Glosha

As I was reading all your posts, I've made a big step and went to a fetish club, where nobody cares what and how you wear, in my 4" Vanity Black Pleasers. Spend 1/2 hour driving there in heels, 2-2.5 hrs in club and 1/2 hr drive back. The best experience was that nobody knew me, except for one girl that invited me to club and my GF, and almost nobody were looking @ me like I was some kind of a freak. My girl didn't like the place, so I guess we are not coming back and my public time in heels will reduce, unless we'll find some better place to hang out in similar way. But experience of being locked in heels until I got to the car was awsome (the keys to locks were in a car and one in my GFs pendant. But my girl didn't believe me that I could spend more than 1 hour in heels. All this time we were standing and I didn't beg for the key , so now I've proved her wrong that men can not walk in heels with comfort). Thanks to all for a support and I did it because you encouraged me.

As everyone said: no embarasement. I went deeper. As I recently bough a pair of Pleasers and they been a bit too tight on me, I went to cobler, told him that I lost a bet to my GF and need them stretched. I bet, even if I didn't told him the last part, he wouldn't care and would just do what I asked. So, take shoes, go to cobler and just ask to re-tip them. Belive us: it is much easier to do it than you imagine yourself. Good luck and don't be shy: if you decided to wear them, then you are doing great. P.S.: even if he'll start chatting who's heels are, don't worry to tell that they are your GF's. There are girls with size 11 feet and I bet they are more shy to re-tip or fix their shoes @ coblers than you are!

I can only wear my heels in a closet, lonely park, in the car or in fetclub (alone or with my GF), any other options are not acceptable. She just don't get why we want to be unsocial. She thinks it's gay. If somebody have an opinion to how to change her mind, suggestions welcome, preferably in private message as I'm bad @ checking posts.

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Checked out web site, but it doesn't say how the mold is done for different heel height. Where in Canada are you?

I'm not sure if I want to constantly shave my legs, but if someone waxed legs and balls then please tell where hurts more: I've waxed only my balls and area around. (I didn't do it myself, went to a kinky esthetician's dungeon and got it done there and will do it again in half month) Nothing scary about waxing the balls when it is done.

I drive my 5 speed manual 4x4 pickup all the time in heels. Never could understand what the problem was.

I think I know what is a problem: us heeling out. but it is a good problem.

My wife knows and has helped me with selecting heels. Her only concern is I don't wear high heels in front of the kids.

You are one lucky guy!

Most of us earned or trained our girls to accept heels in private places. But your wife is just a miracle. As I see she even allows you to wear skirts.

My girl is just freaking out if I'm giving her a hint about guy in a skirt.

I said No as I'm driving in my 4" Pleaser Vanity 434 any time I'm driving alone or with my GF. No platform. See pic attached. Driving distance is not a problem anymore. Can drive without any discomort or stress as the first time. But lowering my points as it is auto. If I'll get higher heels (5-7") will definitly try driving. Hint to you: wear female sox, it will ease a fit and improve the feeling.

I'm glad to be in Toronto as I found great web site with a fet comunity and on Dec. 16 I'm going out to club, where nobody will care what I wear. Kinky Kristmas is coming to Toronto and I'll be in my 4" heels first time out in public. Hope I'll have a lot of positive remarks of me wearing heels. I suggest to find your local comunity through fetlife.com and go out not alone. This will boost your confidence. If you'll not find a comunity, try building one. Sometimes people need a push to come out of the closet.

Mine does not know and it will not be a nice situation when she does. Since I've found this site a couple weeks ago - I'm always wanting to log on but I have to reframe from doing from home and continue at work. This way she will not find out.

how long you've been together? Maybe it is a good time to tell her before she found herself. Otherwise it will look like she was too boring for you. If you don't want her think that you are "cheating" on her with heels.

I'm with my girl for 5 years, but I told her about heels only month ago and explained to her that I want to be fully open. She don't like the idea, but we found equilibrium of me wearing heels and her not getting frustrated.

Try looking @ fetlife.com and maybe you both will be able to go to event where she'll see a guy in high heels. Kinky Kristmass is coming to town and I hope I'll be there.

P.S.: which sity in Canada you from? Maybe we can hang out and she'll see me in heels and then you'll sugest her to try wearing them yourself.

Good luck and keep us posted.

