rocketmann

If you do try to go for it. Maybe some night when your sitting around ask her if you could paint her nails. Talk with her and have a good conversation. Do that a couple of times. Then sometime when your painting her nails ask her if she would like to paint yours. The first time might be no. Maybe the next time will be sure. If she throws a chair at you, then disregard on last.

Keep in mind that if you look like a victim you have more of a chance to be that victim. What has already been said is that if you exhibit some attitude and appear confident then its not worth a person with negative feelings to tell you those. My first experience in heels was in front of 3 women. They looked, but not long. Giggled as I expected. One of them said , "I wear a pair of those at my job". I assume she was a stripper because I was wearing 8" heels with platform. Remember this was my first time out. What made a difference was I walked past the girls. I made eye contact. I glided with confidence right past them. I turned it into a positive encounter instead of a negative one.

I agree. I have a pair of 5.5 heels. The shoe would twist like there wasn't enough support in the arch.

You bet!

Anybody else waiting for the Bombshell-31 pumps to appear. From the highest heel collection. I believe it is a 6.5" heel with a 2.5 hidden platform. Looks like on the outside there are studs or jewels. I love the look of the hidden platform up front. I was waiting for a higher heel something over 6". Good luck

I think for next summer I would like to wear Capri pants with a pair of 8" heels. Thighbootguy, I think I will try the thigh boots this winter to sounds fun

I just found out that my girlfriend told her girlfriend that I wear heels. I said OK, call her up and invite her over. I think it would be neat for a closer friend to come over and see me in my heels. She did call her friend but she could not come over. I asked my girlfriend what her friend thought about me in heels. She told me she thought it was cool. I use this when I think that people are going to be negative toward me. You know usually you might get some looks, but really that's not bad. I have learned that if you are wearing heels in public and wear bulky disguise's and try and hide from people then it looks like you are doing something wrong. Throw the shoulders back walk with confidence, say hello to people who look and you will have a good time. Don't let others rain on your parade. The more heelers out there the better for all of us.

Knowing that other heel lovers were in the same boat as me. This gave me the confidence to go out in public. Boy did that make me feel wonderful. I finally got to walk more then 40 feet in a house. I went out in public because I wanted the freedom of expression. It did make me feel good when other people saw me in the heels though. Don't forget I was wearing 8" heels. Pretty noticeable, but sexy. If I hadn't read comments and stories on this forum I would never had gone out in public and felt comfortable. Yes I said comfortable that is how I felt. Now I go to a local park and just practice walking in the 8" heels and hone the more feminine style

Anybody else listen as you are walking in your heels to that sexy sound that the heels make when they come in contact with a hard surface. When I hear that sound any other time I am waiting for that that confident and commanding personality to walk into view. I think that is a reason why I like wearing heels.

Problem for me is I am probably lounging in a satin chemise top. This adds more challenge stumbling away from the windows trying to rip off the chemise so the UPS guy doesn't see. Ironic that in fact he is delivering more high heels as im trying to get mine off

I think the brand is highheels. They look like bordello's in a 5.5" heel. The best thing is the color, leopard pewter. HOT I think snaz75 has them and I believe up to size 14.

Thanks 9inchheel, the high platform makes it more comfortable for me to wear for the day.

Ha ha ha this is funny. I have like one pair of old worn out sneakers and like 10 pair of nice new heels. I think I need to get a new pair of boy shoes next. Alright one pair of boy shoes and 2 pair of heels.

Thanks hiheellover23, I just want to wear my heels. It would be cool to get another person out wearing their heels and show them it's not to bad. I don't want to sound over confident because I have only been out a few times, but once is better than none.

Happyinheels, I think I am getting a bit interested in the wedges!

For me it's the height. The longer the heel the sexier!

I started out with a chunky heel because it gave more stability. Then I progressed to the spike heel. I practice alot on the spike heels. I can walk fairly smooth and confident in them. I really like the slimness of a long heel preferably a round shaft. I put my chunky heels on the other day and immediatly switched back to the spike heels for comfort and looks.

I love to heel in 8" heels with platform.

Thighbootguy, I would say that I'm good at portraying the look of comfortable. I walk with confidence yet I still work on it. I don't live around big cities so heeling in public is a challenge sometimes. I felt great lastnight. I think our minds were racing a bit and it got the best of us. I'm a person who doesn't turn the hd and wish that the scary person wouly. If I have a negative situation arise I hope to educate that person, walk away and hope the person goes out and buys a pair of heels.

Thanks Thighbootguy, I have 5" pumps but it feels like I'm wearing flats. I love the 8" heels. I agree with being aware of your surroundings. When you step out that door you hope there is no trouble on the otherside. All I can say is that we made it yet another time. I can't wait for the day that it is not uncommon for males to wear large heels. I would love love to venture out for dinner or a movie or just go for a walk. I love to just walk in the heels.

I bought a pair of 8" heel pleaser knee high boots black. I love these boots. I wore the other pair out so I had to buy replacements.

Went out lastnight with my girlfriend to a glbt club. I was wearing a black t-shirt, bell bottom womens jeans, and hilghlife 8" single ankle strap white in color heels. Went well. We had to walk about 2 blocks to the club. We entered the club and received the inital look from 4 people already settled in. I wasn't nervous which was a god sent. We ordered a martini which I say was strong enough to knock me off my heels and played a couple games of darts. I was so happy in my heels. I could see see my reflection in the front windows and I have to say that was a sexy image. It was encouraging to have people walking by the windows looking in and see me standing in my heels. No problems to this point. We were about to leave and I thought to myself I don't know what's on the other side of the door. We walked outside and I saw a man standing in the shadows a few doors down. Well we didn't have to walk by him so good so far. As we were walking I noticed we were walking at a much faster pace then going to the club. As we neared our vehicle I crossed the intersection. My girlfriend told me in the vehicle she saw a male in an alley that was staring at me, but then went back inside the alley. Well we left the area and talked and laughed all the way home. I'm uncertain if we were in any danger, but it sure seemed like it at the time. My girlfriend told me she can't wait until the next time we go out with me me in my heels.

I just bought 2 pair of 8" heels single ankle strap. Highlife one white and on red. I love them

I feel great! Went out into the world with my heels. My girlfriend accompanied me. I wore 8" xtreme platform knee high boots, blue jeans and a black button down shirt. Decided to visit an adult entertainment store. Figured there wouldn't be many people there on a Tuesday night. We pulled into the parking lot and one car was leaving and one car was parked in front. I got out of our vehicle without hesitation. Big surprise. My girlfriend opened the door and we walked right in. The store clerk was looking at us, but didn't seem to have a surprised look. I was thinking ok maybe one other person in here. Wrong! There were 4 girls staring me down. Wow. I walked right past them with confidence and showed the clerk my id. We walked throughout the store and my girlfriend says to me when I walked past the girls one of them had eyes about the size of fifty cent pieces. I didn't feel like I thought I would feel. I was calm and really didn't care about those girls. I heard them giggle a bit and I heard one of them say she wears those to work. I found the item I wanted and purchased it at the checkout counter. Not once did the store clerk make me feel out if place. We scarfed up the purchase and made our way to the door right past the girls again. I felt like going to another store. I made it through and it was great. No anxiety attack or nothing. Can't wait for another opportunity to go out in my heels people.