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I wear my 4" knee highs regularly outside at night, in bars in front of my friends. sometimes inside jeans other time inside. They don't mind but I try not to rubb there faces in it. Wearing them at work well...My boss and three other work colleges are also friends outside and know and have seen me many times in heels. But I wouldn't were them to work. Even if they said it was ok, I wouldn't want to offend anyone else there, I respect my job too much to jeperdise it. Forgot to say, My boss knew about my heeling before he employed me. So I guess he would be cool with it.

Just bought a pair of Gucci from a Chinese website....see link below

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Taking showers or baths .

I actually did take a shower once with some boots I've trown away in a moment of self denial (you all know the story) and accidentally cracked the bottom of my shower with the heel

I also did the shower thing once wearing heels, also broke through. Unfortunatley it wasn't a small shower cubicle. It was a bathtub with a shower attachment. Cost me a fortune because the bath replacement was no longer available in the same colour. I had to change the whole suit. Explaining the damage to my wife was also difficult.

Oh yeah, and also ruined my boots. They never did fit properly after that shower experience. :-(((

I like them. There is a similar pair in boots that I love. Unfortunatley they have sold out.

Hey there shortskip, take it easy. We all feel the same way sometimes. My way was to turn to drink, that didn't work. It only makes the feeling worse. What I did after months of servere depression was to reach out to real friends. It helped me loads. It also made me realise how many people do actually care about you. In goog old English style, keep a stiff upper lip. You wil come through it ok, and be a better person on the other side. Keep smiling. And keep your dreams.

Your sooo lucky to have had that experience. Congrats. I also had planned to dress up and go out with a few female friends. Unfortunatley, I twisted my ankle the week before and had no chance to wear heels. :-(((( so I didn't even bother going out.

Hi Heelguy, I was 18 at that time. Many years ago. Sorry if my post wasn't so clear. I'm now 42 and heeling whenever I get the chance.

I tried on once while shopping in a small UK store. The assistant must have known they were for me, I was hanging around for ages before I got up the courage to ask for the shoes in my size. She asked if I wanted to try them on as they had a no return policy. I said they wern't for me. She just replyed that I could try them on in the back room if I wanted with a smile on her face. I did, and bought them. She was fine about it and even gave me a pair of stockings so that I could try them properly for good fit. First step in just getting up the courage.

Well Maximillion, Chinese do interact now openly in public, very different 15 years before. And they are very inquisitive regarding foreigners, weather your wearing heels or not, most tend to stop and stare at you, and they always look you over from head to foot. So trying to heel and not be noticed is pretty imposible. But from the heel watching side, it's paradice. Most women and girls are seldom seen without heels. And there is a huge selection of fantastic styles. Unfortunatley they have tiny feet, so finding anything in your size is almost impossible unless your size 38 or smaller. :-(((

Well I'm actually from UK, and thats were it all started. I have been living and working in China since 1995. It's only been really since about 6 months ago that I really went public with heeling. Before that there were a few times heeling but only in places where I was comfortable and trusted the people around. I was very nervous as you all know. But I did tell my close friends one night when we were all fairly drunk. Turned out not to have been a mistake. I have a very good, large group of Xpat friends, also Chinese friends. They didn't believe me at first, then when they saw that I was shaking and nearly crying, they realised I was being truthful. They were all really good about it and said not to worry. A week went by and there were a few funny remarks but they were just trying to make me feel better. So I took the plunge one night when it was fairly late, and joined my friends in my local bar wearing the boots in my avitar over jeans. I was terrified, It's one thing that they knew, but its different too see. Anyway I needn't have worried, they were all so cool about it. A mix of men and women, from all nations around the world, and they made me feel so relaxed. China has changed a hell of a lot since I first came. You never sore people holding hands except for guys together, and girls together. Not that they were gay, it's just a Chinese friendship thing. Now, it's became so open, it's like a different country. After talking to more people about it, I have been told by Chinese people that men heeling is actually quite commenly known about in China but rarley seen. I have had no negative comments at all, just a few strange looks. But thats normal anyway for a foreigner in China.

Last time I was out was just before the summer weather came, in June. Wearing the same boots as in my Avitar with tight jeans. I prefer boots to pumps when going out, and the summer is too hot here for boots and jeans. Now the weather is cooling so it won't be long before I'm out again.

Thanks for all the reponce. Unfortunatly, that time I was 18, I'm now 42 and we only lasted a few more years before we broke up. But while we were together we did have many outings in heels. We didn't break up because of the heels, it was other things...mainly me chasing other women. With hindsight, I should never have let her go. She was 1 in a million catch.

Great looking boots. Wish I had them.

Well I had tried to hide it from my early years, but now at 18 I decided to try to open up to my first real girlfriend. We had already been dating for about a year, I thought why not. It was one of those times when things just went right. I used to sleep over at her place on Saturday nights. By her place I mean her mums. Her parents were really cool people and didn't mind me sleeping over. I used to sleep in her sisters bedroom of course. Her sister always wore heels. In those days, she had a pair of 4" yellow court's. They were not really my colour but they were sooo nice. One night I commented on how good they looked and she joked and said, go try them if you want. Needless to say, I didn't wast much time. My GF left the room to visit the WC. I slipped straight into them and they fit ok, but a little tight. When she came back, I was just sitting on the bed watching TV and wearing the heels. She laughed but not much more than that. We joked about it, but I didn't take them off. She didn't seem to mind. This went on for some months and became a normal Saturday night thing. One Morning she called me and asked to meet in town to do some shopping together. To my surprise we went shoe shopping. We looked at many styles intill I came across a pair of black courts, very similar to her sisters. I couldn't believe it, she bought a pair in my size and said you might as well have something thats fits you. Next thing I know, It's Saturday night, and I'm wearing my own first pair of heels bought for me by my GF. But still in the privacy of indoors.

I allways wear heels in the house whenever there is nobody else home. Favourites are kneehigh boots with mini skirt and fishnet stockings.

I know exactly how you feel about the shaking. My first few times out in 4" knee high boots under my jeans, I was trembling from head to foot. But it's still a great high. Well done and I hope you increase your courage as time goes on.

Hi All, I'm just wondering if there are any street heelers in or around the Shanghai area? I'm in a small city called Suzhou about 90 klm from Shanghai.

Thanks all for the warm welcome. I will post some of my experiences later.

Hi everyone, A quick intoduction about me. Like many I have read about on this site it all started for me at the early age of 5. My older sister and her best friend used to make me wear their shoes nearly every day in the privacy of her bedroom. This went on for a few years until we moved to a different town. Then it all stopped, as far as my sister was concerned anyway. I was hooked. I used to raid hers and my Mums wardrobe, and whenever I had the chance wore their heels around the house or just in my bedroom. May years later I got cought by my mum wearing her 4" court shoes. Needless to say she wasn't amused and after that I stopped for a while. Now at 42, 2 marriages and 2 kidds later, I finally came out to my friends. They were all really great about it. Of course they made some fun of me, but thats all it was. They now accept and have seen me a few times wearing 4" knee high boots over tight womens jeans. What a relief. I will elaborate more later, but it has been a struggle.