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@CasseJ: That's the truth... Most men must march the only way like a lemming. best wishes Shortskip

hmmm... it seems a guy had a lucky dream.... As other said before the economic times dictate the way to get a job equal if you are male or female. Shortskip

Hallo everyone, at first many thanks to all who have read my emotional words and also to those who answered and gave their own feeling a word. I was also surprised how many people have read it. Some details about me: For private use I'm a drummer (jazz , jazzrock- style like BrandX or/and The hamsters ) second I'm a freestyler in painting (acryl) and in that moments I feel also free as when I heel.. In my first language it's also a favorit thing to play with words and create some rhyme. So I can take many other things than heeling or gave a woman an eye...-) Some members want to inspire me to go to dance... that's absolut not my thing. I also don't want to take pills from the doc.. like psychofarmaca. But some days after my entry words in this thread I thought that there is nothing that s natural that everyone must have partner. So I will try not too much cry.. Days will be better or not...earth goes round Willing or heeling step for step or with a short skip to life in the life Happy heeling Shortskip

Hallo everyone, and a very off topic theme. it's friday...as so many fridays in the past with teardrops in my eyes. if I remember my hole life there was no specific turn that I can called a lovely passenge. No one woman would take a little bit care of me. I think that I'm a man, the world don't need. It's equal what I think...no one knows about it. It's equal what I want... everybody wants also this or that. The more I think, the more it's crazy. I'm old and gray man and I'm shure I was this kind also, as I was a young boy. It's hard to take this fact as a hard fact, that is true. I know...many members of this forum are shure great casanovas...equal what the wear, equal what they spoke...equal what they drive a car, having a boot....and so on.. I wish everyone all the best...but I ask... where are my little bit of life to get some part of charm... MUST I die in stockings and high heel so that the people around me can see... I'm a fool? I realy don't know and I think these words are so crazy. I'm sorry that I've written these letters.... no one can follow my minds many Thanks to all who followed my words.. Shortskip happy heeling

Hello Jeff, I think the same as Bubba said... Many pictures in the past gave a better shape of your body and your stile. Shortskip

OHHHHHHHHHHHHH No! I don't hide the clothes and shoes! Why should I do that? I'm old enough and have the balls! I'm a man- so I can wear what I want. Shortskip

Hello Malinheels, your following words a true- ....i don't want to be confused as a guy trying to be a girl I just want to wear the items of clothing that i like... It's also true, that your are not ill. Your ex plays the dirtiest thing I think. I'm shure you love your kids. These facts use your ex to "play" with your emotions. No discussion with her isn't good. Her art to stop discussions about what you want to wear is totally stupid- I think. Your thread is very usefull for everyone, because it shows in a hard way what can be.. We wear what we want.... and no chicken cries, when every stupid soccerfan strolls down the street shouting loud and wear coloured hats and faces... It's crazy.... but be shure we all live once... I wish you the best shortskip

...most of these shoes or boots looks much better than men shoes...and important they sounds much better on hard floor. In the past a man has an outstanding sound, when he stroke his way down the street (not marching!)...Today most of the men take there way loudless wearing sportshoes. I'm not a grey loudless mouse...so I do what I want and wear what ever I want. Shortskip

Hello everyone, last night I thought that I must give you some experiences of my outings last year and 2008. In 2008 was my first outing in the night. Wearing a knee above denim skirt , black pantyhose and kneehigh boots with a 7cm high heel (3inch?) and a sportive coat. It was raining a little bit and so I put the hood of the coat above my head. I was so nervous during my walk around the block but after my half an hour walk I was so happy that I have done it . During the walk I passend a young couple and a old man with his dog. No reactions.. Two or 3 weeks later I've done my next walk but I've taken another way. That walk was a little bit longer. Yeah...it was so good! In 2008 I spent much time wearing what I want at home. Always all windows were closed by windows shades so no one can't get a look. I don't want to do that longer so during last spring and summer I made my next step and spent many hours in the sun on balcony wearing skirt, hoses and boots. One saturday afternoon a older woman of my neighbourhood made a comment to my relaxed sitting ... ups...what has she seen? I don't hurry up and answered friendly. wow...my heart seemed to break.. In 2009 I've made another little step and I take a kneehighboot under trousers at work for the last hour to the end of worktime. The heel was 3inch high but well covered by the jeans. I was suprised by a man of a parcel service. When I opened the door he take a short look to my shoes and smiled a little bit but no comments followed. Last fall another little step. When I smoked outdors at work I've worn many times my boots under jeans. Most of these "events" I was allone at work and I think no one has seen my boots but my feelings at that moments were great. What's the reason for those staements of mine? - I remember - I was born in the 1950s and at that time my parents didn't educate us in things like personal freedom (wear what you want...and something like that). I think at that periode many boys weren't educated in emotional things. All education was focused to be functional. At that time ( women and girls mostly wear skirts and dresses) the public was not open minded. One result of the 2nd world war? So I remember of many hard restrictions to me what I should do and what's NO GO. - In the nearer past I 've found a lot of changes, which all are steps to the moment now. Please remember : free voting for coloured people in the usa, freedom in southafrica, woman are allowed to vote, the breake of the russian block...and so many other .. I think all that belongs to the people who want to change anything. I must thank all the members of HHplace to help me to find my way to personal freedom. You help in more than one way- not only the way to freestyling and wearing high heeled shoes. To know that I'm not stupid and not allone in this world supported me every time. Shortskip

