Hey everyone first time posting on a site like this but I had a general question and was wondering if any guys who are married to a woman who (used) to like to wear heels out.
I live in long Island and have been married 8 years and together for 12... when we first met I told her early on about my high heel infatuation and it's kind of a deal breaker if it's something they wouldn't be into exploring or doing.... luckily she was. Years have gone by and I've got her over probably 200 plus different heels over the years. She used to wear them all the time and would wear a nice outfit for date night. As time went on we went out with other couples who's gf's/wives don't care about self image and would say things to her like why are you wearing that outfit... why are you wearing heels when we're going to sit in the movie theater for 2 hours... and over the years it's caused my wife to become self conscious and have low self esteem.
I'd love to find another couple who lived closer to us who's wife is someone who would/does/wants to wear heels when going out so my wife woukd hopefully regain the confidence she's lost by negative people and that she would be comfortable wearing any heels from 3 inch to 10 inch.. because someone else is doing it as well and is kind of able to show her fuck what anyone else says.. do what you want.
Has anyone ran into a similar scenario? Did you have solutions? Ive tried for years now driving home the point and saying "don't listen to anyone else... You're married to me... the only thing you should be concerned with is what I am/would think about an outfit/ a pair of heels/ where you're wearing them etc. But despite telling her time and time again it never sticks
