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My first inclination of something about girls shoes was in kindergarten.  There was some kind if "game" that involved learning about "things" that one wore.  An item of clothing was called out and if you were wearing it - you got out of your chair which was one arranged in a circle and skipped around in front of the others remaining seated.  The only "item" I can recall being called is "black patent leather shoes." I knew I had on black shoes and did not know until then that "only girls wear black patent shoes" as I got to look at the girls who were wearing pretty mary-janes.  Of course I was embarased but also became very facinated in the difference between girl's shoes and those I wore. 

 

 

 

You just reminded me of my first time, when I realized that the girlsin my kindergarten class had something amazing that I didn't. There were two that wore super glossy pattent lace up gogo boots. One had white, one had white and black pair. The white seemed to glow and was soooo glossy. It had such an interresting shape, and the rows of laces going up to the knee. I remember trying to touch one of the boots, getting caught, and the girl shooting me a nasty look and moving her foot. Another look that I have been thinking about buying my own pair.

I was wondering if anyone else out there who was influenced by heels and all that can go with them years before you understood what your interest was, and it has come back as a style-look-feature that you favor wearing today?

I had known since the beginning that I liked ladies watches. One of my first jobs out of school there was a lady who worked there that wore a nice gold bracelet watch loose on her wrist with that little safety chain. She wasn't exceptionally pretty, but she was VERY leggy and she knew it. I noticed that too. So her MO was high heels, a number with ankle straps, shiny leather, colors, etc. with pencil skirts that made the best of what she had. People were looking and she was happy to oblige them striding through the office. the memory of her helped drive me years later to give heels and then the associated accessories a try.

Another influence of the past has been bearing down on my mind as something I am becoming interested in. I had a teacher once upon a time; I liked her watch, bought a copy of it. She was also VERY busty, and with boys noticing, she favored bulky turtleneck sweaters and ruffled siky blouses to hide the girls. I don't know if she had some issue involved, but the stress increased when she came back after a summer break quite noticeably larger than she was before. So she favored the sweaters and especially blouses even more. Something about those silky ruffled blouses appealed to me, and I'm feeling inclined as something I'd like to try in addition to the watches, heels, and the lady things that go with them.

I plan to keep in touch, she's going to be doing the same job from a different city that will bring her to this area from time to time. Her sense of humor talking again; she said I wore heels well, and that she'd go out with me "if you had several REALLY big boobs". Adding to the heel to nylons to skirt to blouse chain, I also was given five handbags (three black, one white, and one purple), something I've been coming to like but also hadn't experienced. I get to experience what women "get" in new ways, and she get to go shopping in a new city with her new girlfriends.

Just got back from a couple days in DC, seeing some of the women's fashions, things that I like to look at. DC in China town area where I was staying is an endless parade of nice looking women; dressed with nice shoes, skirts, jewelry, etc. that is wonderful to watch go by. Getting around by car is a nightmare so many walk, and many women are in good shape. Seems like many have has some sort of cosmetic work done, boob jobs are plentiful, and with the heat bra's weren't, and many women bounce to work. I've had a rising appreciation in nice handbags, and those are all over, not uncommon to see a women carrying two handbags under her arm, or arms. Most women don't wear their prize heels to work, it seems the second handbag is a stylish place to put their heels while flats are in place for the haul to work. Also a number of men carrying what I would call woman's handbag. I like ladies watches too, and most ladies wear watches, many expensive.

She's taken a job in San Diego, partly to move in with her GF. She's trucked off most of her stuff (clothes), and I helped her this past weekend with the balace of her furniture and clothes (most all of her heels). I went and made some coments about how nice her shoe collection was. She sat down, and asked "Have you ever worn high heels before?" and offered a pair of  gloss white pumps I'd guess at 5-6" heels. I'd never worn heels in front of ANYONE, let alone a lesbian. She didn't comment about how a guy was able to get around in heels well enough, tho she did comment how my jean shorts didn't go with heels. "I can give you some things to go with them; if you're interested." She gave me a long and a short black skirts, pink skirt and blouse, b&w blouse, gray pencil skirt, four skinny belts and a wide, a dark read sweater, and a multi gray tone light sweater. Got a pair of b&w ankle strap heels and the watch off her wrist too. She also gave me something new to me: four dresses and a white suit dress. I'd done heels-nylons-skirts, not the dress experience before.

