B9HM

Hi, fellas;

I'm new here, and I hate to be disruptive, but I have serious questions that I would REALLY appreciate answered: by men, honestly.

Because you wear heels, do you consider yourself a crossdresser?

If you consider yourself a heterosexual crossdresser, and heels are 'merely' your favorite thing, are you only attracted to women who dress as you like to dress?

If you have fantasies regarding being female, when dressed or not, do you fantasize about sexual encounters with men?

If you are in a committed heterosexual relationship, how do your fantasies and dressing affect your relationship with your significant other?

I know these are intrusive questions (I HOPE I have the right forum for this), and I appreciate greatly your honesty in answering. If I'm being inappropriate:mecry:, please let me know.

Thanks!

Well you are like most women,associating what a man can wear with being gay.Women wear anything they like,men style clothing and very often men footwear and nobody classifies you as being lesbian.Seems society really puts men in a different class.I have been married for 25 years,and loved heels since very young.It just is something I feel good in,definately no homo tendancies or even desire to crossdress,it is just something that makes me feel good ,sort of getting out of the boredom of male footwear where you just basically choose the color of the same old style of shoes.It is interesting that you are asking such questions,maybe you are just curious or jave a friend who might have that particular taste.

I am very impressed that you can actually go out for long periods in balletheels.No wonder you can get severe cramps with your foot at such an angle.My wife first introduced me to ultra heels with all lockeable footwear,including ballet ankle boots,so I know how you can feel when you have cramps as I have experienced it many times at first.Contrairy to you ,I am in the house and can sit a bit more often than you.I think it would be safer if your partner brought the keys with him in case of emergency,otherwise it could cause damage to your tendons if they stay cramped for too long.If I get bad cramps,she will release my footwear until it goes away,but I am soon back in the air after the cramps pass.Good luck convincing your partner to bring along the keys. Ballet9heelsM

I am a size 10 uk,but take also 9-k,Why the question?

Hi, I can understand how you feel ,and it is too bad society is so narrow minded when it comes to men's tastes in clothing or footwear style.I believe it is the women who really cannot deal with men who want a change from the boring styles we ususlly wear.I havd loved heels since I was about 5 years old,and I am now 60.I am normal married male who do wear heels as much as I can when home alone.my wife knows about my little secrets,but like every women,thinks I am probably a little weird.Seems women can dress in our clothes as often as they want and that is ok,but if a man comes close to women attire or heels,we are sick in the head.Seems like to be a man, in their eyes, we have to appear as boring conservative in our attire as possible.They must be so unsure of their feminity that they feel threatened if a man likes to war heels or other things(reserved to women). I know some men would look pretty weird in heels while others can look good with proper walk and dressing style,same with some women,not every women look good in heels. Great subject you brought up. B9HM

Hi,curious,what type of footwear would you want him to wear?After all,there is not much choice in male footwear,only the color is different.Very different from women's styles.Too bad for us

Acknowledging the american sizing is different to the uk

My lady wore these for our wedding.

http://www.hhplace.org/picture.php?albumid=16&pictureid=1763

she is size 5 uk and 5ft 4" and stayed up for the full afternoon and evening.

Just to set a challenge:winkiss:

Al

Alsheels,

Those are very nice heels,the kind all women should wear for their wedding.heel is pretty reasonable,my wife wore similar ones but the heels were higher,what s sight she was

Still,2½¨heels on a female is very low,even at that size,and your comment on th weight of the dress might make sense,but I believe most women talk about their heels to attract attention ,hoping a man will hear that.As you know most men are attracted to heeled women.

Hi,it really feels great,I have been wearing heels at home for about 20 years and I am still eager to put them on when I return from work.I have from 5¨to 7¨heels plus ballet heels so I have experienced just about everything that is available.I am very straight and married,but the taste for wearing heels started very young.It is an addiction.Same thing for women heel lovers,they will suffer on too high heels that are worn when they should be in flats for certain occasion,but the attraction is too great and they will be in pain but happy.That aout sums it all.

I would choose the seduce model,if you are to really walk that distance,the 5¨heel ,no plat will be better even if higher heel.The pink color is a bit sissy though,but try to get a pair a different color

Could you wear this shoe? I myself couldn't. I just got a pair of ballets not that long ago and can not stand in them let alone walk in them "not yet anyways" and they have a thin heel which one can put a little weight on. Don't get me wrong, I love this shoe and would love to own it just because, but I do not think I could ever walk in them. Could you?

This shoe has a 7.5" heel and comes in sizes 5-14.

They are very different in design,but also sort of kinky and nice.I am sure I could walk a bit in them,I have some balletboots with a full 9¨heel that I can actually walk a bit in them,sothose shoes could be tamed with practice