merlin1926

On 6/4/2016 at 6:54 AM, mlroseplant said:

If you want to be low profile, much as I hate to say it at this time of year, your options are pretty much boots, boots, or boots. You could go with an oxford, but for better or for worse, I think boots are considered more "manly," and you can get away with a much higher heel than you could with any other style without it even registering with people. 

Yes, I can understand TBG's point, but not all of us feel like being noticed, and certainly not all of the time. I don't always have the energy to wear exactly what I want every time I want. I do wear heels every time I go out (with some special exceptions), but much of the time, I still wear the same boot-cut jeans I started with 4 years ago. Only the heels have gotten higher and more feminine.

This past year, I have put more narrowly cut pants and even shorts into the mix, but I find I am definitely noticed more when I wear these, particularly the shorts. I think the pants make more difference than the shoes. As you become more confident in your heels, you can get more daring with showing them off. 

One photo is "stealth mode," and the other is "Look at me, yes I am dressed like a Vietnamese girl going to the movies with her boyfriend, and I like it!"

I have some ecco wedge oxfords just like those,cool pics.

I got a pair of stuart weizman oxford heels hung up on the brake pedal of my my truck,scary to say the least. I know it is unrealated but wow scary indeed.

I need a shoe rack like that welcome Bobby and Liz.

Hello all,glad to apart of a like minded community.First ,let me start by explaining a little bit about what brought me here. Ever since a young ago,almost as long as I can remember,I have been infatuated with women's shoes,mainly heels.I never knew why,just that I was at home with them. Wasn't until about 15 years ago,I acted on my impulse,and in short 150 + pairs later,I am living my dream.I am happily married,I am so lucky to have someone that understands.So that is a little about me.