stevenyeandl

1 hour ago, HappyinHeels said:

stevenyeandI,

Whilst I understand what you are looking for I think you should understand this is not a dating site. It is a socially interactive site involving people of all walks of life as you correctly observed. A balanced website will tend to draw a diverse crowd which is a good thing. Our site takes great pains to remain clean and enjoyable for all without straying into topics which could be reasonably described as fetishistic. Most of us recognize that men wearing heels is a personal and completely legal choice but that large sections of mainstream society may not see it that way. Large sections of society didn't used to understand or want to understand gays and lesbians or transgender people until one day they realized they were no threat to them. Same thing here. Gentle but persistent education is the key to understanding us as well as any thing else. As far flung as we are and as diverse as we are we all share this same interest which is the bedrock of this site. We often talk about what kinds of heels we wear, with what outfits, and even where we wore them and may include some photos for better reference. Now, out of this interaction, you may privately message other members which may provide further information on your specific question. As far the U.K. goes let's just say the Crown is amply represented here. The site is managed from the U.K. and we have many members from there on this site. We also talk about other things from fixing machines and cars or doing yardwork and other such common topics any good neighbors may talk about. There is a certain standard to be maintained so that the right kind of advertisers are here and so that the wrong type of searches do not lead to this site. It's called self-preservation. So far it has worked. Basically our site administrator above, Tech, has left the call to us. I figured I'd lay out the premise of the site in the hopes you can interact with us and not cross the line. It is not a judgment rather a clarification. You can always review this site's rules.  The ref has not called a penalty but is watching your footwork. Stay onside and on the field of play and you'll have nothing to concern yourself with. I hope this all makes sense to you and you'll stay to enjoy the conversation. HappyinHeels

Thank you very much. I wasn't trying to be a nuisance or break the rules, for which I apologise. Like I said I wasn't trying to date anyone or meet anyone in person, just talk to someone online who chose that lifestyle. Nevertheless I appreciate I was wrong and I'll try not to repeat the mistake in the future.

Hi All

As I said in my introductory post, I've always been fascinated by girls who wear extreme high heels, and also the women who choose to become ''permanently heeled'' and are unable to wear flats/put their feet flat, etc. Strange I know, but hey ho, just the way I am. Obviously it's not something I would ever try to convince one of my past gf's to do, since I think it has to be a lifestyle choice that they have to choose for themselves, not simply to please me. Unfortunately, where I'm from I've never had the fortune to meet one of these incredibly brave women, and nobody I've found online who's made this lifestyle choice has ever been UK based. 

Which is what brings me here. From what I've seen of this forum there are people from all walks of life, and as such I thought if there were any UK based women who choose this lifestyle, they would either be on here or would know someone who is on here. Obviously it's a very intimate thing to talk about, so I'm not looking to ask any personal questions, I'd just love some insight into the lifestyle, such as your experiences and how it affects your day to day life, just so that if one day, in one chance in a million I get to date a permanently high-heeled woman, I know how to make her feel like a queen. 

Cheers everybody