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Since covid closed the nail shops we help each other with mani and pedi weekly. 
 

My girlfriend usually insists in bright red as the perfect color for my toe nails. We have tried black, bright pink, nude and many other colors, but last Sunday she said enough of experimenting, let’s keep the red (can use different shades, but only red) for now on. I agreed if we include pink in this basket.  💅🏼

My point here is… what color of high heeled sandals you prefer with red nails? If having to choose between this 3 options - black, red and nude.

Or it depends on the rest of the outfit?

Which color of shoes highlights better?

4 hours ago, KneeBooted said:

Are you on Instagram? Could’ve sworn I saw you post this on there. If so, send a heelo(pun intended)! I’m jeff.in.heels

Hi Jeff… I’m on IG but did not post this picture.

On 5/22/2021 at 7:52 PM, Jkrenzer said:

I'm a  bit confused, she's in the boots makes her happy? Or is that you wearing them?

I was wearing the boots, and making her happy for that. Each of us drove half of the way… 

This model from Au Bottier. Its not available anymore. 

In a short trip to a country house today… 

4” leather boot. Block heel. Easy to drive, not so easy to walk!

Making her happy! 😜

16 hours ago, Jkrenzer said:

Brings back memories of Brazil. A common seen, incredible.

You are 100% right, specially in São Paulo… every day, when going to work you can ser dozens of heels in the streets over 2”. 

In my office, I would say 30-40% of all women wear over 2” heels in a daily basis. Some os them go almost extreme with 4-5” heels (with platforms).

Can’t complaint either! 

21 hours ago, Shyheels said:

How do you know it was a girl? 

Very good point… could be anyone of us!

When going home yesterday came across this girl in a very busy street, wearing some leather pants and very sexy nude 4” sandals!

Wanted to congratulate her… but no chance at all!

I’m not also a big fan… but she likes them a lot. She gave me this pair and very frequently chooses them. I cannot complain for many reasons, but one of them is that they’re very easy to walk and dance…

Here is a close up

This pair of sandals are one of my favorites…

and of course some boots…

It’s crazy how she became such an enthusiast about my high heels wearing and pushes the boundaries with empathy and care.
 

Another fun weekend where we took a four hour makeup class and tried some new outfits… and heels! Unfortunately most of the pictures did not capture the heels. This one got hers better!

She bought 3 months ago in a brick’n’mortar store that closed due to the pandemic… very sad. 

If anyone ever get a chance do travel do Brazil 🇧🇷, this are shoes brands that produce fairy nice shoes with sizes normally up to 12W. 
 

- Constance

- AuBottier

- Dominio da Moda

- Cacielli

Any other suggestions from Brazilian Heelers?

Just wanted to share this picture of us on New Year’s Eve with me wearing my new rhinestone sandal from Constance... unfortunately they weren’t available in her size. 
 

I also love her high heels, they are a 4” nude block heel from schutz. 

Hope you like the shoes!

I have known Constance (a brazilian brand that produces sizes up to 12W) for a long time, but their selection was very limited in that size. But last month, while Christmas shopping for my girlfriends mother, we found that they expanded the available models... the result was tragic for my credit card... 😜

Just loved the rhinestone style! Hard to stand for a long period, but very pretty! The other two are the same model in different colors. Very comfortable because of the platform. 
 

They are all a little bit over 5”... 🥳

2 hours ago, jeremy1986 said:

First of all, amazing pics. 

The transformation you describe is quite amazing too.  It's obviously about internal character and perspective too, no? We she very much against your heeling at the start? How did things change for you?

Thank you Jeremy. Hope this loooooong answer doesn’t bore you.

Indeed, I’m referring to a behavior that touches all aspects of our life... our interests, our needs, and beliefs. I have shared with her this forum and we talked about some struggles a lot of us go through in our relationships. 

Heeling, understood here as a passion, desire or appreciation of a type of shoes... from just buying them and using indoors to be our main choice of footwear is just one aspect of who we are. Could be our choice of espiritual belief, sport to practice or a craft.

Its not fair to have any aspect of who we are, that is not destructive, being cut out or thrown in the back burner because its not accepted by someone we choose to share our life (our whole life... not part of us).

Easier said than done though. The fact the most of us have problems accepting ourselves and specially when comes to heeling, the main stream screams to us that is something wrong... doesn’t make that acceptance easier to accomplish. To deal with this matter in our relationship, first we have to deal with ourselves.

After two marriages, two kids and 40 years... I first met my girlfriend in a professional setting, and from the start noticed her standings in many topics... politics, religion, race, tolerance, sexuality,... she was obviously not main stream. Very tolerant to differences and empathic to life situations of others, I grew very fond of her, although never expecting anything in return.

