Beegirl

@kaygirl, my thoughts also, but yes even with one limb she still needs to get shoes! and what does she do with the other one that she is not using.

Hi there, my hubby loves me wearing heels in the bedroom, he ask me so often, when you wearing your heels, and yes it gets a little bit nagging sometimes as we do not share the same passion, but as I know how he feels about heels, I just let it go, and maybe I must just wear them more in the bedroom for him, it also makes me feel good needless to say. So do not stop, as sometimes we wifes also needs to be reminded what you husbands like, and its easy for us to let it go and forget it!!!

Well me and hubby went to look at a very nice shoe shop that only sells shoes from that side of the world, my only reaction "WOW", we wanted to order over the net, but was not sure about the sizes for me or him as the sizes is not the same, I am wearing a 8 shoe and the one that fits me is a 12, so to be safe for him we need to get a 13 for him as he wears a 9 . Well I was suprise when I fit the one stiletto, it was so soft, that was for me amazing as our local stilettos is not cumfy like that. So yes we getting for us, Now for this question, is all the sizes the same or does it also differ from make. Then my second question, I do not wear heels alot, even if I love them to bits, but wear mostly flat shoes to work for comfort. When I do decide to wear heals, its for about 2 hours, then I have pain galore on the top side of my feet. I still battle to get rid of the pain and even walk difficult now, somebody at my work said that it could be from the sudden change to heels that I damage or tore a muscle in my foot. Because of this problem I can not wear all the lovely shoes I have and I so much want to.

I hope you gave the bartender a nice big tip, as that must have made your wife feel like a Million dollars, we woman would love to get compliments like that, and if it came from a stranger it means much more!!! Caming from your husband or bf, it also means alot, but you never know if they just saying it.

Hi there, well my hubby loves wearing VERY, VERY high heels, even if it just do not look right, as he is already very tall, but I admire it as he can even walk in them, as I will not be able to!!!!! The boots is reaallllyyyy a long dream for us, as I LOVE boots, theigh boots is the BEST, so sure me and him will get a pair together, and we can go out, we just need to get the right place to do it, and that will be really the TOPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Well I'm a little bit downhearted

Do not worry about no reply's they all are lost for words!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wel if that is the boots you have on your avator, they absolutely , please help as I really would like to go and look at your pics, but I just can not find it!!!!!

High heels!!!??? Where!!!???

agree with you, that is actually ugly:penitent:

And I bet you that looked very good!

Hi there I would like some help on getting the perfect avatar , the picture I have in mind is thigh high boots that has openings in the side, or some detail on the side, I saw boots like that but can not find the pic, so if somebody have a pic like that and would not mind me using that as my avatar, I would appreciate it!

Very nice shoes, will not mind having my own pair like that, but I always have a problem with the strap around the ancle, that is not one of my favaroutes, but what stands out is the patern on the sole, now that is nice!!!!!!!

I love boots like that, really something nice, but this is just my personal opinion, and please do not hold it against me, the jeans is to baggy underneath it, and that spoil the style for me, as per your previous post, if you do want to wear it over something yes then do it over skin tight jeans, but again just my personal choice is wearing that gorguous boots with nothing else on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! heeee ha!!!!!!!!!

Maybe its the way you walk, as I also love the shoes and have a few pairs, and do not have any problems of it slipping out, what I really do not like it the ones with the strap around the ancle, as the strap keep on sliding down and that can be very irratating, or maybe I am just one of the lucky ones that can wear them All of the best and I really hope you get a sullotion

Does the sight of a man in high heels turn you on or off?

No it does not, when my hubby is wearing them I actually then can see how the shoe really look on feet, and to be onnest, I actually thinking "that look better on my feet" ha ha ha, but no it does not turn me on or off

Do you find it interesting or simply wrong?

Interesting as this is something very new for me and something me and him share that no other person know off, it actually brought us closer together.

Are you for it or against it?