Looking around, some more to see

I've seen ladies do this before, nice to find a photo of it:

For me (as I have probably posted elsewhere) it started with a fetish for womens watches from the beginning of (my) time. They are easy to get and easy to store. I can even wear them without most noticing. "Nice watch" is also a great compliment to go with "nice shoes." To me wearing has been to get part of the experience of what the lady "gets". I've always like to look at heels and boots, I don't know why it took me so many decades to give them a try. I can't even remember what exactly made me literally wake up one morning and say to myself "You know, you can just go buy a pair and see if you like it." I can remember making myself late for work looking at heels online. I figured strappy nature of watches lead me to want strappy heels, but at the same time I didn't want to be drawn into another fetish. That day went so slow, and on the way home I went to the mall with that "HE'S SHOPPING FOR WOMENS CLOTHES!!!" spotlight on my back. Against all odds I found a pair that fit my wants for a first pair nearly right away. I took them to the register facing those hopefully imagined "HE'S BUYING THOSE FOR HIMELF" looks from the teenage girl cashier. Before I got them home and on my feet I had already thought that this was like giving a match fire to see if he likes it. I liked it, but from then I quickly went to notice the other things that women get to experience with heels that look so pleasent; hose, skirts, belts, dresses, blouses, sweaters, handbags? Those look like wonderfull things, that the ladies enjoy; to fulfill the heel experience. See what the lady "gets". And as I feared, guilty as charged. I don't have the interest to go out wearing these things, but thoroughly enjoy private time to experience it on my own. And I get a new (if overwhelming at times) itinerary of things to look for when I walk down the street, and see new experience possibilities coming my way with a greater appreciation of what it takes.

I had another adventure with my friend. Picking her up at the airport, she pressed me to carry her customary two leather designer handbags, while she pulled her carry on for a change. She stumbled at the escalator in her pumps, and I guess I chuckeled a little and she saw me. "If you think that's funny, you're going to get a pair of heels to go with those handbags" she quipped. I don't mind going to the airport; an endless parade of women in heels, skirts, watches, etc. I also saw a lady in black with a red handbag, red watch; and ONE red heel. Got a photo of it.

i like the same type of boot but in black patent...very sexy

i guess this is not a commercial style but rather a stripper style so you would have to look for it on internet

Black is my next favorite color, perhaps with a tie for pink (and red too). Where I used to work there was a theater near by and I used to see a woman who worked there who would wear these knee high black boots with a heel, and they laced up the back with these dark red-rust colored laces. What made it memorable was she had this sheet of literally ankle length hair that draped across the laces as she walked.

I was able to try a pair of boots that are my usual women's size, and my calves fit into them ok enough. The laces just add something to the boot that plain knee boots just to do for me.

I've always had a warm spot for lace up gogo boots since I can remember, particularly white and especially the pattent leather. I remember in early school days a girl that wore those, and trying to touch them to see what that magic material felt like. She saw me and pulled her foot away with a look of mild annoyance. I've been wanting to get a pair like those (especially with more of a heel) forever, but I have big calf muscles and wonder how that might affect sizing. I NEVER see these in stores so I'd have to order online.

I can't see me talking to her about that; her closet has been a valuable resource to learn about skirts, dresses, etc. for getting my own. Its like to learn a language I've heard often but never bothered to try to speak.

Instead of giving in to temptation, I did go into her closit to explore what features of womens clothing I like. I can look at shoes and tell what I like right off the top; but seeing a dress or other on the rack and decide if I like it is different. With more difficulty than I expected to find what I like, I went and bought a calf length slitted black skirt, a maroon turtle neck sweater, a few skinny belts, and black stockings. One thing I did have a go with of hers is her handbags. I discovered handbags after seeing women packing two (rarely three) handbags at work, and I liked the look (and the motion). I chose my favorite two of hers off her coat rack to try on. Finding my favorite two was hard, so I figured I may never get the chance; and wore my favorite dozen. Aside from being heavy, I discovered I couldn't fit through the door. I think I'll definitely have to pick out a few leather handbags to go with my heels. She's back as of last night. A well dressed woman seems to attract well dressed women. She had photo's on her phone of herself out with a pair of twins. Again.

The remark about wearing her dresses was likely a joke. She and I like to look at well dressed ladies, we have similar tastes; she dates women (with a particular fondness for extra large chests). There's a heavy chested woman with a tallent for lace up boots who goes by her home every morning that we like to watch bounce by. She tells me she wants to marry some day, and have at least two wives (not a joke). I wouldn't think of dressing up in her house, tho I did try on a number of her watches, and tried a some handbags to see how it felt. So far I've resisted the siren call of the wardobe; if for no reason than to be drawn into another fetish. More lately though it seems to me how nice heels would go with stockings and a slit pencil skirt.

My neighbor has told me a few times that she'd like my to watch her house the next time she traveled, the kid that was doing it wasn't doing a good job. Feed her bird, bring in the mail, all that. She gave me a tour of the house, leaving me with a big decision to make. Part of the tour was a huge walk in closet. Dresses and suits on one side, sweaters, blouses, etc. on the other. A vanity with a number of expensive ladies watches in various boxes. The back wall is a rack of about three dozen high heels. I've always had a warm & fuzzy spot for strappy heels. Do I dare wear another persons clothes? She and I are about the same height. I've thought about going beyond shoes and watches, lately leather handbags have turned my head too. There was a coat tree in the corner overloaded with those. She caught me by surprise when I dropper her off at the airport and she was getting her luggage out of the trunk: "Thanks for the ride this early, have fun; my 70" plasma is in the den, my wine is in the cooler, and my dresses are in the master closet". It's like she could almost read the temptation in my mind. Yes, I'm wearing a pair of her Nine West ankle strap heels and a trio of Kenneth Cole black strap watches that match nicely. There are so many things I could try, but it bothers me because they are not my things.