Very early in our relationship I told her I was fond of high heels and enjoyed some closeted crossdressing. She was very excited and asked immediately to se me wearing that stuff... the one thing she took very seriously was to make sure I understood where I really stood in terms of understanding my sexuality.

And being very sure of what I have interest and what I don’t like gave her total confidence that I was in peace with my feelings and not in denial for example of being gay or bisexual... and she had done in such a sweet way that she said - its not a problem if you are bisexual - I’ll just have to compete with everyone one out there, and I was ready to compete only with half of them... keeping a good sense of humor and being totally honest put me in a very comfortable situation when sharing something so intimate.

And from that point she became a full supporter and a true partner in everything related to heeling. It was a turbocharge in my own acceptance. We have done amazing things together and now she says that’s not something she is doing for me, but for her. Its part of her life and something that she doesn’t want to go away, but only to grow and be enjoyed without judgment or prejudice.

Sorry for the long text. I just feel I needed to share after reading so many struggles with most of us and living those struggles for so many years.

Really hope everyone have a chance to live a life as full as possible!

Having fun trying different styles and outfits with my girlfriend. Should any opportunities arrive when night clubs reopen... we’re are ready by then. 

Really believe that we should stick and nurture relationships that our significant others are engaged and willing to help us to became better human beings and be true to ourselves. (and of course be that kind of companion to our partner)

Could bet 4 or 5 years ago that having someone like her was impossible, only an out-of-reality dream... and then she is... not only accepting but enjoying, supporting and being a central part in my life.  

On 10/17/2020 at 8:31 AM, mlroseplant said:

Was just trying to think of more unexpected advantages of wearing heels, and the only thing that comes to mind at the moment is that, even wearing a mask, people recognize you. That may or may not be an advantage.

I have to admit that wearing a mask has given me more freedom to explore places I currently would not consider to go wearing high heels... or even some more feminine attires. 

For me, the most embarrassing moment in heels is actually the only embarrassing one, and I hope it keeps its record for sometime. 
 

Last year, when leaving a night club with my girlfriend, we had the same 6.3” onlymaker platform sandals. When crossing the street in front of the club, the sandal strap broke and I went down... Fortunately other than the shoe and my ego, I was fine. She helped me to stand again and get to the car. 
We got the shoe fixed in the weeks ahead but since this is my second pair of onlymakers that have straps getting lose when wearing them I’m reluctant to wear outside again. 
Have any of yours onlymaker shoes break apart?

On 8/7/2020 at 7:14 PM, Thighmax said:

do you have long nails too?  I love the look of long painted nails

No, unfortunately not. I do love the look and feel of long painted nails. When we dress up, I put on false nails. 
 

While we wait for this disease to go away... new outfits and shoes are being tested... matching outfits are something to be tried in the future!

Wearing golden sandals from Lovirs.

From last weekend...

Me and my girlfriend in two different occasions... the second time we had matching heels... she loves the idea of having matching heels... they are 4 different pairs for now... 

On 2/13/2020 at 8:50 AM, SF said:

It is good to have an understanding wife / girlfriend.  I do and it is great.  The wife and I have been wearing heels together for many years.  Be honest and up front with each other, you won't regret it.  Here's a pic of the wife and I....  

Have fun....   sf

Totally agree with your advice! Thank you for sharing. Lovelly picture!

A couple more shots from that magical night.

Thanks for sharing.

Found this collection browsing the internet. Seems awsome.

www.gianvitorossi.com

Hope you enjoy.

Does anyone have any experience with this designer/shop?

I hope this times the SS's don't get too dark.

This is a very short sequence where Mikaela switches between 4" black patent heels and flats as they try to escape from an alien girl... the alien also is wearing a nice pair of heels...

It all starts at the airport...

http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj116/mmartins07/transformers/transformers4.png

http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj116/mmartins07/transformers/transformers5.png

When they start to run she has her heels on...

http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj116/mmartins07/transformers/transformers7.png

But then comes the flats...

http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj116/mmartins07/transformers/transformers8.png

Then heels...

http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj116/mmartins07/transformers/transformers9.png

And flats again...

http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj116/mmartins07/transformers/transformers10.png

And then she admits that's hard to run with them and take it off...

http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj116/mmartins07/transformers/transformers11.png

Finally the flats are on and running...

http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj116/mmartins07/transformers/transformers12.png

The end...

As for extras...

1. She changes clothes (and shoes outside the garage) and put this nice 4" white mules on...

http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj116/mmartins07/transformers/transformers2.png

http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj116/mmartins07/transformers/transformers3.png

2. And for the boot lovers... this is a nice SS...

http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj116/mmartins07/transformers/transformers1.png

3. The alien girl heels...

http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj116/mmartins07/transformers/transformers6.png

Hope you enjoy...