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UK Size 7. Yes

Art Nation: Andrej Pejic for Aton Couture

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9OicWdPPKk0&feature=related

Is Andrej going to change history? Discussed in the video. What he does is really good in my opinion. Anyway, very good video. Check it out!

She's completely fine with all of it! lol. It doesn't even phase her at all. In fact, she's confused why I even need to make a big deal of it or get permission from her to do something. I wasn't exactly asking permission, but I was looking for acceptance. She seems more worried about the lack of confidence in how I approached her about it, if anything. Like she said before; you shouldn't care what anyone else thinks. Be true to yourself.

Sorry for my poor spelling in my past post (I'm really not that bad! Was just in a rush!). I'll let you guys know how it goes! I'll speak with her later I think. She's just really busy at the moment. I feel pretty good right now and pretty sure that everything is going to be fine! I've been dating her for 15 months. She loves me a lot. =) We feel we are soulmates.

I've been talking to her lately about androgyny and she's been saying to be how she finds it hot and also she was to be friends with a guy who cross dressed and they used to go out together lol. And she seems totally fine with it all. She thinks that the guy andrej is really cool and that people should be true to who they are. So she is very open to all these things and doesn't find it strange at all. She think it's really good. So I wrote her an email just now and waiting to hear back what she says. I don't think girls aren't stupid, and I think she has an idea already! since I've been going on about this androgyny thing lately to her. She said it would be fine if I wanted to be more androgynous-like and wear eye make up (even though I didn't go into detail). She loves that she said. So I told her about everything... anxiously waiting now. I think it will be okay! what do you guys thing? She shared this video on her fb from youtube and said "Stop caring about what everybody thinks and just be true to yourself."

damn im anxious :S

Yeah he does. He's still young though. I remember being really skinny when I was a teenager.

So anyway, I remembered a website that my gf showed me when I first met her. So I just went back to it today to see what kind of friends she added on there. It seems around 98% of the males she added as a friend are all either gothic looking or androgynous looking. Almost all are wearing make-up, and even a couple guys had platform heels on their profile pics! and a lot of guys mixing feminine and masculine clothing.

So what am I waiting for? Maybe I should just talk to her about it! lol I'm feeling more confident that about the situation right now though!

I was exchanging emails with her recently and I brought up the topic of hair and that I wanted to grow it longer (it's already passed my shoulders now). So I gave an example of a model named Andrej. You've all probably heard of him? He fashions clothing and shoes for men and women. He is very androgynous! So she went off looking on the net to see who and what he does. She replied back to me saying his look is "super hot" and told me that he wears women's clothing and that he seems really cool. When I sent her the email I expected this to be her reaction to a guy that looks like that. I think she definitely is very open-minded and I won't have a problem when I tell her. I already have a sort of a androgynous look myself, I'm similar to andrej. (which is why I showed her him). I've also been messaging her lately about me looking at lots of clothes and fashion. I just want to open her mind up to the images and seeing a guy wearing heels and more feminine things. She wanted me to grow my hair and put eye makeup on me (she must have forgotten about that).

This is Andrej for those not familiar

Thank you so much for all your responses so far! This site is great!

Just thought that was pretty cool!

Since I'm new here I don't know if anyone here saw this poll?

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/fashion-and-beauty/vote-should-men-sport-high-heeled-shoes/article2109278/?from=2103974

That is a good result, or did most of you from here vote? ;p

just my 2cents

The world just isn't ready for what you want.

Buuuuuut if ye want to change the world ye gotta do what you wanna do!

You're right! The world isn't ready - yet.

There may be a way into fashion freedom is get together with her and go shopping but I would advise to keep it conservative. In my pictures I just posted a pix of me in comfortable square toe boots and the most conservative dress that I could find. By that I mean non girly.

Right, I would probably mix masculine and feminine. I wouldn't go out very 'girly' and I don't feel the need to. I have dressed up girly before, but only in private and just being curious really. I'm sure I could find a good balance, and probably be a bit conservative too. (nothing like what I posted in my intro pics )

The more I think about the range of fashion a girl has to express herself, the more depressing I think are the choices men currently have. It's not that I want to be a girl; Just why can't I wear girls clothes? Why can't I wear high heels? Why can't I use make-up? Yet girls are able to wear boys clothing and nothing is said. It's such a shame that society stereotypes, and that we decide that a clothing has to be for one sex or the other. Actually, I think some girls clothing looks amazing on me! So do high heels! But I still can't get the courage to wear these in front of anyone. Well, there was one time when my girlfriend gave me her jumper because I was cold (she told me it made me more glam rock when I was wearing it). She's dated guys who wore make up before and loves people who are artistic. I think, I hope, she would be open to me wearing some feminine clothing and shoes. It's not like I want to be extremely feminine or anything. I just want more options, more ways to express myself, and feel sexier about myself. Because really, girls clothing can look really look on males too - they do for me! I have a good fashion sense and have the perfect slim body for it too. I do have a natural soft and small feminine features. The only worry is that my girlfriend will start seeing me as not a boyfriend or a man, but too feminine, and lose attraction. In all honesty I don't see this happening. But even if there is a slim chance it did have that effect. I would die. I love her so much. My gut feeling on this though is that I have a wonderfully open-minded girlfriend who would embrace my desires and needs. I mean geez, her old boyfriend dressed up in a dress and make up for a photo shoot! and she showed me the picture. I probably wouldn't wear dresses (though I see nothing wrong with it), but I'd love to just have more options. It is very frustrating that men have really nothing to choose from.

