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NewfieGuyInHeels

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  1. For me, in the beginning, I just liked the idea of having more of a variety. Mens shoes are basicly sneakers, casuals, and sandals. And boots are more work oriented than fashion. Incorperating women's shoes into my wardrobe opened up more possibilities. But I've noticed that (where I'm only 5'5) obviously I look taller, but my legs and body seem more in proportion and slimmer. My taste is more for chunky heels and platforms. I tried the stiletto and slimmer heels, but I just don't think it's for me. And besides, platforms were in style in the 70's for guys, so I'm just enjoying a style I missed out on. Feel free to message me, I'd be more than happy to email ya pics of outfits I've put together.

  2. Hey Le752. I'm a 24 year old guy and I'm into the heel thing myself. I'm pretty open with it. And the only advice I can give you is what I would want if I was in your bf's place. I would want you to just tell me the truth. and the sooner the better. Tell him exactly what you told us. That you don't mind it, but if you do have any boundries you wanna set discuss it with him.Don't go into theatrics, or stories or anything. Just tell him that you came across the sites on his comp, etc, etc. The fact that you seem so at ease with the idea of him wearing them with you makes him a very lucky guy. I live in a place that doesn't have alot of ppl expressing their own style in unique ways. So if I was to find a girl as accepting as you, I'd considder myself VERY lucky as well. But anyway, i'm rambling. In short, just be honest. Start at the beginning and work your way to now. And the sooner the better. I fully believe he'll feel such a weight come off his shoulders. Good Luck!

  3. Take it from me and over half the ppl on this site. It's all in your head! Ppl really don't care as much as you may think. I rarely notice anyone even looking, and even if I do notice someone, they only glance but they don't make a big deal about it. Those boots with those jeans, you can pull off easily! But you do have to progress at a rate you're comfortable with. But look at it this way, you have a girlfriend that's comfortable with you in heels. So if she's fine with it do you think complete strangers are gonna care any more? Very doubtful. But power to ya, and I hope you find the confidence you need soon.

  4. I really love those boots! I was out shopping a few days ago and I had it in mind to get something like those, sadly I didn't see anything that really fit what I was looking for. But I did find these is Sears!

    http://photos.yafro.com/pics3/i/20060203/06/b/9/c/b9cf9eb4ac65c4b339877c48f8a37b28200602030_full.jpg

    http://photos.yafro.com/pics3/i/20060203/06/0/5/a/05a1553c0ee87cd097d5d4c555b9be4b200602030_full.jpg

    They're usually not my taste, but after I was looking at them for a bit I figured it maybe nice to have a pair of heels I could just slip on and go, so i tried them on and then I HAD to have them. And they were marked down to $15 CDN, that was enough to me, SOLD!

  5. This is all great stuff. But unfortunately no one has touched on my question. I commend the guy for being himself, and dressing as he pleases. And he's extreamly lucky to have such a supportive family. However, like I said before, his singing wasn't that great, so the judges didn't let him advance. But the second he found that out, he blamed them for judging his looks instead of his voice. Also he talked about how many ppl mistake him for a girl... well I think we can all agree that if we weren't told, we'd all make that mistake as well. So reiterate, if someone who has features contrary to their sex, and also wear cross gender clothing, is it right for them to get upset if ppl make the honest mistake about their gender? But I do agree that Idol saying it was the "weirdest audition ever" was a bit much. I know for a fact tye've had weirder and it wasn't fair to call him weird based off his style.

  6. I was watching American Idol tonight. and one of the last ppl to audition was a guy named Zackery (spelling?) He was wearing slim blue jeans, a white double latch belt, a short, short, sleeved T shirt. and black 4" heel boots. his hair was dirty blond and about to the top of his neck in length. and his voice, mannerisims, and features (slim body and such) were very feminine. But he took offence to the judges when they mistook him for a girl. Now of course I'm not gonna judge ppl for what they wear and how they look and act. But he can't be so blind to see that we was very feminine looking, especially with his taste in fashion. So what I'm asking is, if other ppl have features who look the opposite to their sex AND indulge in freestyle fashion, are mistaken for the opposite sex, do they really have the right to be upset by other ppl's reactions/mistakes? I was also wondering if anyone else had seen his audition? Personally I loved his outfit, if I was as slim as he was I would be inclined to dress pretty similar. But in my opinion, he shouldn't have taken offence to them questioning his gender. He also blamed them for using his image as their reason for not accepting him into the compitition. I closed my eyes as he was singing and personally I agreed with the judges, his voice wasn't right for that sort of compitition.

  7. Hey all! I've really enjoyed viewing all your pics and thought I'd put up a link to my site on yafro where you can see some of my pics. Not all of my outfits have heels, but a few do. And I have pics up of some of my boots themselves. And please feel free to send me comments on my pics. Good or bad, I can take critisism.

    here's the link http://raze.yafro.com/

    Just to let you know, I'm 24 and I live in Newfoundland Canada. And I've gotten into heeling over the past 2 years. And I would like to extend a big thank you to everyone who has shared on this site. Befoire I found it I was feeling like I was the only one. I knew of Tranvestites and drag queens and such. But I mean wearing heels as a man. But after I found this site and a couple others I have gained so much confidence, and for that, I want to thank you all!

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