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Hi Maxi you are correct, in Tel-Aviv you can get away with wearing heels quite easily, altough, as any street heeler anywhere, you will get a lot of 2nd looks. regarding "ARSIM", well, the truth is I try to avoid large groups of them, if possible, but i never got any bad response, the only reponse i got once from a group of 4 arsim is that one of them walked up to me, look at my shoes and said that's a cool shoes and asked where i got them, but my heel was totaly covered and i don't think he understood i am wearing 4" blade heels. the people at work (most of them at least) fail to understand why i want to wear high heels but they say it's only my problem and they don't really care what type of shoes i am wearing (i tried to convince a few of the man in the office to try on high heels, but no success) thanks for the comment about the TOGO boots, they really look cool, and if the heel is covered no one can really tell that i am walking on 4" stiletto heels because the front is nicely rounded. since this is the absolute end of the season i got them for 50NIS (~15$) which is crazy cheap !!

Hi I Really wish to support your decision to start wearing heels to work. non the less, the reason you got no response is because these boots are not trully considered woman boots because, as fashion goes, they are out of fashion, and at most, they might be considered as boots older ladies might wear, but don't think I am trying to discourage you, the thing is that I am certain that these boots, are not really the boots you want to wear !!?? but it is understandable that you must go through all the stages until you find the courage to really dress as you wish, now the higher you go (heel height) you will draw more attention and that is also part of the enjoyment, but you have to remember that once you start going higher people will notice and people will laugh and make fun (been there) but they can laugh at you a day or two, grin at you another 2-3 days, make some comment for another week or so and that's it!!!, at some point people will get use to you wearing heels AND THEY WILL NOT CARE, (I am referring to people you meet and work with every day not to people on the street, whom you shouldn't care at all) Today, I am at the point that girls from work come to show me thier new boots or shoes and ask my opinion, I even got 2 orders from the woman who dosn't know how to order online and really want a pair of boots like my BCBG macony (pic attached). You should also consider the fact (especially if you work in a large firm) that poeple will think you are gay (whether you are or not), and i discovered that the most problematic part, especially for man, is to accept the fact that you like high heels (and perhaps a nice feminine jeans) and you are not gay (most people find it easier to accept that fact, that Yep he is gay so he wears woman clothes, being totaly streight and wearing feminine clothes, is what I found to be to hardest part for people to accept) and as was said numerous times before, after a while people will get used to seeing you in heels (perhaps others will join) and your concern should not be to the height of you heel but rather to the entire appearance , if your clothes will be coordinated with your heels, etc... you will soon find that people (especially woman) will accept your good tase and even start asking your advice on clothes/shoes. I am attaching examples of the shoes i wear every day to work (it's winter now) - IT'S ALL ABOUT HAVING FUN

Hi I think the path is more of a learning curve and those of us who reaches the end of that curve comes to an understanding that has nothing to do with wearing dresses or heels or what ever. but to the understanding that it is possible for us to freestyle without any fears or worries, what i mean is that those os us who wear heels outside and only heels, if asked they would probably go out in dresses or other feminine attire because they know, and that's the meanning of the learning curve, that there isn't such a thing as male or femaile clothes, there is only what you like to wear and what makes you feel good. and correct me if i'm wrong, but any of you who wears heels in public have no fear to wear whatever you want, the only reason you won't wear dresses is because you don't like it, not because you think it is too feminine, because such a thing does not exist!!! and it doesn't really matter if you fit to satges 1-4, 3-6 or 3-1000, just enjoy the process you are going through, and feel free to freestyle

I would sure love to explore all types of woman clothing, As a concept, in my mind, I see no difference between man's and woman's clothes, for me they are clothes period. and when ever i found something that I like and looks good than I will buy it, no matter if it's designated as man's or woman's cloth item. That reminds me a story, I once went to the mall to buy a pair of jeans (I was wearing 4" stiletto slingbacks with a round toe), I approached the sale's woman and asked for a pair of jeans, after i disliked all the models she showed me and desribing what type of jeans I am looking for she just told me that I should go look at the woman's department and so I did. I told to the other sale's woman that i was looking for a pair of jeans and she told me that this is the woman's department ... and I just told her that woman's jeans looks better and that I wish to try a few pairs, so I did, and while trying on different pairs my heels where visible (some of the jeans were higher) and the only comment the sale's woman made was to ask me if i am looking jeans that will cover my heels or that it is okay if they show, after that remark I of course bought 3 pairs and came back 2 month later to get another one, now the jeans i got can never pass as a man's jeans , but I never got any reponse regarding the jeans and they really sit better on the body than man's jeans, I am now thinking of getting a few woman's shirts and blouses

