Jonathan

"Other" as in "all of the above" — pretty much anyway. I'm struggling to think how my musical tastes relate to my high heels style though

Thanks

No thanks, its already gone way off topic... Lets get back to the topic..

just as you like of course

Sorry if I sound slightly stupid here but...could you elaborate? You 'identify' as femme?

Yes.

It's an identity from an alternate binary: butch/femme — which (partly) denotes gender expression independent of binary sex (male/female). Thus you get, for example, butch women (that is women with a masculine gender expression as women — the last part is crucial) and, as in my case, femme men. And all stations in between.

There's a bit more to it (in particular, issues relating to sexuality), but that's the general idea.

If you want more explanation, just ask. I'm very happy to talk about this. Indeed, I can be very boring about it.

I'm 48, male, femme — and count myself as part of the MTF TV community, though I don't do the full CD thing any more. I've recently become interested in freestyle fashion and this forum came up in a search, so here I am.

My question is do you want to be just a MAN IN HEELS or Enjoy dressing more like a girl with all the fem? Skirts, hose etc.

I used to do the girl thing and still wear the clothes, but nowadays always as a guy, more freestyle than feminine. It feels better, more authentic — and it's far less work

Straight. But I identify as femme. Heels are part of my expressing that.

easily: 4" I can get around in 5" (which is the highest I have) but they're not exactly comfortable

Who owns more women's shoes than shoes for men?

What is your ratio of women's shoes to men's?

Thanks for viewing.

I have one pair of battered men's trainers which sit by the back door for when I have to empty the bin or something.

Ratio women's to men's shoes 13:1

Of which 7 are heels. I like heels.