Kitty Fantastico

I realize many of you are feeling antagonistic against me for telling the truth about Cinthy, and all I have to say is that the internet is NOT just harmless "entertainment" when it causes a husband to lie to his wife, to use his wife's identity to post ("Cinthy" is just one in a long line of aliases my husband has used, but they are all based on me), to post private photos of his wife on this very forum without her permission (and don't bother looking for them because they were posted under another alias, and have since been removed), and to accept gifts from strange men without her knowledge. Fantasy is all very well and good, but when it negatively affects real life, like my husband's fantasy has affected mine, it can be extremely harmful. Because of the continuous lies he has told me, and especially because he appropriates my own identity and experiences (against my express wishes) when posting on this forum, I am seriously considering a divorce. So the next time you encourage someone in his/her fantasies, please think of the consequences this may have on his/her real life and that of his/her partner. This will be my last post on this forum. I've said all that I joined this forum to say, and it was the truth, not slander. Cinthy will be posting soon to confirm this. I'm sorry to burst so many people's bubbles, and if you are feeling angry and deceived in finding out that Cinthy has been lying to you all this time, perhaps you can understand how I feel. Of course you all have your own right to believe whomever and whatever you want... if you prefer to believe the lie, there's nothing I can do about that. This is after all a forum for people to express their opinions, and all I have done is to express my own.

I agree. Current societal norms over the last 65 years have permitted, and even encouraged, women to wear heels to work. Recent changes have accepted men's wear of heels, as well.

Where, exactly, are you coming from?

I never said I am against wearing heels to work. I think there's nothing wrong with wearing 4- or 5-inch heels to work, depending on the situation in your workplace (I do it myself). But Cinthy was claiming (falsely) that she could wear 6.5-inch heels all day to work. Now, when was the last time you saw a woman who wasn't a "pro" wear heels that high to work?

You're right Bubba I for one would like to know what proof this Kity person has that says Cinthy is a man.

So how about you provide some proof Kity, or are you going to come up with some lame excuse like it is privileged and there fore you cant tell us.

And why should we believe you who has only posted once and not Cinthy who has been a member since Nov 2003.

Personally I think this should be considered abusive language against a member and this Kity should be banned from the board.

Some one tried this against Laurieeheels if I remember correctly.

They didnt last long.

I'm just trying to set the record straight because I don't think you guys should be lied to. As for who I am, I am "Cinthy's" RL wife, so yes, I have plenty of proof that "she" is a man.

I agree, it is quite amazing what you can get away with. I even wear 6 1/2 inch pumps at work, and I only see approving looks from men

Don't believe anything Cinthy says. I happen to know that "she" is a man who has never worn high heels (much less 6.5 inches) to work. I have absolutely no problem with guys wearing high heels, but I don't think they should pretend to be women and mislead everyone in the forum.

As for wearing 6.5-inch heels to work, I think that in order for us women (and yes, I really AM a woman) to be taken seriously by our male colleagues and employers, we can not wear such footwear to work. High heels (which I do wear out, usually 4-5 inches) are best kept for home or for going out at night, not for work.