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bootsloving, I have two suggestions for you to consider. The first is that you vastly improve your odds by trying out match.com or e-harmony.com. Very many people nowadays find others they form lasting relationships with. My second suggestion is that you are relying upon women to wear the shoes that YOU really want to be wearing so why not just wear them?? AM I wrong? Remember this site is dedicated to the appreciation and promotion of wearing higher-heel footwear by both genders all over the world. HappyinHeels

:wave:just chiming in here, first of all the dating sites are way over rated. secondly it is not always about what we want to wear. i think that is an unfair stereotype. i do not have any desire to wear heels, but i do nearly (ok,definetly love to see and hopefully be a part of a womens life) who enjoys wearing heels.(no specific height, just heels.) it's fashion, and that is what starts the primievel attraction that makes this whole mess somehow work. she doesn't need to wear them 24/7. but i would hope that she would wear(and hopefully enjoy)them for my sake. and i would gladly return the favor for any wish she may have. the cliche' give and take, or one hand washes the other. call it what you want, it's the truth. this is not a simple yes or no situation, but rather a relationship that must be cultivated with the utmost care and discretion. but also beware of the " settling point". that will only lead to a path of destruction. i.e. divorce. so whats the answer? there is no magic answer. it's up to each one of us to find our way. in the meantime be thankful we a web site like this to share our thoughts!

i say " you go girl!" if you enjoy it then keep it up. what others think should not be an issue. i personally think a woman on crutches wearing one heel is attractive. maybe there are those who would disagree with me. they can disagree, but they will never change my mind. we choose how to live our lives, not them. so enjoy! it's fantastic that you don't let society's common rules dictate you're wardrobe. like i said" you go girl!":thumbsup:

ankle braceletes are hot,not neccessary but hot nonetheless. just a guys opinion. take it for what is.spell check is not working so i apologize for poor spelling. working on it!

of course it comes down to personal preference, but i prefer wedge boots, and wedge heels are supposed to be more comfortable and stable. just a thought! i love all heels, so it is up to those who (hopefully) wear them!

just what u all wanted, one more new guy who doesn't know what the heck is going on! anyhow my name is ron and i'm really excited about this site. i don't wear heels, but i simply love women who do. this is ok i hope? i find heels so attractive when a woman wears them. it may be the confidence or just plain audacidy that comes with wearing tall heels. i'm not exactly sure, but i like it. so i will try my best to be involved in chats and threads and hopefully not make an idiot of myself. i apologize in advance for my shortcomings(computer litterate included) and look foward to sharing a great passion with all of you!