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My wife totally hates the idea of me wearing anything to do with women's shoes. She doesn't want me to even think about it. Not even for a second. Hmm, I'm married for three years, too late to change the most closed-minded woman in the world. She's so stubborn she kept her last name. I never see her wear a ring either. Most you guys are lucky. Then again I wasn't lucky in finding a woman, and that's a whole nother topic. I just grabbed onto this one for fear of being lonely. What was i supposed to do? Put an ad "Single Man Looking for Woman who loves high heels AND doesn't mind partner wears 'em too"? Hmm, maybe I shoulda. I did buy some heels for my wife, but she doesn't wear them, they just sit in the closet. She will wear heels, if they're low, maybe 1" or 2" if I'm lucky to coax her into wearing them. I never saw her try on anything higher than 4". But 2"-4" hmm maybe she'll try them on, then complain "they're too tight, they're too loose, they're too itchy, they're too sweaty, they're this that, blah blah blah and 101 excuses. I guess youtube is a great website if you know what I mean, *wink wink, haha, got great vids of women in heels, haha, the yolks on you, wife! Well g'nite.

My wife totally hates the idea of me wearing heels. Just when I recovered from my ankle injury, my wife found my heels in the car while rummaging around, last week. She was angry and demanded why and where I bought them. "They're only for women" "They make your butt swing side to side" "You need to see a psychiatrist, you have a mental problem", plus more I forgot. Before she found my stash, she got suspicious that I was spending more time at the park, late at night (it was only what 2-3 times). I said that the air is fresher, and less people around. She said it was dangerous. She told me to exercise outside our apartment complex. (Our unit is so tiny and tons of ppl live around the area, don't wanna get seen). Plus the fact that I never really exercise gave her the tip. She vehemently told me to NEVER think about wearing women's shoes again or else. I told her that she rarely wore heels, and she said "So? That doesn't give you the right to wear heels!" I wanted to say "I'll go on Youtube and watch women in fetish heels!" but no I don't wanna get into more trouble. So now I'm sad, don't know what to do, I guess I'll have to quit this forum forever. Thanks everyone for all their help. Damn I thought my life was better being married, but I guess you can't have everything My wife may schedule me to go see a psychiatrist, plus with a big mouth like hers she probably told all her relatives and friends about this. In real life I'm very shy and wish to just disappear right now. Bye everyone, W

Nice heels. I bought a pair of 6" heels from heelbuy on ebay for my wife, couple of years ago. to this day she's hasn't even tried 'em on

Wow, you guys have had great experiences. I was eager to go "heeling". The past couple of days I tried walking outdoors only at night in my 3" ankle boots. My heart kept racing 100bpm. I decided to walk outdoors in the daytime today. My boots make loud noises so I decided to wear the 3" wedges, which is a bit quieter. After 3 steps I twisted my ankle pretty badly. Pity these were new shoes and I'm new to wearing heels. Now I gotta wait until I "heal" If my wife knew, she'd say "You seeeeee???"

Thanks for the welcomes, Dr. Shoe and loveshiheels! Ive been reading the posts here and they're very helpful and handy. And I SHOULD read before doing/saying anything After reading the "heeling out" posts, i decided to try to walk outdoors in broad daylight. On the third step, you guessed it I sprained (ouch) my ankle wearing only 3" wedges, ho hum). Well, while I'm 'healing' (may take 4-6 wks) I'll be reading more of you guys' posts, thanks! -W

OMG I bought a similar pair for my girlfriend around 9 years ago. I loved those shoes and never knew where to buy them! Thanks. Unfortunately she didn't wear 'em and probably threw 'em away after we broke up. She hates high heels anyways. Hmm, what's with me meeting ladies who dislike high heels. I always thought high heels were only for celebrities or magazine models

Greetz, Hi all, I'm new here, I never knew this site existed, finally a site for us. So much info here Was referred here by CJ. I've been fascinated with high heels since 3, now I'm 30. I thought I was mentally ill or possessed? Let's see, I'm straight, strictly a heels lover, no chance of wearing other stuff. I'm married to a caring wife, we are great together. The only problem is trying to persuade her to wear high heels. She says low heels are okay but I don't see her wearing 'em. She says high heels hurt, makes her look taller than me, and may trip & fall get a broken bone, etc. She loves sneakers/flats so much they're inseparable. Anyways, I bought her various styled heels online before, and they're just sitting in the closet. I have to make her try them on, and after only 5 MINUTES she nit-picks and complains of pain, sweat, itchiness, and chemical odors. She says I'm wasteful, "Why buy X pairs of shoes? I only have one pair of feet!", and "we have no space in our cramped apartment", "I'm beginning to think you have a serious problem and need to take you to the psychiatrist", etc... Now I'm starting to give up on making her wear heels, just like I gave up on her getting a make-over, wearing dresses, makeup, manicure (dumb doctor told her not to get a manicure cause it was causing her stomach pains). Here's the twist, I'm interested & wanna wear heels myself, and don't know how to tell my wife, she'll flip out, i know her too well, she's very strict on social mores, that's what happens when we goto church... I got some great advice on another website so gonna try it out asap. Thanks for reading and Happy New Years - Will