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Sometimes people do actually just get wrapped up in their own stuff instead of orbiting around us like we want them to No really sometimes they do. Don't stress.

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I think this is the first time I really deeply agree with Tech and his delivery. To simplify, As a CD myself I often see others wearing clothing that no one would wear in public. It goes to an extreme point of saying "THIS IS MY FETISH". If you want to dress like a girl, then dress like a girl. I don't know too many girls wearing thigh-high boots in general, but in summer? No. A little common sense, and an appreciation for style will go a VERY long way.

This thread is so fascinating....

If you really are serious about CL's. Go try them on. Don't order and hope, you really need to try them on.

Being a Marine I get his mentality. The best way in my opinion would be to just wear what you want. And IF ASKED, be brutal, honest, confident, and direct in your answer. No dad, I am not gay, I like these and I am going to wear them. And if the heat gets to be too much, turn the table. "Heh, funny that you could imply that I am gay when you're the one criticizing my fashion choice."

Hello every body, bought these yesterday, not brave enough yet to try on on the store yet, need time yet, but sexy looking heels. You can let me know what you think of them please.

I think you need to brave trying them on in the store. They look too small. With peep-toe shoes you should be able to see just the tip of the shoe under the toes, yours look very strained.

Daddy's legs are hairless..... I won't get into Oxford.... That excuse is weak. Try again.

If she want's to wear them to work, Cole Haan. Nike Air in the soles, its insane how comfortable they are.

Glosha this falls in line with telling someone you're a crossdresser. I only say that cause she could think that, and regardless of if it is true or not, the same questions might arise. "Are you gay", "Do you want to dress like a woman", "Do you want to be a Woman" etc etc. You need to have all of these questions and more answered so when/if she asks you can give her that. The trick is not to overwhelm her. Talk to her, tell her what you like, and keep it simple. Tell her you can answer any question she has as you have thought a lot about how best to tell her. Be prepared for some degree of resistance. She might be very cool with it, but in only certain situations. She may hate it. Its imperative you allow her time, and mental space to wrap her head around it. Regardless of if she needs it or not. Best case scenario, she loves it and wants you to wear them all the time. Worse case, she thinks you're a freak and leaves you, in which case you can do better. Good case, she might laugh a little at your style, but with her help you can probably find something that works for you and she likes it, but maybe not everywhere you go as she might not want something she feels as very personal to be public. Just remember, that for her its something you've kept secret, so that same feeling will transpire to her in some way.

If I may...

http://www.dsw.com/shoe/audrey+brooke+beauty+pump?prodId=233698&productRef=SEARCH

Just got them myself

^^ Agree

Please believe pus... she is right. Don't get insecure about it, you can walk easier than you think. That's really why we have an extra muscle in our calves so we can make the girls jealous when we are doing backflips in our heels

If you had asked me 4 years ago if I would buy a pair of these I would have said "Are you fucking nuts?" I mean they look hot but... that much? However, after being educated by the Gf and actually trying a pair on, I now know why they are that much, what makes them valuable and what it means to me. I personally own two pairs. But the main point is, what is the value to me. That will be different for everyone.

See I am beginning to think no one says anything here because, well... its Texas. Now don't get me wrong if you haven't been here you only have assumption to go on. Most people in Texas are really of the mindset of "Whatever just don't get in my way". It's a lot more live and let live than you might think. Outside of the city probably not as much. However we do have Concealed Handgun Laws here so you can almost assume most people are carrying. I do, so I encourage a group of young idiotic teenagers to come and harass me. It will do nothing more than allow me to indulge in my other favorite hobby, euthanizing the stupid.

As one over-analyst to another, relax. I know that she said she had the perfect costume you could borrow, but it sounds like you didn't get anymore detailed than that. Perhaps she has a complete look you have taken for granted, that you might see as a costume. Even if you blend the gender lines with clothing, there is still a separation between something on the fringe and a costume. I understand your apprehension but if she is trying to be supportive, let her. Don't let your fear and doubt cloud a moment that can easily be shared, and if you don't like her suggestion because it falls in line with your analysis, then find a way to tell her what you think so that she understands your position. Sounds like she loves the hell out of you. Love her back by giving her credit, not only for her but for yourself. Bear in mind I say all this from being in your position and assuming a few details. Hope that's what you asked for.

He means internet. He was without internet access for a long time. Trust me, your English is fine.

Wear sandals. Last thing you want is to go in for a Mani/Pedi spend $50 and screw them up by putting on something that will cover your feet. You can find some pink flip flops if you are just wanting that extra charge. Don't ruin your polish.

Its sad, in the meantime people can continue to pop their collars and look like douchebags.

Smile, say "I really like your shoes". Wait for response. If positive, you can carry it further with things like, "Where did you get them", "Are they comfortable", or perhaps more compliments "They look great with your dress" or if you are bold, "I want a pair just like it". Don't act like a perv, act like a person who really likes the shoes.

Hmm, sounds like a confidence test to me. If he has the guts to go into a store and try them and buy them.

I thought of that too, but if she protests in general, why would that matter?

I know its absurd to psycho-analyze someone I don't even know but there is a flaw there.

The only thing that I find confusing here is that she would want you to go out and buy them instead of the anonymity of internet buying. Even in the mail no one knows what you are getting, but if you come home from a shoe store that specifically carries "Womens" shoes, that might raise question. Just seems like backward logic to me.

I find it interesting that someone will think its okay to wear shoes made from leather but to wear something from the rest of the animal is suddenly disgusting. Its a bit hypocritical no?

If you're only 5'1" don't be afraid of platforms. Some of them are more tasteful than others. Have a look at the YSL Tribtoo. Its expensive sure, but its a good shoe to use as an example. There are a lot of shoes very similar that I am sure you can find. Blue is definitely hot though.

Capri's = bad.