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Hi rmaciej1983 Nice pictures. Nice outfits too. I don´t think this skirt you wear in the pictures is to short. I think this length on your skirt is quite ok for a day at the office. Like the heels too. Like the black ones as much as the red. Your hose looks ok to me. Have you ever consider wearing black sheer hose. It would look very nice too. Just a thought. Perhaps a black or red turtle neck? Just another thought. Anyway you must tell us how it all went. You look great! GOOD LUCK!

HappyFeat Me too, I can recommended control top pantyhose. They´re certainly very nice too wear a pair of hose like this when you have to do a whole day up on your feet standing. I wore them for the first time when I was to a trade show. Had to be up on my feet most of the day for the wole week. A colleague to me recomended me trying them. She had been using them for years.

Hi hhdude159 The garter belt is used for holding up the stockings. Its coming often as a set, a garter belt set with with panties and suspenders hanging from the garter belt.

That´s great, you having a new girlfreind. You know Nick-65 this thing about your girlfreind is taller then you, in my opinion this doesen´t realy matter. As long as you love each other this doesen´t matter. Yes I know, generally speaking, guys sometimes doesen´t feeling comfy the woman being taller but so what. As long as you care for each other, love each other, it doesen´t matter. Since you asking for some help I wondered if you considered starting wearing high heels. I don´t mean to offend you, I just wanted to give a bit of help. I don´t mean stiletto heels or something like that but have you ever considering trying say a cowboy boots with a signature heel. It would make you feel a bit longer, it would make you, I bet look good, especially together with a pair of boot legged jeans. Hope you don´t mind me giving you this tip. GOOD LUCK!

That sounds great, that sounds wonderful Nick-65, wish you all the best.

As long as I remember I have been interested in things girl/women are interested in. Clothes, shoes, fashion things like this. I like reading about it, love going shoping. I like to sew, like knitting. I like home decorating, I like doing it, like reading about it. I like going out dancing with Michael, going to the theater, go to a mowie. Guess I´m as any other women. Its just that having a full time job, having Michael and the house to take care of it seems I have less and less time for my hobbies. I also seemes to be more and more involved in Michael´s hobbies. I use to follow him doing thing he´s interested in. Michael´s hobbies is cars, car racing, motor cycles, ice hockey. I ended up going with him to the car races, going to a hockey game. Or we going for a ride on his motor bike. To be honest I´m not at all interested in this but as his fiance I think its good for our relationship we doing things together. Michel interest is also mine interest (at least I try learning being more interested). Michael has also a lot freinds charing the same interests. They´re not just Michael freinds but they´re also becoming mine freinds too. Especialy the girlfreinds/wifes. So what´s yours hobbies? I´m as any other women. I´m interested in clothes, all thing that has any thing with fashion to do.

Why do I wear heels? Well there´s a lot of reasons why I do it. Living as a woman my high heels is now a part of me, in the same way as are my skirts/dresses, my makeup and all the thing. I´m supposed to wear heels, I look good wearing heels, my figure get a better postures. My fiance like it, me wearing high heels. I wear heels as much for my self and for him as well. We going out I´m wearing heels most of the time. Its makes me feel a bit longer. Being a short person, wearing high heels making me appear a bit taller. Even in my high heels I´m shorter then my fiance, even if I´m wearing 5" heels he´s taller then me. Wearing high heels also making me feel a bit more important, a bit more powerful. Working as I do in a man´s dominated office I need to feel a bit more powerful. I´m not saying I´m a powerful person but my high heels and me wearing a nice outfit a nice makeup, yes I feel more powerful, more at the same level as my male colleagues. At the same time, feeling a little bit more powerful I feel a bit vaulnurable too. Its hard to explain. I feel my male colleagues takes notice of me more if I´m wearing high heels. Somehow I feel they seeing me, lissten to what I have to say if I´m having a nice outfit on, good looking heels on. They surely hear me coming, clicking my way down the corridor or clicking my way in to having a meeting. Somehow I try taking this as an advantage for me, trying get them to see me, to lissten to me.

