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nothing with a nice pair of hipster pants or jeans on a woma, especially if they are tight or show off their bottom with a heels hiding underneath them so that it makes you work hard to get a good look at where/what the magical heel clicking noice is coming from

i probably do most of you guys do and start at the shoe first, but then i go all over the place after that..... Shoes Bottom face legs breast........

From time to time, when i get the urge (ok... all the time then)... i would be wearing the different heel boots that i have (ranging from conservative squared 1.5 inch to pointy 4 inch stillettos) when i go get petrol for the car at night. Have also ventured to the supermarket and video store in heels at night..... i always wear a female flare/boot cut low rise jeans with them as they cover a fair bit of the heel when stationary but the heels is quite apparent when I'm walking.....

jim... thanks... i do definitely intend to discuss further with my wife, i'm just concerned that she's not over the shock of finding out (we've been married for 10 years and she had no idea) and she may feel i'm trying to force the issue.... agree totally though, as there's nothing worse than having something hanging unresolved.... or at least get to an understanding..... whatever that turns out to be...

I'm not quite sure what to do..... we haven't discussed it again and things somehow seems to be back to normal.... not sure whether she's trying to pretend i never told her or she just want to reassure me that things are ok even after her knowing..... i think i'll give it till this weekend and ask her if she have any thought as to the subject matter...... she was very good about it when i told her and i really think she will understand.... just have to make sure i do not pressure too much about it...... nigel: i did mentioned to her that i love going shopping with her and now she knows why and she replied that she won't feel so guilty from now on about spending too much time in the women clothes and shoe department anymore and we had a laugh.... so the signs are good i think

Just want to say thank you for this forum and every post on it, and i have finally build up sufficient courage to tell my wife. I know there are many similar posts and I don't want to bore everyone but just want to say thanks. It's been building up for the past 10 years and finally she caught me out when i forgot i was drying a pair of lady's g-strings in the bathroom when she got home.... i just played it down and pretend they were mens (it so obvious they were not) and that they were mine from ages ago and i just felt like wearing it..... that night i decided to come out with the whole truth about my keen interestes in high heels and dressing in feminine/unisex clothing..... she was really great about it however a night have passes and we haven't touched on the topic again... i think i should leave it for a tiny while give her a bit of time and space so she can decide what (if anything) she want to do about it (set ground rules, accept it, and hopefully not leave me). It is a great relieve... as awkward as it was when she found the g-string, i also felt a load off my shoulders and i think that's why i decided to come clean completely.... thanks again for this forum's support....

I used to think about this a lot in my teens.... i have always loved women shoes and basically women clothes/fashion in general.. i probably notice what women wear more than some women and due to this i used to think that i was gay but was in denial... but like you guys over time, i realised that i'm clearly not gay even though i would love to dress up to look like a female......... i think Eddie Izzard's comment of himself fit best.... I'm a male lesbian.....

Vanessa, Sydney is pretty friendly and in general I haven't run into any problems. But then again, I'm still in the phase of block heels (up to 4") and women boot cut jeans that cover most of the heels. I've been wearing heels in the city and the suburb with no one really hassling me but have had a few double take or looks if they noticed. I don't think you'll run into much trouble. Shop wise, again I haven't really tried on shoes in store but most of them are very professional and will not blink an eyelid even if i did want to try them. A good leather heels shop is in the city at Wynyard station (next to Hungry Jacks and McDonalds). They always have really cool styles. Otherwise Oxford street would definitely be a place where you can shop for heels with no issue (this is where the gay community gather). Have a great time when u r in town.

I think it just come back to the fact that women have such a larger range in terms of styles of shoes to choose from and thus why i like women shoes. At the same time there are women shoes that i wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole, at least they've got enough variety so you don't have to wear them...... for men on the other hand, it's pretty much this or that or this again.... have notice there are starting to be more styles for men in australia with slightly higher heels (still really low though).... but there are starting to have some feminine qualities to them which are starting to get my interest..... so maybe my interest is shoes in general rather than men, women or high heels only.....

Not really sure what my motivation is. Have to admit that i can get erotic feelings from wearing high heels (which happens to be a big reason why women wear certain heels as well), but the general wanting to wear high heels all the time is not sexual. It may be more due to jealousy of the fact that women can wear it and I can't. Or the fact that it is taboo nature of it that men in general don't wear heels. But have to admit that if I don't like the look and feel of them, i don't think i would be jealouse of others wearing it or have a desire to wear it just because it is taboo........ Hard thing to pinpoint.........

