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  1. Thanks for the support that helps a lot, as I had similar feelings myself. What all three of you say is very true! I cannot imagine myself with someone who doesn't accept it. I tried to suppress it and I realised I stops making me who I am. Odd story, but because we both used to dance, and in one conversation, she asked me if I could only put them on once a week or so. I responded to her by asking her how she would feel if I told her she could only dance once a week...Unfortunately, my ex-girlfriend deduced that my love for heels was stronger than my love for her. Just sharing this as many may be able to relate. All those stories and encouragement helps a lot, so thank you! I'm slowly building up the courage to be able to go outside, though I have yet to actually make the leap. I missed the obvious oppurtunity at Halloween and I think I still need to practice for a general walk in public! :-)

  2. My three-year long relationship just ended recently due to my significant other half being unable to accept my desire to wear high heels. I thought she would grow to understand and support, but instead she wanted to "cure" me, by wearing more high heels herself. Unfortunately, this has caused quite a lot of damage over time for me as I wanted to meet her expectations and gave myself up quite a bit in the process. Now that we've broken up, my current girlfriend also has a hard time accepting it and I seem to struggle to find people who are open enough to accept and support. So I am constantly in doubt, part of me wants it gone, another part of me wants to live it. For now, I've put it in the "live it, but only for myself" part of my brain.

  3. My ex didn't mind as much as my new girlfriend. She says she's ok with it anytime, but never to sex. I don't expect the relationship to last... I'd definitely be looking for someone who is confident enough to encourage me and would hold my hand as we walk down the street, both of us in heels. Unfortunately, haven't found that right person yet, but I know I will! :)

  4. I was about 19, when I told my girlfriend at the time that I have a thing for heels. We went out and both bought a pair of Pleaser Seduce thigh-highs. We both paid for our own and walked around together in her flat for a while. She didn't quite like the sight, but she encouraged me anyway. They were about $100. I've always loved the sleek look of a nice pair of legs in heels, probably I'm just substituting for the lack of a girlfriend by wearing heels myself.

  5. Hello everyone, Just turned 24, I live in Edinburgh and been crazy about boots and closed-toe heels for a long time now. I have a few of my own, mostly 4-5", but I have yet to learn how to properly walk in them - my flat isn't the best place for that, but haven't dared to go outside in them yet. Hopefully that will change, especially reading some of your experiences. Would love to find a few in the area to wear heels out with!

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