Me I never walk with my hands in my pocket. Why? Wearing a skirt or a dress most of the time there is no pocket to put my hand in and even if I´m wearing trousers/jeans sometimes I never walk with my hands in the pocket. Me out walking I´m always carryng a hand bag a shoulder bag, as HHfanatic said. I always having a handbag not just to have a place to have one of my hand on. I just need a hand bag for all my things, that´s why. My other hand I just let it sway by my side. Walking in high heels and wearing a skirt or dress as well I have to walk with short delicate steps, I have to strut, trottering my way ahead. There is no other way for mne. I can´t do it with my hands in my pocket, even if I had any. So, as you said HHfanatic, holding my shoulder bag with one hand my other hand I just let sway by my side or better, walking together with my fiance I hold this hand in his.

Yes lil becs long glove would go so very very well to a dress like yours. I would go for long satin gloves too. Black yes, I´ll agree with you perhaps not over your elbow. What I can see from the pictures and the way you describe it, your dress looks fantastic. Gloves is a must. Perhaps a nice little jacket too. Have consider wearing a hat too. A wide brimmed hat looks very classy, matching your dress, the gloves too. I can very well recomended you wearing long gloves and a wide brimmed hat too. I had added both the long gloves and a wide brimmed hat to my outfit for a wedding Michael (my fiance) and me was invitated too. All my outfit was in purple, my dress, my jacket, my hat, my gloves, my 5" pumps and my little sating hand bag as well. Go for the gloves and don´t forget the hat.

k6ps I´m sure an "aternative" wedding can be just as nice and pleasant as a "traditional" wedding. Your wedding sounds to be a very nice one. Me I just love traditional weddings. Can´t help it. I love all the things about it. Getting all dressed up, putting on a nice dress. I love the wedding cermoni, though I´m crying, I love it. I´ve just been too two weddings so far and I love the cermoni on both occasions. The second one I attended this wedding together with Michael. We was an atem. I had shivering running all over my body, seeing the married couple. Standing there beside Michael, thinking about us, in my new dress, new heels, my new wide brimmed hat, we holding hands. Standing very close together. I wanted this to be us. Yes I was crying. Micheal saw I was craying under my wide brimed hat. Looking up to him, "I can´t help it love". I remember all this very clear. I wanted this to be us. I just love all about wedding, the cermoni, the reception, the dinner, the dances, the going away-party, seeing the happyly newly wedded couple leaving for theirs wedding night. I love all this, can´t help it. I don´t know why I feel like this, I just do. All my freinds feeling much the same way I do. Well my female freinds that is. Can´t say Michael is feeling the same way I do about weddings. Or any other guys for that matter. Guess most girls/women is feeling the same way I do about weddings. Its a "girl-thing" I guess. I´ve always been like this. Always feeling like this.

No I have never get teased of what I´m wearing. I have been called "sissy" but this was only when I started my transformation to living as a girl/woman. Since then all this has stoped. I understand you feel very uncertain of what she mean with it all, first giving you compliment how you look then saying "Hey sissy" infront of a crowed of people. That´s not a very nice thing to do. I think you should confroted her, asking her what she realy mean with all this. In my experiance gilrs/women are more open with this. I have never meet a girl/woman that have speaking bad about me or giving me bad comments. The girls/women I know of and talking to has all being a great help to me, supporting me, accepting me as one of them.

I wear mostly hose to my high heels. The only time I´m not wearing hose is during the summer months June, July and August, the wheter is nice and warm and I get the chance to get a nice sun tan to my legs. The rest of the year its pantyhose or nylons for me.

I agree with you the secret with every relationship is that you can talk with your partner. Michael and I are always doing this, we understand each others. I guess Michael got a bit suprised when I told him about this bit of a new job. He wasn´t prepared for this, me having to work out town more then I do now, coming home a little later in evenings and I have to leave home a bit earlier too, catching my train. Guess Michael going to drive me to the train station, picking me up in the evening too. The way he does now. I told him this doesen´t change anything between us. I told him I always be there fore him, backing him up, supporting him, love him. It dosen´t matter if I´m spending a few days outside town, leaving home a bit early, coming home a bit late. I´m still going to be there bisede him. No matter what. I guess it will take Michael a little time accept this but I´m sure he will accept this when we have been talking this through. He´s seeing it more from my point a view.