Hey Altough I have no problem buying shoes at stores (and trying them in the store whiile other clients walk around) I still can't get some of my mosr favoraites brands because they don't sell here (I live in israel) My problem is that all the big shoe stores on-line don't ship internationally is there any one of you who is willing to ship the shoes to me ? I can pay for the shipping by paypal (of course I will pay before you ship the shoes) mainly I am referring to Zappos and Amazon If you do know of online stores who ships internationally please let me know (and don't tell me to try ebay they I can't find what i'm looking for there) Regards Dawn

Your choice of clothes and footwear are an inspiration to us all you coordinate your outfit and a natural way and it is quite clear you like what you wear and you feel great in it and that projects on the enviorment around you - THAT IS WHAT FREESTYLING IS TO ME ! 10/10

That's realy a great selection of sandals altough I'm not a platform kinda man, you sure do wear them well and altough I'm more of a stiletto I sure love your wooden block heel. Now if you are wearing them outside of the folding pants than you should shave your legs. and again !, A great collection !!!

I'll do my best next time i'll meet her I will try to start a conversation BTW, I was a show shop a few days ago trying brown leather pump with stiletto heel (4") and a gray snake skin pump with a similar heel I asked the sellers (male and female) what looks best and the female replied (this was like the third or forth time I visited the store) "everything looks good on you, you just look good in heels" I gotta say that made my day, no wait........... That made my week the maile also complimented me on how stable I was on stiletto and how nice I can walk in them, he also confided and told me he tries some of the shoes every now and than (this is only woman shoes store) but he tries the cowbow style more, he said he never tried stilettos and that is no way he could walk on them, I took that as another compliment on my side

Excellent choice each of your boots is nice looking, sexy and looks good on you

I realy loved the white boots

I walk with a similar style

here is one example:

I looked at the shoes and I must say they look absolutly great a 10/10 I can't wait to see your pics

HI I know there are quite a few long posts here with all the information you need, so I won't write long but the thing is, you have made a mistake in your posting you said that your husband likes to wear woman boots, that is incorrect your husband is a man not a woman and he likes to wear High heels you need to understand that small but significant detail, your husband style of choice is the style made for woman nowdays but that is unimportant becasue he wears them from a man point of view, that is a male who chooses to wear shoes with high heels so I see no reason why both of you can't live hapily ever after thing is you should confront him about your true fears which i beleive are more to the direction of "what will the neighbours say...." just ask him to make sure he won't be seen by any of the neighbours and if he agrees than all will be fine, if he will be satisified in wearing heels just in the house than for the love of christ buy the man some heels !!!!

Hey guys

so sorry, but most of the pics under this thread are of guys in fetish/retro/block heels

all are out of every day fashion wear

platforms with block heels might only look good on skinny teenage girls, which you are niether!

most of these pics do not show man in heels with a good sense of fashion but strange man wearing funny shoes.

ChantalTV, try standing in a street corner at night with those white platform boots I promise you, most chances you will get arrested for you know why.....

Please friends, look at the woman around you, look at what woman are wearing on the street, look at what shoes make a woman look good and sexy and try to copy that to a man attire

don't be mad at me, please, this is just my own opinion, I don't want to dicourage you.

I'm posting two pics of what, to my opinion is the current thread of fashion, I walked with both of on the street in day time many times, all I got from people was good reactions and a lot of "where did you buy them" from woman

Hi around a month ago at work i sat and talked to one of the workers, she was wearing black stiletto boots (kneehigh), i recon the heel was around 4". I told her the boots looked realy great and asked her if it's not too hard going all through the day with such heels and she said a bit and I answered (without even noticing) that sometimes it's hard for me too. she replied are you wearing similar heels ? , and I decided to go along with her qustions and replied yes she asked to see me wearing HH, and when I told her I'm a bit shy about it, she answered one uplifiting reply which I beleive you should all remember, she said "We don't eat people here because they wear high heels, I am juts courious..." I tought to myself, damn the woman is right, what can they do to me, next day i showed her one of my shoes, she realy liked them, now there are like 5-6 woman in my work who knows about my heels, all is good except one who looks at me in angre and tsk's every time I pass her by but hell I can always fire her,

Hey timmy, nice to have you here you ask weather you should go back into the closet !!?? well, you answered it yourself, when you said that while walking with heels in the city center you felt so normal !! That's the real key to heel wearing, walking with heels, which are actually woman shoes, while feeling normal and looking good if that is your case then keep on heeling and having fun. send us some pics of your collection...

