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To answer Laurie's question: She hardly ever wear's any sort of heels (up till recently, with her attempts). I haven't measured exactly the height she's trying to wear now, but an educated guess looks like 4 inches. What do you think she should start at 3 inches or less? If so, do you think I should buy her a pair of that height?

My wife has been trying to wear heels for a while. She is usually getting discouraged (painful) and stops, and then tries again weeks later. Not sure if she's trying to wear them for me, because I find them very attractive on women, or doing this for herself. I haven't pushed her into it, or anything, she did ask me, and I said I like it when she wears them. (Did I do anything wrong by saying that?) I gave her the links to Jenny's site and lucy's thread. I actually read both of them with her. But they seem to be lacking, what to expect when getting accustomed to heels. Should it be painful? if so where? That's sort of touched on by Lucy, in her "toe burn" section. How many minutes a day should she start off at? Everyday, or every other day practice? Could there be anything I could do to encourage her, or talk her out of it, if need be. Is there any other info out there in the way of guides. I would love it if she succeded in this, but I don't want her to kill herself getting there. Any links or ideas would be helpful. Please let me know if you need any other info. I'll try to get her to read this thread, but I'm sort of embarrassed . Thanks PS: Neither of us are young, both in our late 30's.