Dr Shoe... the tactic sounds alright, but make sure the phone is actually off, otherwise, while you are pretending to be talking on the phone, it may actually ring and completely blow your cover....

good luck Daz..... although i can't really offer much advice as i'm in the position wear my wife does not know and am currently considering and weighing up the consequences of coming out to her (i've stopped for a fair few years thinking i can get over wearing heels but have realise now that it's not possible)..... as much as i would like my parents and friends to accept my heels wearing, i don't think i will ever let them know - no reason to upset the parents (although it is a life choice but it's not as life defining as being gay or something) and i don't think my mateship with my friends will ever be the same if they know ..... however i agree with Bubba that my wife deserve to know..... sorry to hi jack your thread a tiny bit.... just envious of what you have with your gf. The only advice i can give is that evaluate whether you really have to tell your parents, athough acceptance is great but there must be other personal things you do that your parents don't know about and may never tell them....

i agree with most of you guys..... and i certainly much prefer wearing a pair of high heels but unfortunately i can't wear it all the time during the day. This is the main time that i find wearing general women shoes help fill that void.... i admit it's no wear near as satisfying as wearing a nice pair of heels, but it stand out less and much harder to spot (even though i have had comments about wearing fag shoes and they weren't even heels..) Dawn - totally agree, if men shoes have as much styles and a bit more of a heel i would probably be wearing men shoes too...

love the last one in the little black dress and platform heels....

I know that this forum is focused on high heels, but I'm just wondering whether you guys only love high heels or women shoes in general. Personally, i have quite a large collection of women shoes which include knee high high heels boots, sandals, thongs and casual shoes (without heels but definitely women styled - feminine) and although I definitely get much more enjoyment wearing the heels, i find that i just love women shoes in general. Just wondering whether others in the forum have the same feelings or are only interested solely on how high the heels are......

Thanks BC and Ice, and i also agree with Terry (i do often feel like a deer in headlights when i do venture out in heels). It's interesting what you BC said about flare jeans that were brought in a men shop and getting brag out for it my mates or people in general - i actually wouldn't have issue with that as i have jeans like that and i can confidently wear them and if people knock me i'm fine with it because i know i brought them in a men store..... it's odd that i can't have the same confidence when wearing heels (as inside i know that i can't claim that i brought them from a men store)....... if only a few men stores sell heels for men then i think a lot more men would wear heels with a lot more confidence (even though they did buy women heels )....

terry... you make a lot of sense (eg night time is probably when you'll run into trouble) i only wish i can shed the social/personal/catholic responsibilities/guilt that i feel so that i can truely embrace wearing heels in public without care of ridicule....

Love your work unkown!!!!!!

great work ace..... I agree with JaBe, keeping calm is half the battle. I really admire you going full out with the heels with knee high spandex pants.

Good on ya Ice for wearing it though, and i have to agree i have had some strange looks at times too in Sydney (but maybe i'm just being self concious rather than anything else). I do try to partner my public heels (chunky block heels rather than a skinny heel) with jeans that cover the heels, so in reality i think most people don't notice unless i'm walking fast and my jeans ride up, or sitting down or walking up stairs. Have to admit, its a scary and exciting feeling at the same time when i think someone notice my heels.......

good stuff Daz..... I wish I have the balls to do what you did (slightly ironic as that's the reason why i can't wear heels... I haven't seen any guys in sydney wearing heels (except for myself on the rare brave occasions), but it's encouraging to hear that you have seen another man wearing heels which must mean it's getting more common and hopefully acceptance will come soon.....

onya JaBe... i'm hoping i can get to that stage soon.......

i agree totally ice.... i've always felt alone before finding this forum but now i'm much more comfortable with my desires and my confidence grow in taking my world out to the public.....

hey ice... glad to see another aussie on the board..... hopefully as more of us men are willing to admit to our admiration for heels and are willing to wear them out, the more acceptance there will be and eventually it will just become part of men fashion as oppose to something we have to hide to wear

BC - great to know that there are others in Oz. A meet sound great, however i'm not sure whether I'm up for that yet. When you talk about the repressed males in Oz, i suppose i have to classify myself as one of them but hopefully, somehow i can get over that (or if all of a sudden there is a more general acceptance of male in heels in the public). It's unfortunate that I have to be repressed but at the same time I have to fit into the social norm in order for my everyday professional life to function.....