Hi You asked for true opinion so.... these sure can get a good place under the category ugliest boots ever ! I would not wear these even at gun point and i don't see the fashion statement in walking in plastic boots with tractor soles. have you ever seen 1 woman walking with similar monsters on her feet ? sorry, but there's no chance these boots will look good on you while walking on the street i beleive they will look ridiculus. Actually, when i think about it, these boots do make a statement: "Hey look at me I'm wearing ugly shoes" better luck next time

iv'e been away for a few days, yet i had no idea my little posting will create such a reaction. first, i reccomend for all to download the bigger file, just for the better quality. the outfit i found sexy , that is the shorts with the stiletto heel ankle boots. regarding the lyrics.... well don't be naive . altogether women do control man in many ways, jeri just say it out loud , no need to be ofended as men, no one here is less manly just beceuse jeri says "Treat him like a lady". it's a pop song! , nothing more.

just look it up into kaaza or emule

I don't think it was ever mentioned , but if it did , just ignore my post what i mean is have you notice the guys are wearing black ankle boots with stiletto heels in geri halliwell clip "bag it up" ?

hi

just wanted to share a few encounters i had

first was with 3 teenage girls (14-15), they seen me in my 4" block heels (no platform).they called me and asked to see my boots.

GIRL1: nice boots, why are you wearing them ?

ME: Why not ?

GIRL1: They are woman boots !

ME: well , it's fun, should woman have all the fun ?

GIRL2: YES

ME: NO !!!.

my NO was probably a bit to loud cause they made a face and left.

second encounter was with a group of another 3 teenage girls and i was wearing my dark green 3.5" block loafers from nine west.

GIRL1: Excuse me? , Sir

ME: YES !?

GIRL1: are those woman shoes ?

ME: YES

GIRL1: Why are you wearing them?

ME: I Like them They're cool.

GIRL1: So why aren't you wearing a bra aswell?

ME:Do i seem to need one?

GIRL1: NO. But whats the deal with the shoes ?

ME: I Just like wearing them.

GIRL1:you mean you like the height and the clicking sound?

ME: YUP !

GIRL1:OH , OK COOL.

as you notice only 1 girl did the talking the other 2 were staring at my shoes and didn't say a word.

The third encounter happened 6 month later but the similarities are amazing.

this time it was a group of young girls (5 or 6), but again, only one did the talking, all the rest were in comma staring at my boots, this time they were black ankle boots with 4" stiletto heel. (3" were showing under my jeans).

GIRL1: (to her friends) hey he's wearing highheels (like i couldn't hear her).

GIRL1: excuse me ? , a a a sir?

Me: [turning around]

GIRL1:are you a boy or a girl ? (i had men's clothes- go figure)

ME:A MAN !

GIRL1:do you want to be a girl?

ME:Not at the moment (with a wide smile).

GIRL1:but youare wearing girls shoes !

ME:[loosing my patience] THEY ARE MEN SHOES ALSO!

GIRL1:and do you like wearing them?

ME:Very much!

GIRL1:[again]and you don't want to be a girl?

ME:NO

GIRL1:and you love wearing them?

ME:[realy close to kick her butt with my heels]YES !

GIRL1:OK.

those 3 encounters happened over a preiod of 1 year at totaly diferent places, but the similarities are amazing.

it is quite obvious they were all confused of seeing something they were thought they couldn't see a man with highheels.

it seemes like after the initial shock they seems to accept it in a certian manner.

i beleive also that an encounter like this in a small age will help them to accpet such things at an older age , altough iv'e had my share of ridicule from teenagers but i like to push the envelope a bit.

hi

just wanted to share a few encounters i had

first was with 3 teenage girls (14-15), they seen me in my 4" block heels (no platform).they called me and asked to see my boots.

GIRL1: nice boots, why are you wearing them ?

ME: Why not ?

GIRL1: They are woman boots !

ME: well , it's fun, should woman have all the fun ?

GIRL2: YES

ME: NO !!!.

my NO was probably a bit to loud cause they made a face and left.

second encounter was with a group of another 3 teenage girls and i was wearing my dark green 3.5" block loafers from nine west.

GIRL1: Excuse me? , Sir

ME: YES !?

GIRL1: are those woman shoes ?

ME: YES

GIRL1: Why are you wearing them?

ME: I Like them They're cool.

GIRL1: So why aren't you wearing a bra aswell?