Hello, today searching in the web I found many horrible examples of men in heels. This men are bad examples to propagate heels (skirts or other things) as usual freestyle men's clothes. Someone posing in a unusal art and that brings the horrible picture for everyone who will see 1 st time a man in heels(etc..). Much better examples I found in HHplace ( JeffB or Happyfeat or other) because they give us usual examples for wearing clothes and always I see the man and not a man who wants to change to the other gender. As JeffB said, try to look as good as you can...that's fact. It's a small line when we try to change other minds. We must be carefull and I will do my steps ...step by step...no one can't hurry me...BUT be shure we all live only our short life once. Shortskip

Hello Marhil711, I'm shure that I will not go the way to change into a woman. No thoughts to go outside fullydressed like a woman (wig, polished nails...etc.) . I will not cut my beard and my shoulders are to large than I can give the shadow of a woman.. Other people can only be shocked, when they will see a man from head to the waiste and from that point downways clothing usualy worn by women. So I think I will shock them a little bit...THEY must accept what they see. I also must accept many people wearing their buggyjeans and their caps. OK many members here are openminded and many threads gave me inspirations and also since I read that there are many other men who gives the new style of wearing what you want a chance. That's the reason why I do prefer this forum and not a fetishforum. yours Shortskip

..or is that all only a resume in midlife crisis..an some specific dreams, that never been realised? I don't know.. Shortskip

..or not I'm not shure what's right. .. Since a lot of years I was very interested what kind of feeling it was to wear a pantyhose,a skirt, and boots... the girls could wear them..I NOT. I like the look on every women... some stylish moments brings the details of every women up. hmm..the women... why ONLY the women? A boy or a man should do so? A man should only bring money, show sports on tv, look on terirble expensive cars...or walk into battles? NO, NO, NO! That's not my way...the way to be a human nature!! The above describedsocial MUST GO OR DIE WITH THAT is horrible. So I for me take another way...a small way and of cause..a little bit to late...I'm in the 50. So- I go MY small way changing me hard thinking, what shall I do and what will I do... I will do wear what I want! And nowadays I wear what I want... ok.ok...I'm a "Weichei" a german word for someone whow want's to be a hero...but there is nothing of those... I wear my clothes a little bit after work... hoses, skirts, boots.. At home I wear all of them fully often...and I think some neighbours saw that. IT's a special (not sexism) art of feeling, when I use this garnement. Don't know why.. that'spowerful. And when I write this I'm not shure ...can anybody replay my minds? I'm shure some male folks can do but women..I don't know. Sorry about my handicap to write in english.. I'll do my very best, but it's a great problem for me tell you, what massive ideas wont's to be applied inthis text..argggggggg I thought about the thing..what is outing. Is outing , to go strait away outdoors in bright day..fully in sun? Are there other kinds of outings in smaler ways, and can I go that way? Because I'm a weichei? I'm not shure..and no one could help me. I go my way..trying everyday a littlebit more to be a man with balls IN SKIRTS AND HEELS yours Shortskip

Jeff B wrote: I for one don't want to be labeled as anything but "human". That's all I want. Period! That's the term of these days during christmas. And I hope that even there is a day that then human are openminded enough to respect each other equal witch colour he/she/it has. So at that moment I will be much more easier to take the clothes you want. THAT'S ONLY CLOTHES! Resuming the words I've reading in this thread for me it's the main order to tell everybody about the things to accept everybodies peacefull ways to be a human . Merry christmas to all a a peacefull happy new year Shortskip

@Happyfeat: !!The courage that I found here isn't simply wearing heels, but the courage to just be who I am. Thank you to everybody in this forum! !! Very well said. Tis marks it so well. Shortskip

Hey Jeff, it's wonderful to read your "outings" .. but...it's YOUR way to feel free.... i think so. Do so as you want... Happy heelings Shortskip

