Cammile

Sorry for the long post, but I've read through it a few times to try and make sure its all clear.

OK, so I've known "the twins" now for a few years or so. I met them via a friend who worked with one of them. He shortly started dating the other sister, (the other one already had a boy friend). In my usual style I usually find talking to women fairly easy and would happily chat to them both on group nights out.

Anyway over the years of going to their birthday parties, as group night out, a few times with just me and the twins, there next party come's along (this was last year). I was invited to their birthday party again. However a day or two before their party my online invite disappears, nothing else was said.

Anyway I was at another friends party last week, and my friend and his girl friend where there, turns out her sisters boy friend took offense to me being friends with his girl friend and didn't want me at the party, or her to talk to me anymore.

I guess looking back she did become much more distant around that time.

This is probably one of the more extreme cases I've had confirmation of.

I guess some guys are threatened by my friendship with their girl friends.

(There's been one or two other cases of female friends becoming very distant in the past).

There are a couple of steps you can take to prevent oddities like this from happening in the future.

Number one; If a girl that you know already has a boyfriend, try adding him to your social list. That means if you are taking the twins out he should have invited him along as well. The tactic here is to introduce yourself to the boyfriend. This way he can personally find out that you're not a threat and will no longer have to rely on his assumptions about your intentions toward his mate.

Number two; Try to be aware of your actions while around other people. Chatting around with the Twins in a private arena maybe a much safer bet than going to parties. While at large functions where everybody knows each other, you are exposing your self to the threat of gossip. Be on your best behavior and treat your female friends more like your boss then a huggy-touchy-kissy toy. This might help dispel any rumors which can be blown out of proportion and eventually ruin a friendship.

My boyfriend and I allways shop together. We have the same taste in fashion, and it matters to us that the other is happy.

they're the 120s so they are about 4 1/2 inches -

And that's pretty high for a girl who only has a size 5 foot.

Welcome from me too.

Hello to you to Dr. Shoe:smile:

Hey Cammile - similar story, my wife 5' tall, size 4.5/5 didn't really wear heels until she met me - now she's got many,many pairs - including some Louboutin Pigalles I got her for X-Mas last year

Wow I have been waiting for a pair of those for a long time. I drove up to San Francisco the other day and saw a pair in the store. You know, it is really hard to find a size 5:smile:

Welcome Aboard to HHP Ms. Cammile, and hope we'll hear more from you down the road besides this QUICK HELLO. Take Care.

8-D

Thank you bootluvr I will try my best

Greetings Cammile :-)

Please feel free to post in any section of this forum even if a section is reserved for girls only.

Input and feedback from female members are always welcome.

I'm sure you will enjoy your stay among us.

Welcome to this forum

Thank you for the welcome Danielp :smile:

It might take just a little bit to find out how things work here, but the forum looks very interesting.

While it is always great to welcome another female joining our membership, it is even better if the newcomer introduces themselves when they join. So, Cammile, welcome to hhplace and why not take a minute to tell us a little abut yourself and about your interest in high heels?

(And, WB Johnieheel:clap:)

Well here goes I'll give it a try...... My name is Cammile, I am 4'10" tall and wear a size 5 shoe. While I was dating a while ago my boyfriend was into high heels. He introduced me to his fetish and I have been interested ever since. Did I also mention that he was real good about buying me high heels. Currently I have sandy blond hair and I am (fuzz fuzz crackle pop buzz) years old. I guess my interest is the wonderful people that I've met over the years and their interest in high heels.

Hmmm that's all for right now, maybe more later. :smile:

Just a quick hello back.

Thanks johnieheel

Just a quick hello