ME:Do i seem to need one?

GIRL1: NO. But whats the deal with the shoes ?

ME: I Just like wearing them.

GIRL1:you mean you like the height and the clicking sound?

ME: YUP !

GIRL1:OH , OK COOL.

as you notice only 1 girl did the talking the other 2 were staring at my shoes and didn't say a word.

The third encounter happened 6 month later but the similarities are amazing.

this time it was a group of young girls (5 or 6), but again, only one did the talking, all the rest were in comma staring at my boots, this time they were black ankle boots with 4" stiletto heel. (3" were showing under my jeans).

GIRL1: (to her friends) hey he's wearing highheels (like i couldn't hear her).

GIRL1: excuse me ? , a a a sir?

Me: [turning around]

GIRL1:are you a boy or a girl ? (i had men's clothes- go figure)

ME:A MAN !

GIRL1:do you want to be a girl?

ME:Not at the moment (with a wide smile).

GIRL1:but youare wearing girls shoes !

ME:[loosing my patience] THEY ARE MEN SHOES ALSO!

GIRL1:and do you like wearing them?

ME:Very much!

GIRL1:[again]and you don't want to be a girl?

ME:NO

GIRL1:and you love wearing them?

ME:[realy close to kick her butt with my heels]YES !

GIRL1:OK.

those 3 encounters happened over a preiod of 1 year at totaly diferent places, but the similarities are amazing.

it is quite obvious they were all confused of seeing something they were thought they couldn't see a man with highheels.

it seemes like after the initial shock they seems to accept it in a certian manner.

i beleive also that an encounter like this in a small age will help them to accpet such things at an older age , altough iv'e had my share of ridicule from teenagers but i like to push the envelope a bit.

well what i ment was that the first time i went out with heels it was :OH' DAMN I'M WEARING HIGH HEELS OUTSIDE. and now it's : I'm just wearing my shoes , which seems perfectly normal maby it's just me but nowdays i actually seek the attention. i want other to notice me and my heels while at first just knowing i'm wearing HH gave me rush of andrenaline. in some way i miss the nerves i had when someone approached me on the street, will he/she notice ? , while nowdays i don't realy care. what i'm saying to all the guys out there who are still fear the outside - don't be afraid of this moment of steping out , cherish it !!! your life won't be the same the moment youl'e walk out that door (it will change for the better . trust me)

hi The first time you will go out in heels will be burned in your mind forever the excitment, the rush and even the fear will make you high (both ways ) all the other times after it you will want to relive this feeling but you couldn't, after a while you will even forget you are wearing HH. and HELL YES , i even miss some teens giggling. we want to wear HH freely, but HEY we don't want to go unnoticed. so make the first time special, and let yourself be seen ! go out at day to a crowded place and enjoy every moment it won't come back !!!

cool i now live in Beer-sheva , i have one more year til the end of my degree.

greetings i am usually a watcher on the forum but i think i'll speak my mind on this one (after all i do live in israel) You all have to understand that this situation will not and can not come to an end as long as israel current political stracture continues. let me explains : it dosn't matter who is the prime minister of israel (it might aswell be clinton himself) in order to issue a command to evacuate the occupied territories the PM needs a majority within the kneset (senat). since israel has a lot of small parties and especially religious parties who beleive israel should not be devided in any way the PM cannot pass an order like that without bringing his own government down , the only way to leave the fanatics outside of the government (coalition) is to form and alliance of left (moderate) and right (moderate) parties . but ... those 2 flanks cannot agree on anything so what each of them does when it manage to gain the control at the elections is to ask for support from the religious parties and they get it , form a government and rule , but at a price --- israel will not be devided and the settlements will not be evacuated !. you will notice i have said nothing about the palestinians and that beceuse i beleive that only when peace will come between ourselfs we will manage peace with others and it dosn't matter who will rule the palestinians. as for the other arab countries they beleive israel is holy to them (muslims) so as long as we sit there we are blocking them from going into thier holy places and they hate us and they tried to destroy us and they will continue to try .... they only problem is that a total arab coalition against israel today will probably destroy israel but the cost will be the world beceuse when israel will be forced to use it's huge amount of nuclear arsenal it will mean world war 3 and a very sad day so arab countries are afraid of that but that dosnt stop them from acting in political and economical way in order to destroy us and i realy don't beleive this will change in the near future , not as long as they live by muslim ways .

i still don't wear HH regulary mostly beceuse of my wife and the enviorment but when i take the dog out or go shopping or when my wife is out it's nothing but HH inside and out .