Britana

When I opened the thread, I saw the links and Amanda's "look strange" comment below, so when I looked at the pictures I had that thought in my mind. With the utmost respect to Amanda, it didn't really look strange to me. I wouldn't put myself out there like that, and would certainly see something like that on the street as "unusual," but really didn't find it odd for the forum. I also looked again after reading the thread and still reached the same conclusion.

As far as kids go, I'd not want my kids anywhere on this site, and most certainly not looking at QoH or most of the pictures out here. It has nothing to do with them being offensive to mature adults, but rather that there are strong sexual connotations with many of them. There are A LOT of things I don't want my kids exposed to until they reach a more mature age, and I don’t think anyone can seriously argue that this forum is appropriate for children?

I think this is like pornography; You’ll know it when you see it! There’s a clear difference of opinion across the members on these photos and, if for nothing else than the dialog, I found the post helpful. I also was glad to see the mods/admins step in and comment. As always, the folks here moved professionally and self-regulated it seems. That’s what makes this place work - for me.

I don't post much here, but thought I'd toss in my 2 cents. I don't like the fact that guys can't post in the girl's section and don't think it is "fair." But, I also understand it is necessary since apparently some guys have made (or make) the girls feel uneasy. Also, no one ever promised me fairness when I signed up and clearly told me to stay outta the girls section, so I do. That being said, I think there is a bigger picture to be seen. The board has more male members than females because (I think) males having an interest in high heels are more likely to seek out others with similar interests. For many females, high heels are simply shoes and they feel no real need to talk about it; For many males, they are a fetish (or intense interest) and they seek out others that share their interests - thats why I'm here. With the caveat that I'm not attempting to be judgmental and am overstating the point to make an impression, I think many females see the board as predominantly cross dressers, male foot fethists, and guys just wanting pics of girls in shoes and get scared away. The few women that remain, have proven in their posts to me that they are highly intelligent, thoughtful, and open minded enough to see past that stereotype. Only if the board moves toward greater segregation (not less) of it's male members is it likley, in my opinion, to attract and retain any significant number of "mainstream" female members. That is the tough balancing act that the moderators face and have done, overall, a remarkable job at. I like the board, I'm glad to be a member, I like and respect the people here and I feel I have learned A LOT from so many of you. Please don't take the above critically (its not ment to offend anyone), but rather as merely my observations and thoughts. Thanks, Brit.

Not sure if this is in the thread yet or not, but I love these! Are they commercially available?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9TV1NyLYoQI

Anything's possible? No Taboos?

I'd write her a short note telling her how beautiful she looked, how much I admired her shoes and dress, and asking if she might spare time for a cup of tea at the café down the block. I’d tell her a little bit about myself and explain that I’d like to know her better. I’d say I knew it was an unusual approach, but what harm could come from sharing tea? With a rose from the flower shop and a smile, I’d slip her the note and make my way toward the café before she had a chance to overcome her surprise and appreciate the situation.

Then we'd spend the next few weeks getting to know each other VERY well

Anything’s possible!

There may several dynamics at work here. First, the feel or look of high heels is appealing, which is why we (collectively) are drawn to them. In general, higher heels further increase this attraction. Outside this board, many women wear heels not because they particularly enjoy them, but because they are part of professional or societal norms and expected. Therefore, they wear the lowest heel they can while still meeting these demands, whether real or merely their perception. Given the choice, I believe many women would advocate that society accept lower or no heels with the same voracity that men here advocate that they be socially accepted in high heels. But, here in the forums, you have a statistically unbalanced cross section of society. We all share some love for high heels in one way or the other, which is why we are here. So, men here at HHPlace strive for higher heels because we/they have a unique desire to wear heels – that’s why we are here.

Second, maybe, once men discover wearing heels and their desire to do so, it’s logical to try and be the best you can at wearing heels - we all strive to do our best in everything. One measure of competence in heels is heel height. The higher the better. As to the difference with women, this may simply be an overly competitive male instinct, but there are also a fair share of women on this board that also strive for 5” or higher heels and express a desire to either wear higher heels or wear heels longer.

Myself and the SO often use heels in combination with other B&D or D&S sexual activities. Depending on the mood, scene, emotions, one or both of us may find ourselves in heels! Brit.

Nauku is finnish word for meow, it sounded like japanese so i liked that, neko is japanese word for cat.

And I recently learned nekojita is a Japanese expression meaning literally "cat's tongue" and is used to refer to a person who does not like very hot food or drink. Not entirely sure how all that connects to HH, but the thread wanders ;P

Brit.

