helexus

My earliest memory is around age 3, tried to put on a pair of my aunts strappy heels and new I liked them.

Thanks all!!!

I have posted some PICS of my shoes on webshots.com. Feel free to look me up on there and comment on them. I also ask that you bring your comments to HH place.

I do not post my shoe PICS on here as it is not permitted to just post PICS of your shoes. No issues with the rules, I am not interested in retaking tons of PICS for posting.

High heels forever!!!

Personally I have no issues with pointing out I like someone’s heels. From my experience, women like to hear compliments on the things they wear. I often notice the heights of people and sometimes I start out the compliment with address the fact I have noticed that they are taller or shorter than the last time I saw them. Also shows you pay attention to them. As long as you are not creepy, most women do not mind.

I feel sexy as hell in heels... I love to see gals in heels. Nothing better... Heels go with everything and everything goes with heels. I have to again point out I am not a boot fan so not many boots are sexy to me. I will take a heeled boot over a flat shoe almost all the time. )

They are interesting to me. I am not a fan of boots, other than that, I think they are more for sexual use. I admire those that can walk in them. It is tough. I own a pair and can get 4 steps and down I go.

I would not wear one of them... But I have said it before... I am not a boot fan.

Boots... YES!!! there can be too many... But I am not a boot fan... I have a couple pair just to try to find an appeal... I like to see the sexy female foot attached to the hot ankle connected to the fantastic leg all coated in skin, sometimes through nylons... And the boot takes away from all that... OH... And I love my feet too!!!!! (And the other stuff)

I was out at my daughters concert tonite, my wife and the dragon, sorry mother in law was with us, and sitting beside me was a middle age woman, a stunner, green top and black leggings on, medium length blond hair with the sexiest pair of pirate boots on, black with a four inch heel. I think I was caught more than once having a sly look ( could'nt help myself ) however later at home recieved both barrels of the shotgun for getting caught. Currently in the dog house right now.

Any one else have the same problem?

Nope never... Cause I never hide it and never will... Human nature to want to look at the things we find appealing. Wether it is a nice car, a nice scene, a hot chic, or sexy shoes on a shelf or hot chic... What is the problem? My wife and I agree it is never never NEVER a problem unless you are insecure about yourself.

I think if she ever got upset with me for looking at things, people hot chics, what ever, that would be the time for her to move... I am not living like a tree for anyone.

I guess to answer your question, yes... Been caught lots of times, but not worried about it... )

Hi, fellas;

I'm new here, and I hate to be disruptive, but I have serious questions that I would REALLY appreciate answered: by men, honestly.

Because you wear heels, do you consider yourself a crossdresser? NO

If you consider yourself a heterosexual crossdresser, and heels are 'merely' your favorite thing, are you only attracted to women who dress as you like to dress?

I am not a cross dresser, but I am heterosexual. I do like women in high heels and short skirts. Not because I like to wear it, but cause I like to see it!!

If you have fantasies regarding being female, when dressed or not, do you fantasize about sexual encounters with men? I do not fantasize about being female. I do not like guys in any way. I like the style of cloths that are primarily developed for women in a society that seems to need this division for... Comfort? I do not know why really.

If you are in a committed heterosexual relationship, how do your fantasies and dressing affect your relationship with your significant other? My wife is not bothered by my desire for wearing the cloths I wear. I find that to be a tribute to her confidence and self worth to not allow something as non-threatening as this to intimidate her.

I know these are intrusive questions (I HOPE I have the right forum for this), and I appreciate greatly your honesty in answering. If I'm being inappropriate , please let me know.

Thanks!

I do not think you are asking anything intrusive. I feel you are curious and have a bit of an issue in your life with this very situation. Not to be negative sounding. Allow an explanation of mine.

Definitions: Transsexual - altered by medical procedure to change sexual appearance; Transvestite - person appearing to be of the opposite sexual gender (Full time); Cross dresser - Person appearing to be of the opposite sexual gender (Part time); Metro sexual - Male with high fashion sense often viewed as possibly homosexual or feminine; Hybrid fashion dresser - person that enjoys fashions derived from the opposite sexual gender but not intending to be viewed or presented as the opposite sex.

*NOTE* NONE of which are necessarily homosexual in anyway, shape or form.

I picked the best option I could. Truth be told, I wear them for all the reasons listed and more. Sometimes for several of the reasons at one time, and sometimes for just one. Just love them!!!

I wear "Female derived fashions" all the time. I feel it is not womens cloths. It is tailored for the female body, but there are things I can wear and make look good... Found most often, the female derived clothing is much more comfortable.

Personally I love skirts... Why is it only acceptable to wear that ugly plaid Scottish one? I guess if you like it, but the only one I have like that is a micro skirt for fun!!!

On the designer subject; does anyone have the wish more shoe makers would produce shoe sizes over us size 11? How about just create a line of the same shoes for mens feet sizes and shapes..? Just a thought; And I am sure all of us have it.

I have tried the ice thing. It seems to work sometimes and requires more than one attempt. I feel we all must simply do the following when buying shoes: Do they have my size? Yes or No If no; Can not have the shoes. End of story. More power to those that have gotten to them first. Keep an eye on ebay...

I am on the fence. I often feel like not talking to people in person or on the phone. But when I must than I need that contact. Facebook... Great idea. I have found people I have not seen or heard from for over 2 decades. Also, it is not real life. I would recommend never taking it serious. H.E. Lexus

Always wearing heels around the house... Working on getting outside more often...

As mentioned, it is good to be back. I have not been on this site for several years. I had to re-register. :penitent:I cannot express my joy when I first located this site approximately 10 years ago.

Hoping to make my presence here more known.

WELCOME FROM MINNESOTA!!!

Hoping for warm weather sooner than later...

Love high heels!!!

H.E. Lexus