experiment to make my own hidden heels. What do you recommend I do to preserve the heel, but not too worried about the upper?

I started wearing my mom's hels when I was roughly 5. every year she would pull out the Halloween Box, and I couldn't wait to get the silver glitter 4-5 inch wedges out and put them on. My first public outing had to have been in high school (opposite gender day during homecoming). That was the first time I ever spent the day in high heels. It was awesome. Since then I have done a few laps around the college campus, at night, and a few trips to the malls. Those occasions, I went out in full femme, and being young at the time had a face with no 5 o-clock shadow, so was passable. Even got a few hoots and hollahs from drive buys!

I love the pics!!! The sandals are especially HOT!!!

Those are really cool shoes.

good luck with the powerball. I'm hoping you win just for the holiday:thumbsup:

What do you think of these? I really like the blue and gray MJs, the other ones although not MJs are still pretty cool I think.

I voted for a couple as I could not decide. I really love the look of Mary Jane platforms, so those 2 got checked off, I owned a pair of 4.5" slingbacks that were really comfortable, and now own just a pair of 6" two strap mules with a 2" platform.

Well, Great news. My wife told me last night that I can wear the heels anytime I want at home. I think tonight is a good noght to test it out. Our relationship has become a lot more open and honest, so she is getting more and more :thumbsup:accepting.

Benno, Thank you for that explaination. I would have never thought of that rationale on my own, yet you speak it as I feel. thank you everyone else with your input as well.

would you participate in an opposite gender holiday?