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interesting read that Steve . . One thing I do find is that when i'm going out, when I actually find somewhere to go for a wander I'm too nervous to get out the car, but once i'm out of the car, i'm ok and it feels as though I want to be seen and caught !

Well i've taken the plunge and bought a pair of these ! - need more practice in them though

nice selection !

If you unsure about buying online you could look at http://www.alternative-footwear.co.uk/

they may be expensive compared to others but they are reliable and deliver ! I've used them several times over the past few years.. just another option for you

Just bought a pair of these, even though they are 5" they are really comfortable to walk in !

welcome aboard !!!

I like the pleaser's

http://www.flickr.com/photos/16340443@N03/4541092496/

god it's nerve racking !!!! If I can overcome the nerves I'll be ok ! She is a bit of a shoe freak but doesn't wear heels that often... she only really started buying/wearing heels when she met me... It would be nice for her to wear them more often though ! Thanks for all the advice/support ! Steve

I think I'm going to have to do this in 2 stages tell her about me liking heels (easy bit that she probably already knows) then tell her later about liking to wear them I did come close to telling her a while back.. I was basically joking on about me wearing her clothes etc and her reply was "God no, thats just wrong....." When I said about me wearing her heels (have worn her heels in bed whilst playing around ) her reply was "she didn't mind 'cos she couldn't see them....." How would people interpret this ? as I just about had the confidence to tell her my secret at the time .... I probably wouldn't wear them even if she was around the house as I don't think i would be comfortable doing it. (possible stereotyping in my own head.... I don't know as yet) I've had this secret for about 22yrs now.. It's nice and easy to discuss it on here and I am grateful for being able to do so.. The easy part of being on here is that almost everyone is or has been in the same situation but the main factor is that no-one knows who I really am... Thankyou to everyone for the replies so far ! greatly appreciated !

Just after some advice..... What do people think is the best way to tell someone your secret about high heels? especially those who have actually done it.. ??? I'd love to tell her my secret, but I don't know what is the best way or would it be best to do so ?.. And I'm very scared on how she will react...... thanks in advance....

Men have been wearing "skirts" for a long time and still do now... what did man/woman wear when they were first on the planet ? animal skin which was basically a dress in todays terms Look at scotland, men still wear skirts ..... aka ....... a Kilt.. As for Tesco.. OMG what about chefs who wear checky baggy trousers and go shopping ? people do have baggy jog pants... As long as the essentials are covered, you are not in any breach of the law.. this country is getting worse......

it is now !!

Ahh ! ok Just a thought !! Still don't mind the gals posting here though !

I don't mind, as people have already stated, girls can have good input into the threads.. However, guys should be able to post in the girls forum... there has been some interesting threads in there that people might want to ask the question "why, how or what do you think??" etc... nothing too intrusive.. just picking someones brains as to put it... I think there may be alot of guys on here that might want to ask such basic questions... correct me if i'm wrong.. Obviously any abuse, smutty comments etc should be removed... Can the forum not be modified to allow access for guys to post in the girls.. ( i know we can at the mo..) ie everyone has the right to, but if they cross the mark once or twice then the privilige is removed.. any comments ?

gotta be stilletto's with clank, that what I like to see and hear !! I love the sound of them.... even when I'm out and about, i if I hear that noise, the first thing I do is turn around to see whats making it !!

Never slipped really. I usually make my comments about me wearing heels in a comical way. I always make people think 'is he actually serious or what'? I basically do that to judge the person in question whether he/she will accept it or not.

I've done this too, I actually did it last night with my GF...

I was basically joking on about me wearing her clothes etc and her reply was "God no, thats just wrong....."

When I said about me wearing her heels (have worn her heels in bed whilst playing around ) her reply was "she didn't mind 'cos she couldn't see them....."

How would people interpret this ? as I just about had the confidence to tell her my secret ....

I am happy with my shoe size (UK7), as my GF has pointed out in the past that I have feminine feet

I'd go for the 9 west !

I understand what you're saying but here in the UK I've found alot of people just go off a 1st glance.. and that's it.. all they will take notice of is the general body especially when it's dark.... I'll try to get a pic posted up to show you what I was wearing

I intended to be seen as female, I think this way is best for now as it would throw people off that I am really a male... It seems to make it easier for me to go out heeling... I did go into a shop a while ago wearing heels but dressed as a male and it didn't quite feel right... if anyone know what I mean.. I don't know what it was, just didn't feel right... Has anyone else had this sort of experience ??

well, I went out in womens clothes !

did you wear like woman or you played a man?

What do you mean ???

I absolutely adore that style, they are very comfy & I find them very easy to walk in. I also have them in white, I wore the white ones in summer with some 3/4 combat's I managed to persuade the GF to get some Fresh 36's in white & seduce 207's too

Thanks DawnHH I was bare legged but was wearing black leggings !!! I had to take the plunge sometime.... so why not now !! It was brilliant !!! Just wish I had the courage to do it more often

Hi all, ain't been on here for a while but I thought I'd tell you about my experience tonight !

I was a bit nervous but, why not !! every one is lol

I was wearing a pair of Pleaser Fresh 33's in black, black leggings, long White T shirt & a very short combat style black skirt..

I decided to go to the ATM to get some money which involved parking on one side of the road ( a busy one too) and I had to cross it ! After waiting for a gap I finally made it across...What a rush it was hearing the stilletto's clicking on the tarmac & pavement especially with people around & cars flying past

Once I had managed to get back to the car, I went to the local garage & topped up the washer's 'cos they had just run empty arrgh.. the garage was empty, so it wasn't too bad but it was icey ! I found it great fun walking in stilletto's in the ice & snow !! lol

Then I finally took the plunge & went into a shop, bold as brass, straight upto the counter & bought some cigarette's.... Not a word was said from the shopkeeper ! He might have thought something when I walked out & he would have realised exactly what I was wearing.. that had to be the biggest rush of the night.. It was sooo exiting being able to do it !

I think this is just giving me more confidence for the next time !!

Here is a link to the Pleaser's I was wearing

http://www.fetisch-visions.de/images/FREsh-33.jpg

Hope everyone had a nice Christmas !!!!

I would have to agree with alot of the comments but the main one is that probably 50% would accept it, but not find it a "turn-on"... But everyone is different, who knows how they will react !.. only one way to find out ! .... Try it