Sandi

I am very straight. Never had even a fantasy about or any sexual attraction to any guy. I have had a fascination with high heels and sheer nylon stockings since age 5. I do get sexual arousal from wearing stockings and heels. My wife says I am a better lover when I am wearing heels and hose. Odd but fun, lots of fun! Sandi

Uggs can look cute enough at times. But only with them turned down several inches. My boyfriend kinda likes them on me with jeans or a miniskirt when we are out romping about. They are a little hard on my feet tho because I have been wearing stilettos most of the time since early teens. My feet ache if I wear flats too long, just like heels do on women that don't wear high heels much. My all-time hated footwear were Doc Martens! Thank God they are out of fashion!

Guys it is a shame to see so much soul searching over your love of wearing high heels. My boyfrined is the same way. Makes me sad for him to see him so wrought with anxiety over such a harmless desire. It took months after I figured out he was trying on my shoes to get him to talkl about it. It wasn't hard for me to understand his love for heels, because I had loved them since a little girl. Whenever my mom left a pair laying around I'd jump at the chance to try them on and prance around in them. When I was in Jr. high Mom would let me buy high heels only if I earned the money for them. She was unhappy when the first pair I bought were 4 inch black patent pumps. She thought I was too young. I begged her to let me wear them to school. She would not, so sometimes I'd sneak them out in my boot bag. That stopped when the principal called my mom to say they felt the heels were inappropriate for Jr. hi. Finally my boyfriend is comfortable wearing his heels around me. He also loves wearing vintage nylon stockings, and frankly his legs look really great in heels and hose! I have even bought him a few skirts and will lay one out for him to change into when he gets home from work. This has increased our closeness and added a level of intimacy to our relationship, not to mention the increased sexual attraction for us both. So guys, stop the worry and self-examination and enjoy! Sandi