I don´t quite agree with you. I love everything about weddings. That´me. Its something special about it and yes me to I like the receptions too. The two weddings I have attended so far I worn a dress, high heels (on my sister wedding I wore high heel sandal, on the wedding me and Michael went to I wore pumps) and me too, I wore a wide brimmed hat on wedding me and Michael attended.

Yesterday my boss wanted to have a talk with me. It was about the job I do at another office in another town that´s belongs to our company. I usually spending one day of the week there. My boss told me they was very pleased with my work and that he was thinking that this job would be more permanent for me. My boss told me I probably had to go there spending a few more days there, attending meetings and so on. I was very glad, very proud he had asked me. I told my boss I coulden´t say yes or no to this offer before I had spoken to Michael. Taking this job would mean that I have to spend more time out of town, at least 2-3 days everry week. This would make my working days very long. I was very glad, very proud telling Michael this. Michael took it not the way I quite had expected. Ofcourse he was glad for me but I could see he wasn´t 100% for it. Don´t know what to do. Phoned my sister yesterday evening telling her about it. She told me, I should take it. Still I don´t know what to do. I don´t want to do do it if Michael not feeling 100% comfortable with it, me taking this job. I know this could be a good thing for my career but I also want Michael to supporting me in this all the way. Advice anyone, please.

Hi jimlimbs Good you doing the laundry and the cooking as well. Its good your girlreind helps you. You two charing this work.

Arctic Its so sad you don´t like weddings. Like I said, I love weddings. I love everything about it. Don´t know why, I just love them. I know Michael is a bit the same as you but me I just love weddings.

Bubba136 No I had already started living as a girl/woman when I attended these weddings.

Talking about wedding. I love weddings, I love everything that has anything to do with weddings. So far I´ve just been to two weddings. My sisters a few years ago and last autum, Michael and I was to a freinds wedding. I love all about this. I love wearing a nice dress, I love the cermoni, I love all of it. And ofcourse I started to cry at my sisters wedding. Yes I know I shoulden´t be doing this but I did. I did cry even more on the wedding Michael and me was going to. Standing there together with Michael, yes I cry, thinking about us. I just can´t help it. Anybody else out there doing the same, feeling the same at weddings?

Yes long gloves would look good, adding glam to the rest of your outfit too. And why not wearing a hat too. A wide brimed hat, this would surely give you a very classy look. I love weddings. Enjoy the girls wedding dinner!

Hi gary0618 That´s nice. What a nice thing to do having the dinner ready for your girlfreind when she comes home from work. Oh that´s sweet of you doing breakfast too. Michael doing breakfast for me, for us Saturdays and Sundays. He´s giving me breakfast in bed. That´s very sweet of him. I very much appreciate he doing this for me. I see your girlfreind doing the laundry and the genral cleaning around the place. Me I´m the same. I´m doing all this work at ours. I have try learning Michael how separate different clothes (by colour and fabric), how do the laundry, how to manage a washing machine, a tumble drier. Michael is doing fine, its just that its takes him a bit of time doing this and he doesen´t like doing this. Its going much faster when I´m doing it, that´s why I doing all this. I have try to learn Michael how too iron his clothes, his shirts, his trousers. He has a bit difficulties doing this so its better I do iron all our clothes, both his and mine. Michael is helping me doing the dishes and so on. Like you gary, Michael doesent like doing the dishes but its a thing one has to do. This works for us, for Michael and me.

Hi mackman69 Do you do the laundry and cleaning too or does your girlfreind helping you with this.

I think its to early letting 10-12 year old girls wearing high heels. I think one shall let children be children as long as they can. Very soon you realize as a parent they grown up, they´re not children any more. So I, think let children be children while they can.

I agree Guy N. Heels, this should not be what defines the relationship and in our relationship, Michael´s and mine its not. Its just that I do these things better than Michael. He is better than me on other things, more technical things like cars and other thechnical things.

That´s nice. I bet your mother appreciate you doing this.