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I havent been online in awhile , yes I still wear heels , but when I cant I wear shoes that both sexes wear like dansko clogs , and wood clogs with jeans I know not too many men wear clogs but I dont get any snickers .

I have a pair I can barely stand in them but lacing yourself up in them is really an electric experience I put sponge in the toe area to help with comfort balance is the key I guess its easier for the ladies to adapt since they have the chance to wear any time they feel where as us men do not . if you get a pair get high quality its worth the extra amount .

Hey, those are really nice boots !!! where did you get them at ?? I dont think too many people pay attention to what your wearing unless its something really off the wall [loud color] if men can wear those ugly crocks out whynot high heeled boots as long as it tastefully done .

sorry for the improper english my head line is supposed to be "I,m new" . its hard finding cute shoes smaller footed females wear . every now and then I might catch a piar that I can wear in an 11.

nice marjanes and your lucky to have a g/f friend that is so accepting to your hobby .I do have a question where did you get the pumps on your aviator??

Hey Dawn, I saw your pic,s you look great in your gallery. very great poses and very cute pumps and sandals .

You are so lucky, To have a loving wife that will accept your love for heels weather it be high or low heels . I too have the man build I wear a size 11 or 12 womans shoe, and wear a size 14 /16 in womans clothes I,m 6 /1 . I wrote in an earlier post that I had a failed marrige because of this I told her I would stop and eventually did it behind her back ,and was cought when I responded to someone thru an email and she read it . my world came crashing down on me I got imbarrased because she told everybody she knew about my little secret ,I got depressed and didnt want to live anymore because of what I do , I try so hard to put it all away and try to forget about it but thoughts always trigger a want a need to wear somthing on my feet ,or body that is soft and femme . I did get help for wanting to harm myself . I still feel alone to this day about this . presently I,m in a relationship ,she knows about it but doesnt want anything to do with it and doesnt want me to have anything to do with it either. life is difficult some times. I dress in the closet presently now aswell ,although I never have been out dressed. I,m in touch with my sexuality I like being a man ,I love being with women ,but somtimes I like dressing like them aswell. I,m not sure if any of you male .or female can make sence of what I have just wrote ,or not . but above are just my thoughts . and I give a standing applauds to those who can incorporate this hobby into they,re lives.

I was woundering is it possible to walk in 8 in high heel ballets once you get the hang of standing in them ? I want to get a pair its just alot of $$$ to get a pair then find out they are too much and /or too high for me to manage , any help would be greatly appreciated from either male ,or female.

I,m a new member as well and I love to wear high heels practical ,and not so practical heels . it does take practice walking in them , it took me awhile to get the hang of it . I just go to the mall and watch women walk in them ,then go home and try to walk like they do ,I love the sound heel make on hard wood floors.

There is somthing that I have noticed in many dating web site women stating that they are open minded ,would that be an invitation that they wouldnt mind a guy who wore heels or somtimes liked to dress in femme??? and you definitly dont see women posting personal ad,s requesting men with a femme side . alot of women who I talk to online say that they are ok with a guy wearing somthing of the opposite sex weather it be a piece of clothing or a shoe, just aslong as they are in touch with their sexuality ,or that theyarent in they,re life , some even say that it is sexy , or they wouldnt even give a second glance I dont know just my thoughts at the moment.

This is the kind of website that I was looking for for a long time , just a place where I could come and talk about high heels weather I been in guy mode or girl mode being accepted makes me feel good .

Hello all I,m new to this forum ,I have looked around and it seems similar to another website /forum I belong too . I,m a closeted cross dresser , I havew been c/d ing ever since I was at the young age of 6 . cross dressing was just a progression of my fetish for womans shoes in general . I have had a failed marrige because of my little hobby , and failed relationships because of it as well. I use my c/ding to cope with stress ,it makes me feel electric to slip into a pair of heels weather it be a pair of pumps ,or sky high platform sandals, either way it makes me feel better and forget what ever is troubling me at the moment .