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Hi everyone, As a male heel lover since my teenage years and dealing with lack of support in many long time relationships, I’m finally in peace! For two years my amazing girlfriend is more than a big supporter, she loves my heel wearing and makes sure its not something that will be stuck in boxes or in hidden places. This picture is from a nightclub last weekend. She bought us two pairs of the exactly same heels... from onlymaker. Hope you like it.
A couple of days ago, I saw yet another woman with heels on the street, and something clicked. I knew that if I ever want to be truly happy I must stop hiding what I love. I want to look back at my life when I'm old and say that I did what I wanted to do, and be proud of it. This is also coupled with my (unrelated) strong anti-gender norm feelings. I want change in society, but I realised that I would have to be that change. So I decided that I would start heeling publicly. Today I did the first test: Going to a shoe store and try on heels for the first time, instead of internet shopping. A saleswoman saw me, smiled and left. When She passed me again I asked about her opinion. She didn't find it strange, said that everybody should wear what they want. Nobody else made a remark. A lovely reaction for the first open experience! (You can Imagine how awesome it was to be finally able to try on all the heels they had. I even put on some long boots, and they are cool!) I talked about it with my parents. They say it's up to me, and even though they have remarks they won't stop me. My mom is still uncomfortable with the idea of the whole community knowing about it, though. The next part of my plan is to find some actual nice heels for me, the ones I have at home are not what I want to be seen in Any thoughts or tips on making the first outings as smooth as possible? Thanks. (PS: If you don't recognize me, my name used to be 'jorisken123')