Tony Citara

I have a parttime job at night DJ'ing in a bar that hosts a Drag Queen Bingo thing. When they first started, I didn't dress in drag but after a few months, oh hell yeah! The tips flow a lot more when the workers are in drag, then when they're wearing street clothes.

What's your job?

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Very sexy shoes!!! When you find them, post the link or store name. I'm sure more than one of us would like a pair of those shoes!

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My gf doesn't care, because she knows what I do for a parttime job. However, she has made it clear no heels during "family" times... which means I'm in total guy mode visiting her family, etc.

Love those boots!!!

Pretty much too warm in Florida to wear them, but they look amazing!

I went to BeBe today to exchange some great 5.5" boots that had a defective zipper. They didn't have any size 10s left so they ordered them for me. Disappointed, I went to the Nordstrom Rack and found a few pairs I liked. I only purchased one though...see the pic attached.

They are Sam Edelman, S-Vancouver-Miligreen boots.

Yes, I tried them on in the store. It was pretty empty and I don't think anyone noticed.

If she wore a pair of heels I liked, well, I would tell her I liked her shoes and ask where she bought them. Unless, of course, we both wore the same size shoe... which is unlikely. I've never dated a woman that wore the same size shoe that I did.

I predominately buy shoes at brick-n-mortar stores. I prefer to see the shoe, try it on, and find a proper fit. Most of the on-line retailers, like shoedazzle, might carry up to a size 11, many of the are too narrow. I need an 11 wide, or 12, depending on the cut.

When I see a female wearing Uggs, it reminds me of the "page" on facebook called Wearing Uggs And Shorts Makes You Look Like A Weather Confused Slut. LOL!!!

I've not only answered the door in heels, but leave the house, jump in the car, run errands, etc., depending on the day/night of the week. I live in a condo and my immediate neighbors have seen me in guy/suit mode, as well as the night time drag mode for my other job. When I first moved in I was so used to my night mode, I was kind of shocked the first time somebody reacted, (nobody said anything at my other place, but that's probably because they knew me). I handed out a few drink tickets and passes, and now... it's all cool. Yea, drag queen is not as passable as a true crossdresser or in-transition male to female transexual, but that's not my goal. It's a gig, in a skirt or a clown costume... whatever it takes to make money, (as long as I'm not schlobbin' zee knobbin' LOL). Women are lucky when it comes to shoes, they've been wearing heels most of their teen and adult lives, as men, if we start wearing heels, we can't go from sneakers to 4-inch pumps in one day, it takes practice. If a guy want's to improve his game, golf, basketball, tennis, whatever... you practice. If you want to get used to wearing heels, walking in heels, and NOT jack up your ankles or get blisters - practice. A LOT!

I bought a really cute pair of peeptoe pumps, about a 3.5" heel, a floral pattern on the sides and patent leather accents. Comfortable and sexy, perfect for dark gray or black pants. I'll post a pic later.

Yea, I wore these twice last week, (and not for Halloween), but for my parttime job.

My situation is, perhaps, a bit different than a lot of you because my GF knows about my parttime job DJing at a bar for Drag Queen Bingo night. At first she thought I must "mental" for wanting to punish myself by standing in heels all night, but over time it became so common place about the only time she mentions me wearing heels is when we're shopping and she might say "those are some sexy shoes, you should wear them next week" or something to that effect.

The first few time I bought heels, I didn't try them on, got them home and if they didn't fit I would return them. It took a few times of shopping, but eventually I got to the point that I don't care if somebody is looking at me. After all, maybe they wish they had the balls to be in a shoe store trying on heels!! There is something really amazing when a sales rep is in the back room digging around to find the right pair of shoes for you. A sale is a sale!

For comfort, the rounded toes in a pair of mary jane's works for me. But, love that peeptoe!! So sexy to see a bit of painted flair peeking out!! LOL

Just wanted to say HI to all you heel fanatics. I'm fairly new to heels, been wearing them for about, um... 3 or 4 years now. I do some DJ'ing at a bar/club that has Drag Queen Bingo and I do tunes between games, after the games are done, run the soundboard, etc. Doing the drag queen thing is a lot more fun than I thought it would be and I can certainly see why so many women have 100 or more pairs of shoes in their closet! So many to choose from. I own less than ten, but that's because I don't wear then in my "day job" just my parttime night gig. Although, I must say, I do have a couple pairs of shoes that are so comfortable that daily wear would be a livable proposition. Not that it would go over well at most places I hang out. Yes, I've gotten the usual questions, or in my opinion "usual", from sales clerks at shoe stores, a handful of friends, even some family members... namely "are you gay?" usually followed by "do you want to be a woman?" or "are you going to have a sex change operation?" The answers are No, No, No. Not just no, but HELLZ NO!!1 So, there ya go. In a nutshell, so to speak, about all you need to know of me for now. I'm certain I'll post something really stupid and pizz off half the people, get a couple nasty-grams from some mods and make a couple public mea culpa pleas. LOL LLAP