tiffany

Hi Maxine and Welcome. I'm also new to the forums but everyone here is very nice and you'll no doubt feel right at home very soon. Tiffany

Hi misschocolat, Welcome to the forum. I would love to see some of your pics. Tiffany

I sometimes buy the shoes first. I see a pair I really like and I go for them and then find a skirt/blouse to go with it. Some other times I buy the outfit first and then look for the shoes, which is currently the case with my latest outfit: I bought it, bought lingerie and now I'm just waiting for a real nice pair of baby pink pumps/sandals.

What I hate about heels is that I can't wear them freely without it being something "not common".

Most of the time the salespeople make some comment like, "I'm sure she'll enjoy these," to which I reply, "There is no 'she.' I like wearing heels,'" and usually pull up my pant leg and show them.

I absolutely hate that... I've heard those comments come from both male and female employees. Most of the time I tell them they are for me as I find it so irritating that they assume it's for someone else.

I remember one time at payless a girl said to me "she's going to love them" when I asked to see a particular mule in my size and I told her "those are for me". She said something like "that's a shame" which kind of pissed me off but then she tried selling me hose and more shoes which kind of made up for her comment.

Why is it so hard to break the relationship between clothing and gender?

Name: Tiffany Age: 31 Gender: Male Location: Canada Occupation: IT Height: 170cm Weight: 80kg Shoe size: US 9 shoes / 10 boots What's your favourite heel style: Stiletto What's your favourite shoe style: All Do you wear your heels outside: Not yet What is: (a) Your favourite heel height: 3" - 4" ( Your highest heel height: 6" How often do you wear: (a) Your favourite heel height: as often as possible ( Your highest heel height: sometimes Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes: all options. Anything else you wish to add: I started wearing my aunts high heels when I was 5, since then I moved on to crossdressing since women have so many more and nicer shoes/clothing options

An ankle bracelet is so classy when paired with beautiful pumps!

Couldn't have said it better myself!

... No body really cares and I'm thinking thats the reason for this post, huh? No fear!They're only shoes and thats all.

Yes, I guess it's mostly fear. Mostly it's from cute girls around (shopping/selling). I know I probably wont date them or even meet them but there's something about it that sometimes makes me turn around and prevent me from even buying a pair without even trying them on.

I guess I shouldn't be too preocupied with what other people think.

Hi pumpedup! Welcome to the forums I must say I love pumps too, but then again I love all high heeled shoes hehe. I hope you enjoy it here. Tiffany

Hi HighHeelLove! I'm a newbie to the forums too but I already feel very comfortable so you should probably feel at home in no time! Welcome! Tiffany

I'm not sure how everybody else buys their heels but for me being a self tagged closet CD I usually buy my heels either online and sometimes right on the store but without trying them on. My question is: do you usually try the heels you are about to buy at the store or do you buy by guessing the size and then exchange them for the appropriate size if they don't fit? For those who buy at the store what is the usual reaction you get from other shoppers and the sales people? Tiffany

Thank you all for the welcome. I'll try to post some pics soon.

Hard to choose stockings or thigh highs. It could be stockings if they came with some garter belt

Hi DallasHeels, I wish all women and men were as open and understanding as your wife. Congratulations on having such a wonderful partner. Tiffany

Hi all, I'm Tiffany a CD from Toronto, Canada. I've been in love with high heels since forever. I love them all: pumps, boots, sandals, wedges, etc. I just love the power these shoes have and how sexy they make women and men look. XOXO Tiffany