Jaiden

I think it has a possibility of freaking him out. There may be something about them being your shoes that gets him going. Why don't you ask him to wear a pair of them next time the two of you make love?

There's a brand around here called "highland mist" that tastes remarkably well for being $9 a bottle. I usually only drink it after having 2 glasses of Johnny Walker Red. After two glasses of Red it the $9 scotch doesn't taste half bad if you know what I mean. I have had the Black label before but it almost tasted too smooth. I like to taste a little kick when i'm drinking liquor.

Well, it's been heels every day this week. brown 4" block heeled boots on monday, 3" black stilleto pointy toe boots on tuesday and the brown boots again today. I'm going to be going with the stillettos again tomorrow. All with Jeans and various shirts.

I'm wearing the same pair of boots again today. Since I was on vacation all last week technically i'm going for 2 days in a row.

I took a major step friday and wore 3" stiletto boots to the office. I've worn a pair of 3" block heels before and the boss said that he thought they were cool but he either didn't notice or didn't say anything. I work for a very small company...small as is i'm the only employee so I would hate for anything to be akward. I purposly picked a day when I knew there wouldn't be any clients around. I may start wearing them much more often if nothing more is said.

So... I thought I'd start a thread on what you say when people ask you questions about why you're wearing heels? My favorite one so far: How do you walk in those heels? One foot in front of the other

Has anyone noticed an increase in their ability to wear heels and/or comfort after losing a significant amount of weight? I'm hoping to lose about 60lbs over the next year to put myself at a healthy 200lbs and it makes sense that with less weight on the feet one would be more comfortable?

I wouldn't say that I'm a 'heel connisure' (however that's spelled) but I've worn a pair or two before. I have a pair of 3" stiletto boots that I've worn out and spent hours at a time in standing at bars, and in line at various events. I also have a pair of 7" stiletto sandals with 2" platforms that are uncomfortable but not painful. 5" is a high heel but being a size 14, the angle isn't that steep.

I just recieved a new pair of 5" oxford heels and they fit great except that it is quite painful to stand in them. There's a sharp pain on the back side of the ball of my foot. It feels like my feet don't fit the contour of the arch. My heels fit in the heel cup good and then there's a gap between the middle of of my foot and the arch of the shoe, and then the balls of my feet hit the toe box ahead of where the shoe flattens out. Does anyone have any idea how I can make this feel better?

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Hi, I read this forum quite regularly but rarely post. I just purchased my 3rd pair of heels that I would consider acceptable for regular fashion wear. (i.e. not big shiny adult entertainment type shoes). I have a pair of brown round toe boots with a 3" block heel and a pair of black pointy toed boots with 3" stilletto heels both of which purchased from payless shoes because they are the only store here locally that sells fashionable type women's shoes in my size.

This new pair is probably on the fringe of what I would consider non-fetish wear for myself. A pair of 5" stilletto oxford style pumps. The only problem is that I'm already 6'4" tall. At that height, i'm just a little bit taller than average. Most of my friends are 6'0" or 6'1". Adding 5" to my height takes me from the world of "he's a little taller than average" to "wow that guy is huge".

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So, here's an update on my heeled outing. I got dressed and slipped on my low rise boot cut jeans and pointy toed 3.5" stilleto boots at around 5:00pm on saturday evening and didn't remove them until about 4:00am saturday morning. My friends were very supportive. After the initial sarcastic jokes and gay remarks i heard comments like "you're style rocks, that would look silly on me but you can pull it off, you must have huge balls to be able to wear those out in public" You're probably thinking "11 hrs in pointy toed stillettoes? you're feet had to be killing you" I had a special friend along to take care of any discomfort the shoes caused. Some of you probably know him. He goes by the name Bacardi 151. One thing I failed to think about when picking out these shoes to wear was my ability to walk in them while slightly (heavily) intoxicated. We were going to see "Larry the Cable Guy". As soon as we got to the theater i had to use the restroom. That place was packed! Redneck City baby! I was thinking "someone is going to crack on me" as my heels clicked across the hard ceremic floor. No one did. After the show (which rocked btw) we went to a club. Several smiles from the ladies. Earlier while we were still at the house my friend Kevin made the remark "dude, wear whatever you want, you can be as gay as you want" Kevin is probably the strongest biggest guy i've seen in a long time. He walks into a room and people go "damn that guy's huge" Well at the club Kevin was in the restroom and he overheard some guys saying 'did you see that queer guy in the heels?' Kevin kind of jumped into the conversation: "hey! thats my friend and he's as straight as a board and he's totally comfortable with who he is" he said that you could see them shrinking on the inside as they hasitly exited the restroom hoping that he wasn't going to explode on them. A funny side note that doesn't have anything to do with heels.... I had nearly sobered myself back up when I heard my friend Jane say "I need my tampon" I obviously thought she was talking to another female friend. Then she said it again and then finially" Jaiden! I need my tampon!" I sat there kind of stunned...I said "um..i don't have a tampon, i don't carry those kinds of things around with me" she said "yes you do, its in your front pocket" "I don't think so" "Yes you do its right there" as she stuck her finger on the bulge in my pants. I dove down into my pocket and retrieved the object there and sure enough, it was a tampon. "How the hell did that get in there?!" "uh dude, you were pretty drunk when she was walking around trying to find someone to hold it for her and you said you would" Well thats all for now

here's the kicker....I live in the southern United States...Arkansas, in the "buckle of the bible belt". But i rarely have any problems with people wanting to cause trouble. I guess there are advantages to being 6'4" tall and 250lbs. I'm a super nice guy. I've been in maybe 3 fights my entire life.but when people see me they aren't willing to risk being known as "the guy who got his butt kicked by the guy in heels"

So I've been reading this forum for the past few years but this is m first post. I have several pair of heels. I have a pair of calf high brown boots with a 4" chunky heel and a pair of loafers with a 4" chunky heel that i've worn out on a few ocassions. I worked up the nerve to wear the boots out to dinner and a movie with friends a few weeks ago. I'm kind of known for wearing non-traditional clothing. This weekend we're going to see a comedian and then probably go to a club afterward and I'm hoping to wear a new pair of 3.5" stilletto pointy toed boots. I'm going to wear them with a pair of low rise boot cut jeans that cover most of the shoe and some kind of fashionable shirt. (preferably one that doesn't cover up my awsome ass in those jeans lol) The jeans cover the shoe when standing but i'm sure it will be obvious to all but the most casual observer that i'm wearing heels. I put the outfit on earlier today and i think it looks pretty hot. I just hope that I don't chicken out.