little gem

hi there, can i ask how many guys are on this site that would be willing to meet up with my husband and myself somewhere in the north west england area for chats, shop and share our love for heels while wearing them. look forward to hearing from you bye for now

hi guy's, this is a random question for you and would love to see your different thoughts. if you could go any where wearing your heels where would it be and why? my husband wanted to go to a bowling ally wearing his boots and on changing his boots for bowling shoes seeing the reaction on the persons face. we have done this and there was a guy behind the counter and at first he didnt really show a reaction which was good. we are thinking of the next thing to do any ideas? cant wait to hear from you bye for now

hi guys sorry i am posting this in my wife's name as she has just been on the site before i have come on. to answer a few questions we where in preston city centre when we bought the new platform boots and we were going to asda when i was wearing my thigh lengh boots, i have been to asda a few times dressed very simular to this. normally i wear 2and half inches/ 3 and half inches under jeans but for a change i thought i would wear a skirt. i wish i could do it more often, but i am still trying to gain more confidence. wearing heels on my days off makes it easyier, i just wish i could wear them more often TTFN

hi there, would there be any one willing to meet up in the preston or north west lancashire area, as my husband and myself would love to meet up with like minded people who share an interest in wearing heels. We would love to be able to possibly set up a regular meeting, this will allow us all to discuss our thoughts, fears aand experiances in person, which i feel would be good for all and more so those that struggle to go out in public wearing heels. bye for now hope to here from you all with your answers xx

i understand what you are saying with regards to the fact that people are mostly thinking about who is looking at them rather than the other way round, but we have been out many times with my husband wearing a range of boots from cowboy boots to 4 inch high heeled stiletto boots. yet people have noticed his foot wear with mixed comments. we make a point of when we are out to loook at peoples foot wear but have not once noticed a guy wearing heels, it would just be nice to see other men in heels. as i know from this web site there is so many guys who do enjoy and feel comfy in heels i dont understand why we have not seen any men wearing heels out. i do know that its confidence with some men, but from reading msg's alot do have the confidence.so where are you all ?????? ps we are in the preston lancs area bye for now

hi there reply to sept181 and who ever else this may help, you shouldnt hide your heels away, its your house and you do what feels right for you dont think about others because if they are people worth knowing they will accept you for who you are, i have said this to my husband a few times and we are now getting questions along the lines of where are your boots today and when we first got that question we were both taken by suprise but in a nice way and most people where we live knows my husband wears heels it has taken 3 years and a few not so nice comments but most are positive but we are on the right path. so you see there are more people out there that not only repect you but accept you out there than you think take care and keep wearing your boots x

hi again

i was thinking do any meetings or support groups happen locally or not, i only ask because i would love to come with my husband to meet you and your partners to chat. i know that sending msg's on here is a wway to find out info and feelings but its not quite the same as meeting up as a group and

1 supporting each other and your partners

2 confidence building

3 for those that find it hard to go out in pulic it would be a start

4 sharing experiances

5 arrange outtings together

have any meeting or support groups ever been tryed with this web site?

another question how many other guys have you personally seen out wearing heels because we have not unless its fancy dress??

cheers again little gem

hi there bubba136 and everyone else thanks for your welcoming me, yes we will visit often and my husband does wear stillettos out and has on occassion wore a skirt tights and knee lengh boots too. nice to hear from you x

When i first met my husband he told me about him wearing heels and skirts almost with in the first month, (i think he thought him telling me would put me off a relationship, not that easy to get rid of me lol ).

He said to me do u want to see, i said why not. the next time he can to mine he brought an outfit, unbeknown to me when i was in the shower he put his outfit on and when i went in the living room he was stood near the window at the other side of the room wearing a denim mini skirt tights and knee lengh boots with a cube heel. My first thought was wow he has better legs than me and most other women i know.

From then on it has never bothered me that he wears womens cloths as long as he is happy, we have had a few outings locally but mostly when the mood takes him or myself my husband wears his stillettos under jeans which i love. Once at christmas we went out to town and my husband was dressed as mrs santa wearing a short dress fishnet tights and thigh lengh stilletto boots (which i bought him for xmas) we both loved it although i do believe that he was nervous.

Not long after we first met we went out shopping and me and my husband were trying on boots ( yes we both ended up with new stilletto boots ), at first i guess i was a little nervous but went after a few times of going out shopping it passed. Now i love going out shopping with him and comparing different styles/designs but not only that most of us women normally complain about the fact men dont like shopping wi us, well at least he does and not only that he enjoys it and helps out properly not just saying they will do love

Now the only problem is who gets the new shoes/boots him or me.

bye for now

hi there to all in the high heel foum,

My husband introduced me to this site, he loves to wear high heels and i love to see him in them too

i believe that if us women can wear trousers, shirts and boxers then why cant men wear heels.

if you research it men where wearing tights tunics and heeled shoes well before women were its only as time has gone by that women have taken the idea on for themselves.

each unto ther own comfort and happiness is what counts xx