t-strap lover Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 It looks like Ben2006 is getting off to a fair start with his wife. It will take time. Maybe even years but his wife will accept the shoes. It took a long time for me. I've been married now for 40 years and I still watch myself being careful when wearing heels and in front of my wife. For the most part its ok. Something I haven't tried but would like to is to go to a costume party or event wearing my heels. It would mean I would have to probably dress up in womens clothing, that would be ok even though I'm not a crossdresser. It would be fun to try. I would have posted on Ben's post but It sure is gettig full. Ben2006,you posted a very interesting story. good luck in the future with your Wife. signed, t-strap lover t-straps are my favorite style. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guy N. Heels Posted September 6, 2006 Share Posted September 6, 2006 Why would you find a need to dress up as a woman if you're really not a crossdresser? I have worn my stilletoes out to a nice restaurant with grey slacks and a blue blazer. When I needed the rest room I had no qualms whatsoever of going to the men's room. No one said a thing or even seemed to notice I was wearing heels. Some possible suggestions on choice of costume would be a] Pirate - Payless is featuring a high heeled boot with a large buckle this fall that would fit right in; b] Gaucho - see the Payless boot above; c] Gangster - with wide bottomed long-legged pants and heels; d] Darth Vader - in heels of course; e] Biker - in leathers and heels; or f] casual dressed (no costume at all) man in heels. Maybe you can even get the wife to participate in the project. Keep on stepping, Guy N. Heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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