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So would that explain why "submissive" women actually would be opposed to wear stilettos? I actually hope it's not this outspoken. I mean: I hope theres women who don't really want to dominate me and still wear high heels for the beauty and sensuality of it....

imo thats when you have a fixation to the negative side of things instead of sharing this with people who actually care... maybe if hhplace.org was around in 1980, he would be here and venting plasma

You should be able to accept it. Many people just assume that when you have admiration for butts, boobs and symmetrical vamp faces that you are considdered normal, and that when you want to see a girl wear a skirt, then it is generally assumed it's because you want easy access. It's really difficult to try to convince men and women that you just want to admire the gracefullness and find that a motivating feeling on it's own without needing to distract to the common sexual feelings.. Ofcourse thats cool with your partner and all, You don't call a woman who rubs her hands on a leather ferrari seat fetish ? I don't think a fetish is a perversion as long as you don"t harrass people with it... Ofcourse it remains to be seen what others feel as "harrassment". On chats i see alot of spanking and whipping with people who love to persiflage being naughty and revert to sm practices to make themself look "bad"... but why is that more accepted than someone who admire heels ? i don't know.. it's just because the heel admiration isn't as widely known and satired as sm...

I also am quite new here on the forum although I've registere for a long time I didnt really talk much here. I too "think" I have a fetish, although I wouldn't typically be arroused with the heels alone, they must be put on a woman and theen the fetish develops for that woman rather than for the shoe, because it makes her a princess to me.. So fux0ring with a heel to cum or smelling them.... thats not really for me, although i'd love to give my girlfriend a massage with her heels on and I would get nuts if she clicks her heel when she tongue kisses me... For the rest I think i've been able to map 50% of why I like high heels so much.. But not with men, it only restricts itself for women to me... I don't really think you need to be aware of 100% of your heel fetish or heel admiration, there's no magic in that. If you go over analyzing it it might become "normal" and it should never be a normal feeling so I like parts of the feeling to remain unexplained.. It's just the sound and grace of it that I can explain but theres some more motivations like , trying to think how proud she feels wearing them.. stuff like that, and a part is andropomorphisis of the thoughts of her who wears heels)... She can explain herself to bits to why she wears heels, but theres nothing more exciting than just having stuff in your head as a reason to why she does it

*takes pictures* It's a very streamlined sight a woman who has her legs crossed, especially when you see her do it (and I didn't have to watch basic instinct to start appreciating that)... I don't realy know, cause i'm no woman so I can't really aquire the feeling that happens just befor you cross your legs, to me it really also conotes some kind of protection, and actually distracting the viewer to show a beautiful play of elegance, rather than let them gaze where you don't want it when you wearing a knee length skirt right? And in a long skirt it really really is even so much more elegant especially when it has a front slit... It's especially a thing they do away from home no ? the swinging with legs might indeed just be a thing to keep yourself from being totally bored, it's better than smoking anyway

I wish i still had my sound recorder, i'd record every heel wearing babe out there that I found interesting enough to record. My gosh, I never thought I'd find a forum (for godsake) where somebody else would express being turned on by the clicking of women's heels.. Most people i know find me perverted for it, but they do not understand the world behind it.. it's not solely about sex or getting under the skirt as they think. Theres so much diference in clicking of heels, you have the typical hollow wooden but determined schoolteacher heels click, then the kinda slutty tick, but you also have very flat heels that miraculously have this very nervejolting steel tick sound, and then when they walk on metal floors or different kinds of asfalt, marble stone or tiles, well... its music to my ears.. This tapping denotes a sonic translation of the fragility, classyness and respect and formality of a woman (depending on the timbre and highth of the pitch of the sound of the tapping).. it all depends.. Wish i could hear some clicking too ANd when they scrape their heel to the grond cause trhey misplace their foot for a while thats so extremely playful and seksie... and I always try to get them to talk about their heels when they (my femail neighbour for example) are tapping them... it's as if I want them to be aware of how they enrich my life of feelings with such a simple thing that they might not even be conciously experiencing... but if that's not the case, why tap their heels in the first place.. if they're not somehow concious about it.... you rarely see them doing that with sneakers on right? so it must be some natural invitation, or am I just being too "male" here.. BUt i'd wnat to point out that ti for me doesnt exactly mean "i want sex", it's an erotic feeling maybe but somethign that opens up a world on it's own as i said.. It's a bit schizophrenic mybe but when they click their heels i just hear them think "i am a classy fairy and it want you to hear that I am one"

I think there's something innocent and even seksie about those girls trying to be gracious.. , It's like a gracious fairy creature trying to walk, legs seeking, heels clicking and trying to keep balance and then when finally everything works out, they are so sensual...