I'm curious to try waxing my leggs. Not sure if I'll get permission from my GF. But she made me wax my balls and "manzillian" area, so I guess, after manzillian waxing leggs is a baby procedure. Did anyone waxed their leggs?

great story.... ever used locks on your shoes to trap you in?

if you are interested on trapping yourself in heels 4-6" then google Pleaser heels 434 series. I own Vanity black patent 4" and sometimes trap the key somewhere, so I'm heeled for while. thinking on getting Domina heels as they have interchangable cuffs, 6" high and I could use the culfs on my Vanity heels to walk in public without the sight of locks .

I don't think that Pleaser Vanity 434 is a stripper pair of 4" heels. They look pretty regular and you can insert or remove the lockable anckle strap. Who interested, just google them. Next Halloween I don't care what wil happen, but I'll be wearing them to the club with a skirt. Right now I'm playing slow not to kill my relationships. She's a bit used to my fetish (and some other ones) and we can walk in a park @ evening together. I still need more guts to wear them to strip club, but maybe we'll do it and as an explanation I can tell to people and friends that I lost a bet. Will work on this idea in a slow motion. Maybe I'll have to loose a bet

You might be @ luck if you have same shoe size as her and by telling her that you'd like to know how it feels wearing heels you might be able to get away "trying" her heels. Otherwise you'll have to find the pleasures that she like and introduce her the passion to heels when she'll be wrapped around your neck. I have a deal with my gf: I pleasure her (massages, foot rubs, etc.) and she allows me to wear the heels outside or driving the car. Also I'm getting walks in a park for me getting trained to walk on heels as she thinks that I don't know how to walk in heels. Maybe try doing a bet that you'll be able to walk in heels better than she does. But don't rush pushing it on her, go slow not to freak her out.

I think Aldo is a good place to start looking. Their line is pushed to the 5" heel with 2" platform mostly, but I think I saw few heels that looked higher than 4".

I hope your girlfriend will be accepting of your love of heels...I truly admire your mission of being yourself with her, regardless of her reacton...

I'm puzzled! Maybe because she's a girl, but she keep changing her mind all the time.

Today I suggested her to go to a fetish event where she could keep me in heels until I fall or crack down and she sounded like she's up to that.

If this will happen on a weekend, I either wouldn't be a able to walk or I'll prove to her that I can stay in 4" for longer than she thinks.

Personally, I think I can handle 1-1.5 hrs in heels, but if I'll have to be in them longer then I think I'll be in trouble.

Can't you simply ask the retailer you purchased them from, to swap the size for you..?

Hello,

New to site and I'm so happy I signed up. I have felt so terrible and guilty my whole life that I have this love for heels. I do not know how many times I have bought and thrown out pairs out of guilt.

I tried to explain once to my wife but she just thinks I'm crazy and need help so I do not keep any shoes at house. I only get to wear them when I travel and stay away from home.

I cannot understand why I like to wear them or love to see other women wearing them but I finally know I'm not alone.

I'm still having trouble figuring out this site as not sure how to get someone to reply or where to look.

You are warmly welcome! We would love to hear your passion and help with advice.

That is true. I'm trying toswitch my job for almost 2 years. Had few interviews and feeling lucky even getting them.

Call me lazy, but love my Nissan Altima 2007 2.5 x CVT. No shifts, smooth like on water. When I got it never thought that car can be so enjoyable without the stupid automatic unpredictable gear shifts.

And along with that, drink plenty of water. That will help you do the things you previously mentioned.

I would rather spend more money on my reverse osmosis water filter and will be drinking cleaner water, than will think to buy some toxic pads.

My girl wanna burn my heels

Received by mail today 3 skirts. See attached. They are so comfy, smooth and beautiful. Will try to go on some fetish party in them and in my heels sometime.

Hi guys. Long time ago I've bought Pleaser Lip 106 5" heels in size 12 and as it was my first purchase, I found out that I need size 11.

Do you think there is a sense bringing them to shoe repairer and asking to shorten the front laces, so they will sit on my feet properly? Otherwise my leg is just not in the right spot and I can't walk in them because of it.

I've attached a picture of the shoe just to show what I can't wear, yet.

Thanks for any advice.

http://www.hhplace.org/attachments/hellos_goodbyes_introductions/14622d1320719308-hello_everybody_toronto_canada-41teirt_qal._sy395_.jpg