That I can not answer as it does not turn me off, so I am not against it, but its every persons own choice how he would like to spend his money, and his/her life, you only have one life in this life, so live it to the fullest and do what make you happy, that if you go to bed every night you can think back on the day and you know that if you die tonight you did what you love to do

Men wearing high heels in public, a "do" or a "don't"?

That would be nice, as then my hubby could have wear his without feeling out, and really could have enjoy the love of heals to the fullest

Hi Beegirl,

You sound great! Think of it as a hobby rather than a fetish and it might be easier to get along with. I've known people with far more destructive and downright nasty fetishes.

My girlfriend and I have the same size feet and that wasn't by accident. Now we share shoes and have quite a few matching pairs.

It's a strange, strange world and loving shoes is just one of the better slices of the cake.

Good luck,

Ben

Thanks Ben, I really needed to hear that, and I will def start looking at it as a hobby,

Yep thats a obsession girl, but I am sure a good one as long as you do not hurt anybody with the obsession, and I am sure the people seeing you in it, also like it.

WOW what a responce, thanks you guys are really a big sorce of info, I do hear everything that is said, but in my mind the two is linked to each other:

FETISH: Most of the material on fetishism is in reference to heterosexual men, with most of the objects fetishized being high-femme items such as lingerie, hosiery, and heels.Some fetish fashion items include: stiletto heel shoes and boots (most notably the ballet boot)

OBSESSION: Repetitive behaviors or mental acts that the person feels driven to perform in response to an obsession.the individual must realize that his/her obsessions or compulsions are unreasonable or excessive. Moreover, the obsessions or compulsions must be time-consuming (taking up more than one hour per day)

after reading through some of the explanations on wikepedia, I am thinking that the love of shoes is more a fetish than an obsession. But it can get to be an obsession.

Thanks for all the welcome words, and my hubby is already on the forum, he introduce it to me as nobody knows about the fetish and sometimes I have questions to ask and need more than one outlook on things. RSA is Republic of South Africa, so I think its a very conservative contry. But we are on the look out for ways to make it happen, in the mean time the heels is for the room. Beleive me its not a very easy fetish to accept as I was brought up very narrow minded, so to think out of the box is for me a big adjustment mind wise, but I love my hubby and know that if the roles was twisted he would have stand by me.

Is having a fetish for shoes not the same as an obsession? I do understand that a fetish is a turn on, but it can also be an obsession as the person having the fetish can not have enough of it, then it becomes an opsession. So is there a difference?

My hubby told me after 5 years about his fetish, the first reaction was "you must be joking", as he said he is serious, I did not want anything to do with it, but my opinion did change in time as I did some searches and saw he is not the only man that have this fetish, wel I am working on accepting the fact, and accept that this is what he is, I was surprise when I saw the shoes that he was hiding from me. Now we visit shoe shops together, I may say, our tast is a little bit different, but I do know what he likes, now I know why he always was buying me shoes, it was actually to feed his fetish need as I did not know yet. I saw some nice shoes that I knew he would like and really wanted to buy him for valentine to show that I am ok with it, but they did not have it in his size, the best of this all is we are the same shoe size, so now I just wonder what is he doing when he is alone at home!!!! I LOVE him to bits, and in a way feel sorry for him as it can not be easy that he can not life his love for shoes out in the open in our country.

As some already said, it hurt on the ball of my feet, and then when you walk and there is paving, and the heel keep on going inbetween the paving, and then when you drive you also damage the heel, and there is nothing that look so bad as a damage heel.

these are boots, no shoes, ma really wonderful.

http://cgi.ebay.it/L-R-STILETTO-OVERKNEE-STIEFEL-BOOTS-STRETCH-LEATHER-42_W0QQitemZ300278820067QQihZ020QQcategoryZ53556QQtcZphotoQQcmdZViewItem

Love boots like this, really nice, pitty I can not get a pair that fit me!!