Hello everybody, I missed a thread like this. I'm sorry that I can't give you better words. Past year a lot of threads of the members of this forum helped me to be as I want but to be but - that's it. In the past year I've learned to skip a little bit over my minds... (in german: über meinen eigenen Schatten springen). The result for me in this moment is- it's nothing, what anybody wants to know. If I write, or if I want to tell anyone anything about me it seems to me that I also can tell a flie my bad thoughts. Please pardon- I want to give my minds the wright words, but I think it's difficult for me to do that in this forum:mecry: . I didn't have any resonance from other peoble to myself -equal if I wore heels (plus anymore clothes) or not. For me it's a fact- I'm not able to live. Did anyone see me as I be ? I can't answer this question. May be I must go to a doctor or so... I don't know. And that doctor can't also give me more better feelings to live. I'm an isolated person in this world and in moments like this- changing the year and having a stop to look at the past year- it's not a good to resumee so as I can say. Oh --please pardon- I want to give you my whole explanations, what I'm thinking at this moment but I can't do that as best as I want to do, because this language is not my first. I think in german... and so I don't know if anyone can follow me. Why I wrote this words to you in this forum? I think you are the persons who looks to the whole person and not only to one thing ( I can't better describe this). If there where an also helping forum in german -I would have tried to give these words to that. Sorry.. I use water and resources from this worlds. A world that doesn't want me that I be.. I can't do the last skip. Sorry about my unhappiness words keep heeling and everybody a happy new year SHORTSKIP

Hallo everybody, women should write here. Yes, I respect the rules that it`s not allowed for a men to post in the girls part. BUT I know I was in the minority here...I think SAME RULES FOR EVERYBODY and no exception for guys or girls! I think that's better for all people... and freedome for all Wearing what anyone wants to wear and thinking whatever anyone wants... or is this way only my way of philosophy? May be This forum is the best I`ve found... So happy heeling Shortskip

Hello everybody, I don't understand THIS thread. WHO will press another in a cage, in which you can wear only the things that was written out on a board? The boardheadlines are: cage 1: you only wear typicall clothing cage 2: you wear sometimes (when you are allone) some THINGS cage 3: you wear shoes or boots or sandals whenever you want cage 4: you wear dresses, pantyhose, shoes, boots ...whenever you want cage 5: your wear whenever you wan't ...what you want For me it seems so that only women or ts or cd can realy take the bath of happyness to wear what they want. In my case (or cage) I don't want to take pseudobreasts or a wig to look like a women. It's true... half body of many men in the legs contest looks great.. and if you don't know that these legs are menlegs you will laugh, when someone told you that. So I live in my cage which was built from the other people but I ignore their comments. peacefully and happy heeling Shortskip

Hallo everybody, nothing can change a THING to feminine/or masculine. That are only THINGS! It's only the usual sight what men and women usual "have" to wear. But this thing will be changed by everyone in this forum... So happy heeling only in THINGS ... in our nice shoes:clap: shortskip

that's me

I think I'm a crazy guy.

I don't want to be a woman, a CD or whatever the other people mean..and my head and shoulder can't look like a womans.

Wearing a grey beard and a miniskirt with hose and highheeled boots - I'm shure- that's a picture that other people will be laughing.

So I love this outfit and I feel comfortable and fine with that things on me.

I've waited too long years to wear this stuff. Now I'm 50 years old and I do what I want!

My experience is- wearing a beard or styling or not styling- most of the women will not take much notice of me.

Also I don't use a wig (or should I)? I loosed my hair when I was a younger man.

Definitely I'm masculine and wearing some clothes CAN'T change this!!!

Have a nice day and sorry about my bad english

Skortskip

Reading all your posts I feel fine about your words you have told. That's the reason for me to have a look at all your posts, because the sight of everyone is very usefull for me...and I think to all of us heel wearing men of the 21st century..

So I wish anybody a good pleasure finding his way to go out heeling or if that's enough for him stay at home a feel fine to this at that moment..

Have a good day

Shortskip

.... Not that women haven't earned the right to be equal - for they have, but now let's balance the scale, and let the guys have the freedom to be who they want to be as well. It can exist both ways, and we can all coexist together - we just need to drop the labels and LIVE, for crying out loud.

After all, don't we have more important things to worry about than picking on what someone chooses to wear? One would hope so, but we can dream, can't we?

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well said Shockqueen!

One stiletto high heel wearing by a man seems to be a prickle in the mind of other people. I mean the prickle can change something - in good or bad ways. I hope it works in the right direction- the direction that everyone can wear, what ever he/she want. I know, thats for everyone more simple to be a "grey mouse" in society. But thats not the individual way of life. So...I take the other way equal to all the members of this forum.

Best wishes

Shortskip

many thanks to you.

I know about this facts and ok I must go my way by the time and step for step... heeling and thinking.

You know there is always a light at the end of a tunnel equal how long the way is.

So I hope I can do it as well as I think

have a nice day

shortskip