Now I think my girlfriend wouldn't mind. But my parents? my family? my friends? god... I don't know what they'd think.

But then again, why should I care? They should love me for who I am and not for what I'm not, which in one word is; boring.

Nice link. Thank you Can't wait to get my own pair of heels! So much choice... ;/ Not used to so much choice in mens shoes lol.

Wow I'm surprised! That's a pretty good result.

Thank you for your quick reply Shafted. I guess Amazon is good idea place to buy from then. I'll just book a couple days off work near the delivery date and since I'm always up early anyway, way before parents, I'll likely get the package at the door.

Prince http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-326dCQFzQ if he can do it, why not other guys? He has a great look though here. Nothing outrageous, everything goes together well. Guys can wear heels and look great! Nobody really bangs on about him looking weird with heels.

My parents are out most days. There's always a schedule/routine to it. So I have a few hours every day where I'm alone at home. It's just buying the heels... without them knowing or collecting the package at the door. haha. Which is why I asked if the box they come in are marked "heels' in anyway. ?

I'm in my late 20's and from Wales. No idea that there were many other men who liked wearing heels until I just started searching the net the other day. I've been reading a lot on this site before I decided to join this forum. My history; I guess it started from a young age, probably around 11 when I started trying heals purely out of curiosity. Also tried wearing some womens clothing from time to time and just liked the style and feel of it I guess. There was something sexual about it. Anyway, I would start and stop over the years and try on my sisters new heels. She didn't wear them that often and the ones she did have weren't that high. My father always would tell her not to wear them so high because it would damage her feet when she was older. Maybe the highest heel I've worn is a 4". Recently I went to my girlfriends and even though she has about 20 pairs of heels she doesn't wear them anymore. I tried on her highest platform sandals, which must have been 4-0 to 4.5" at least! I didn't measure. They felt lush. Girls in heels are a huge turn on for me, and wearing them makes me turned on. Strange, huh?

I wish that men could wear heels in public without any problem. But for now I'd probably keep it private and hopefully tell my gf one day. She lives in America and I'm from the UK.

A bit about me; I am slim (BMI around eighteen) and I'm what people always refer to as a 'beautiful boy/man". I look very young for my age (about 18 years old but I'm close to 30) and have soft skin, small nose, bright blue eyes, light eye brows (lots of feminine features but people see me as male obviously). I have long thick blonde hair down my shoulders. With a bit of make up I could probably pass for a girl lol. I am quite attractive and look good in womens clothing and shoes. I think being skinny really helps, especially wearing heels. Once on a bus a guy who was a little drunk asked if I was a beautiful male or beautiful female lol.

My girlfriend loves gothic things. She used to dress goth when she was younger. Waned me to grow my hair long and loves guys with long hair. Loves guys in eye liner, she dated a guy before who was into glam rock and even he dressed up on stage and photo shoes in a dress lol. I wonder how she would take to me wearing HH. I don't really care too much about the clothes. It's mainly the HH.

If you want an idea of what I look like. You know that model who looks feminine?

http://www.wowzamagazine.com/images/blog/singles/Andrej_Pejic.jpg

I have more of a oval face though and not strong jaw line. I might be more feminine in make up than he is. I don't know. I'm not gay (as I said), and I don't act it or ever get perceived as gay. I'm totally straight.

I'm trying to decide on whether to show a full picture of me, or just my body and the heels i got from my mother at the moment. Which are only 3 1/2 inch at most Extremely easy to walk in and not very satisfying.

I've been looking at heels to get and I'm looking at these. They look nice, to me.

http://www.amazon.com/Highest-Heel-Womens-Amber-11-Platform/dp/B0040FBS84/ref=pd_sbs_shoe_7

Problem is I live with my parents and trying to buy them in secret is HARD. I want to be careful. If I ordered them will it should be a brown box they come in or obviously heels with labels?

Also I think my gf might have caught me trying on those high heels when I was at her house. I don't know, I quickly put them in my bag as she was in the kitchen and dunno if she was facing me when I did it. Happened so fast! My sister probably knew that I used to try heels but never said a word. Dunno about my mother..

anyway, hope you enjoyed my intro. Will be nice to get to know you. And finally i get to speak to people who share the same interest! hehe