rwhisler

It never seems any different to me what shoes i'm wearing to drive in. I just like to be comfortable and wear my boots whenever I can.

You all have your own problems to solve but what it really comes down to is whether you are doing something because it seems right for you or are you fulfilling a dare that you made to yourself. I decided that I was going to wear the style of shoes tha felt good and to heck with what anyone else thought about it. This you can call confidence or you can call it servival. I call it the latter. If it seems good to you and it is harmless to others, then do it. that is what freedom is all about. This is comming from a guy that has been married to the same woman longer than the life expectancy and helped to raise five great children. I just wish that I had started to try on shoes that really fit a long time ago.

I recently switched to high heel for dress. I have never had a yearning to wear high heels and am such a streight man that I surprize myself. I February of this year I was in Target's shoe department alone and saw a pair of six inch heels in black patent leather. They were very pritty with there stilletto heels and one inch platform soles. I just had an urge to put them on. So I found a pair that were size 11 and sat down and slipped them on. I was surprized that they fit so well and that I could walk with no trouble at all. I didn't buy them because I was afraid that the slim heel wouldnt hold this 186# male frame. Later I was on target.com and bought three pair, two with 6 inch heels and one with 3.5 inch heels. I never got to wearing these regularly because they were not as comfortable as those beauties in the store. About three weeks ago I was back on target.com and spotted some ankle high boots that were on clearance and ordered a pair in black and a pair in brown. they have a 4 inch heels. When they arrived I tried them on and it was like they were made just for me. They fit like a glove and have never given me any pain. I started wearing them the very next day and my days are about 14 hours long. My feet have never felt better. If anyone asks me about my shoes I just tell them that I like to wear them and that they feel great. If the shoe fits wear them. I am an old man and intent to enjoy life to the fullest. Incidentilly, my wife is in full support of my change in foot wear. My advice: Don' keep a pair of shoes that hurt when you first put them on. Send them back. Most web sites that sell shoes advertise free shipping both ways.