I've been lusting over this pair for a while, finally made the decision to get a pair after they started becomming hard to find. I love ankle straps, so the more the merrier. Wish I had these in red too

My wife is a 9 1/2 with a few 10's, I am a 10 so I can get into some of her shoes. Our tastes are a bit different, so I only wear some of her shoes and have some of my own that are my taste (strappy). I approached her about me wearing heels and she did not respond well to it.

I'd be interested to know if your interest in wearing heels was the origin of that interest, or did another "wearing" interest lead you to heels? For me, my origin was ladies watches. I discovered that at a very early age, perhaps with a pair of twin sisters I knew who wore the same watch; one sister the blue version and the other sister the red version. I discovered that not only do I like to look, but want to wear to experience what the lady "gets". Now I have well over 100 ladies watches. Easy to see, buy, store, wear, and even borrow. I have been interested in looking at heels for much longer than I can remember. Only about a year or two I discovered that I would like to wear, to experience what the lady "gets". And I was very concerned then that it would lead to wearing other lady things like skirts, nylons, blouses, handbags etc. to go with the shoes & watches. And it did lead to that; I enjoy a skirt and the hose to go with the heels and the watches. It does also still bother me that it could lead to something else, but for the moment it doesn't. It does also lead to the slow proliferation of what I am interested in tho.

I saw something similar at York races a few years back, two twenty something women wearing almost identical dresses one bright blue the other fire engine red.

They both had identical shoes, one a pair of blue stilettos with those ribbon ankle ties that goe half way up your calf and the other red and they were wearing one blue, one red. It was absolutely amazing, and quite obvious that they had chosen to wear them like that.

They were definitely getting quite a few looks.... And I have to say that I think it worked quite well

Wow, I can say I like this concept. I would love to have seen it. I looked around on line, and found some shoe swapping videos where the ladies involved spend some time wearing one of each others shoes:

Two Italian girls, share pink & blue-

Two girls share brown and black; very scripted-

First quarter of the vid; two women accidentally swap a shoe at the movies, one gets up a leaves w/o realizing-

For a moment the blonde with the cute watch wears one of each:

Two girls momentarily wear a shoe of each others:

Two girls go one black, one silver for a moment:

And there's this photo-

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/10/08/article-0-0E4A827F00000578-237_634x854.jpg

I'm sure there's more out there.

A quick viz of pink & white

At first I thought it might have something to do with her curvy chest; that she couldn't see her shoes. I have matching pairs of white and black strappy heels, and spent some time wearing one of each yesterday. This lady had the enviable ability to make walking in heels just sooo graceful. It made nice and interesting shoes just that much nicer to watch. I like the look, when its done on purpose.

http://www.doedeereblogazine.com/articles/new-trend-mismatched-shoes

http://www.fashionfame.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/helena-bonham-carter-mismatched-shoes.jpeg

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Die9UzKk2gI/TctbN6I0f1I/AAAAAAAAEdM/3JMHQqPe-nM/s1600/mismatched-shoe.gif

While out for my afternoon mental health walk, I got behind a nice looking lady; dark hair in a white & pink dress that fitted her attributes nicely. Of course I checked out her shoes, and saw something I have never seen: a pair of slingback heels, mirror finish, the left shoe white the right one pink. otherwise they appeared to be the same shoe. Anyone ever seen this before? I'm guessing it was deliberate.

Looked online, a couple examples:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/10/17/gayle-king-on-the-view-ta_n_1015922.html

I noticed that Target had started up scaling their shoes a while back, but none of their heels did much for me. I went by there last week on a fact finding pass to see if by some chance there was anything to see, and to my surprise there was.

http://www.target.com/p/Women-s-Mossimo-Petra-Patent-Heeled-Sandal-Assorted/-/A-13787921

I'm always a fan of ankle straps, and these in black did turn my head. A was looking for a bit higher heel, and it wound up in black because the "blush" didn't appeal to me. I'd would have loved to see these in white or pink. I haven't spent much time in these yet, but so far they feel good and walk nice.

As I think I mentioned; I don't care why, I just like the look.

Something I have been seeing around and online, is women carrying more than one purse/handbag (not sure about the exact distinction between the two). There's a couple ladies at the office who come in often and again with two p/h's; one on each shoulder, carrying one and shouldering the other, carrying both, one in each hand, both on one shoulder, etc. Just about all the combinations. Looking around online I see two, three, sometimes more. The celeb's seem to be into it most; with unlimited $$$ comes unlimited accessories. Sarah Jessica Parker, Lindsay Lohan, Kate Gosslin, the Olson twins and others seem to be repeat multipliers. I couldn't care less about what these women need to pack and carry around, but I do like the look of more than one being toted around on the arm of a beautiful lady.