lol okey i've not been here for a looong time.. but i'd like to revive ths topic.. Don't you reckon that somet hings just happen in nature just as if it is just a convenience, but some other stuf benifits from it.. if it's just a habit, it's very classy and princesslike and fairy like one that makes me feel like being sucked into a fairitale of softness, warmth, protection and elegance.. hard to express really.. I think most of these things are hard to express because many men would act so cheap about it that one would protect themselves from talking about it bacause its always something that winds down to something dirty or so... Ofcourse when I have a girlfriend that does this it's an absolute invitation for me to start running down her legs, but with somebody else it just gives a painty sensation..

and because easter doesn't fall the 25th of december .. (feeling out of touch here )

As I'm not on this forum long I'd really want to start (maybe restart, i don't know) this discussion.... theres really something wich always catches my imagination. Why do women like to cross their legs when they sit, and then start rocking the one that's on top of it ? Again this is something that can be taken as erotic, and artful

thx

well yeah, i realise I might seem "strict" in this way that I personally connect that type of heels for women ? arn't they also streamlined for women feet ? Don't want to debate as I can surely understand and apreciating those who got to the next level of thinking and think heels should be universal wear ... could males also wear a nice tight skirt then ? yes, my thinking of the sexes is "abstract" in such a way that if i would be wanting to wear a skirt or something, i could very well be gay. But well at the other end of the spectrum, people call "me" gay because I have such insights on what heels mean to me so , I think i'm a bit drifting in the middle (hence my odd duck declaration from the first post)... I don't look to heels as "a fasion statement" in the sence that when the masses say heels are out, i still think they're in because they look timeless and raise above other blocky wear. They excell in grace and streamlined forms..

here yes, but if you here from people who call themselves "broadminded" that you are gay or something.. hmm.

anyway, I think i've scavenged enough info here and i saw some beautiful heels on www.extravaganza.be i'm going to buy a new outfit for my gf (shes kinda into it but i still need to teach her to respond actively to the wealth of fantasies).. wish i could record some sounds of her walking on several stuff

I anow have an actual broader motivation

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does anyone know a good site for those very classy long skirts with a large slit in the back ? also might be a bit interested in the more gothic style, (very long and tight)

hehe, am i lucky .. wheres the conversation on high heels sounds (ofcourse a dream coming tru would be recording females with heels myself but just talking aobut it is good enough for now .. and tx for a cool forum like this also: yes i could wear them but then I really have to get out my transvestite qualities and feel like a woman, for myself i can't unify the properties and thoughts that heels give me with the male body and spirit, maybe that's some thing that is limiting . WHen I would walk on heels it would be to split myself in 2 and think that i'm a woman feeling the sensation

Hi ppl, I've been stumbling on a high heels site by accident i think. I was browsing google images while chatting with a woman about high heels, one of my passions in life, and i clicked on this very sensual office babe pic and there I saw it . Suddenly I was no longer alone. I saw women being proud of wearing heels and exchanging info about how they feel and why they want to wear this skirt or that pair of heels during the day. Finally I found a sign that I wasn't alone on the world with this. Then I posted in the message board and someone brought me here so here i am ! From very early on I started associating a woman on heels with a fairy, an elevated (yeah form of life, a princess. To hear her walk is to accept her announcement that she's beautiful, proud , sexy, respected, feminine, classy, and that increases with every click she makes with her heel. I wondered if i'd gone mad somehow because when you tell that to every day women they are sometimes very surprised and wonder if you'd be better off seeking a psychiatriest and ironically enough, if you don't know a companion who can somehow relate to you: a psychiatrist is the only one helping you with that kind of stuff Some close friends should declare me insane. What am I thinking, a skirt with a back slit is alive ? heels make music they talk ? you are insane :P" But now I can place the fantasy and I like it as much as any other passion. I might be the odd duck here ? Is this forum intended for males that actually like to wear those heels themselves ? I must say I lack that desire in my heels passion. I own a few pairs but it's mostly for praise and I actually expect a woman to walk in them ... I've a cool stereo mic and oneof these days i'd like to record all kind of girls walking, playful heels, classy heels , metal stiletto heels, different floors , Heels are a sharm to see visually but I'm as much as thrilled with how they sound. It's an incredible experiene, it actually has a language of telling how that woman feels. Not only can you derrive stress and tension from it, but also peace , security, moods.. well this is enough for a first post i guess.. heels n skirts are an entire world on its on:) UPDATE: lolz, this ranking system here is evil, but motivating