In the U.S. (which is all I'll qualified to opine on), I believe: "Panties" is a term for a female's underwear, bottom half only, not anything to do with a leg covering. It is what we generically call "underwear," but has a heavy female conotation. Men wear briefs or simply underwear, and a man wearing "panties" would have a heavy presumption of being cross-dressed. "Pantyhose" is term for integrated underwear (hence "panty") and stockings (hence "hose"). I don't hear "hose" often myself, and hear "stockings" more, but TBH I think either are becoming a less common garmet to wear in general. "Pants" are (is? - we'll debate that another time) an outer garmet that covers the legs and in no way refers to any undergarmet. Both men and women wear pants - there is no gender conotation. We do not use "trousers" in any form of common speech and people will look oddly at you if you use it, but will probably understand if they are over 30. Hope that helps and I got it all right! Brit.

Nice photos. I like the horses early on as they reminded me of the wild ponies on Assateague Island near here.

Brit.

It is much more about the person than the shoes for me. I like heels, but they, frankly, get a little boring without someone wearing them ;P I'm also at a point in my life where I'm much more intrigued by the person than the fashion. Don't get me wrong, seeing a nice pair of heels drives me crazy, but it moves toward wanting to know the person in them, not spend time with the shoes!

Your guy friends are right to a degree. Like it or not, clear platforms are the heel of choice for strippers, at least in the U.S. Therefore, the connotations of this heel carry over. But, regardless, if you like them, WEAR THEM! I'd not recommend you wear them to a formal event, but out clubbing or just around your guy friends to make them envious, by all means enjoy. It may be geographical also - for some reason I feel this type of heel is more accepted in warm or beachy environments - like Miami. Any feelings there? BTW, this also carries over to the "girl only" platform=tart thread. Cheers! Brit.

Pigment (lack of)

Very nice pics Fashion and thanks for sharing. My SO has the same screams, sans ankle straps, but getting her to agree to let me post pics will take some time!

Folks this thread is over a year old (that's 2007 not 2008 above!) Also, if you read the thread, there was some "distress" and it looks like the link may have intentionally been brought down. Just FYI for others trying

Very nice stuff. Do you have another site with more posted? Am I even allowed to ask that? Hmmm....PM me I suppose if needed! Thanks Richy

If you use something fanciful and nondescriptive of the business, you will have a much easier time getting trademark protection for the name if and when you decide to go that route. Also, once you establish yourself, a non-descript name is more easily remembered.

I like looking for URLs that are available. It is nice if the name is close to or the same as the URL so people looking for the business easily find it, particularly for an online store. Of course, search engines index the page so its not so important for people coming in from there.

You might try combining your name and your girlfriends together. Using part of each first or last name together could be something that works. There are also random word generators (http://www.wordconstructor.com/index.php) that might help spark some creativity!

Just my thoughts . . . .

B.

I don't have pics (so what the heck am I posting for? - TIVO), but Paula Abdul from American Idol had some real tall heels on last week, as she often does. I spend most of the show leaning to the side like I could control the camera to get a better shot!

Boo to no hot linking. Here it is - I hope!

The dollar shall rule forever - can do THIS with a Euro!

http://www.giladorigami.com/P_High_Heel_Yamaguchi.JPG

Hi Tink and welcome! I hope you don't forget about us too soon and stay and chat awhile! Good to have you here!

Sarah: It is very hard to give you an answer you can believe. At 20, you have so many options and opportunities before you. Many of us here in our 40's (or 30-50 for that matter) are nostalgic for such carefree times as you may well have. The best advice you can take is to look in your heart and do whatever the hell you feel like it that doesn't hurt yourself or others.

imperative

*Begin tounge-in-cheek patriotism* America on Euros - rofl rofl rofl. We are far to stubborn and ignorant to ever go there! Certainly you know what's good for the rest of the world is not good for US! *End that rant* More seriously, much of my business comes from outside the US. When the dollar falls, I get a lot more work since my customers/clients can buy more of my time for less of their currency. When the dollar rises, there's usually strong economics in the US that benefit investment. So, I win both sides of that! On my most recent trip to Europe, I did wonder how everyone there can afford to live though! Looking forward to seeing you all here in heels! Brit.

Confident ("Me" as in me or "me" as in you - it was too dangerous for sarcasm or wit Dr. S!)

Welcome and good to see you here!