MrsHeels

Hi All -

What I meant by put his heels back into the closet, was not meant as permanent, but rather just to allow time for them to discuss the issues, without her having his heels starring her in the face. Also as a way of showing her respect. And yes, if she had done the same to him, I would have the same feelings, put the offending issue away, until time is given for discussion.

I do not agree a person whom you love can be replaced without excessive hardship. If the love is true, how can you replace that without excessive hardship? Commitment to me comes from the heart and soul, not a marriage license. Once this commitment is made, it should be felt and honored just as if there was a legal marriage.

I am concerned that we have not heard more from Plats? While I do enjoy the depth of our discussions, it makes me wonder why and what he truly started here? Perhaps they are deep into discussions and he has not had time to come back to the forum? Perhaps he is busy packing his things to move on? I sure hope he is not finding new homes for his heels.....

Be Well All

Katherine

Yes, have been for a while.....Gary and I buy each other heels for weeks before, until weeks after, all while shopping for family and friends. It makes buying for others so much more fun! Can't wait until he opens his presents this year. I did good! Merry Everything to all. Katherine

Name: Katherine Age: Not gonna lie, so not gonna tell you! Old enough... Gender: Female Location: New Jersey Occupation: Pulmonary Pediatric Nurse Height: 5'6 Weight: Same as age.....Enough, not too much.... Shoe size: US 9 - 10 - 11 depends on the style What's your favourite heel style: spiked to med chunky What's your favourite shoe style: pumps and boots, sandals in summer Do you wear your heels outside: yes What is: (a) Your favourite heel height: 3.5 and 4 inch ( Your highest heel height: 5 inch How often do you wear: (a) Your favourite heel height: daily ( Your highest heel height: once in a while Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes: All Anything else you wish to add: All women should walk behind a guy in heels, more will understand then!

OK Guys -

I have never posted here, but do read it quite a bit.......

Today however, I simply MUST post......

I am very concerned over the many, many posts giving advice to move on, find another girl, dump her, back out, walk out, etc.

OH MY GOD ! ! !

These two have been living together. This would tell me that a serious relationship has been started, one with real commitments! Like the commitment to be honest with eachother in ALL things. Especially things as BIG as the guy wearing heels!

The lies, I am sure have been several, the deception has lasted over years, please tell me why this is not the first place for them to begin???

I suggest he put all his heels in the closet and close the door.....Right now the most important thing is her feelings, which he has cut down deep. I am sure she feels very lost and confused right about now. Not to mention she probably has a few questions.

Amens needs to be made in the hurt he caused her. He has to find some way of reassuring her she can trust him again. Only if and when her hurt has passed and SHE believes she can trust him again, can he then approach her with his desire to wear heels.

He screwed up big time. He took something as precious as her heart and her trust and walked all over them in his heels!

I also believe there should be no compromise. I believe there is no way he can ever live happy and fulfilled without his heels. This may be why he kept it from her in the first place, as maybe, just maybe he can not live happy and fulfilled without her as well????

Once the hurt has passed and the trust can be rebuilt, then she needs to make the decision, not him. The choice now whether or not she can except this as a part of the guy she loves, will be her choice. If she makes an ultimatum, his heels or her, I feel he should tell her he can not live without either and can not make the choice. While I hope he would lay down his life to save her, he would not make a conscious choice to end his life, or his happiness, as he knows it, for anyone.

Priorities, Priorities, Priorities.....They go both ways, but not when one has been deeply hurt, and lied to.......Fix where he has caused hurt,then move on to the other things.

I hope this couple can both remember why they love the other, remember all the many reason they fell in love in the first place, and can work from there.....I also hope this guy tries VERY HARD to resolve this and thus becomes a better man for having done so, and does not take the advice of those who can love so shallowly and simply walk away from true commitment......He made this commitment, how he has to honor it!

I shall carry them in the light, and hold them hope in my heart.

These are my feelings and thoughts, and were NOT intended to hurt anyone, and I do apologize if I have..

Katherine

Hello Dawn -

I am glad to hear the doctor gave you the all clear to return to work. Laying and sitting around is not good for anything once recovery is well into progress.

Do take work slowly, Please remember your heart is needed for so much more then work........Also as your friend, I have to ask you..please do not miss your January appointment, it is of most importance..

I am truly happy your feeling better.

Warmly,

Katherine

Hello Everyone -

Gary and I would also like to wish everyone a wonderful holiday, and a blessed New Year......Remember when you count your blessings, all heels count as one !

Gary and I will be spending the holiday in New York with my kids, where Gary is a new Papa to 3....Should be fun, if they don't kill him !

Dawn, please heal well, and heel carefully.....

Warm Wishes to all.

Gary and Katherine

I understand your worries as a lot of men who start out wearing heels DO end up leaving their families to live as pretend women.

Hello DandyDude -

Your remark above brothers me.......

When you say "alot" of men, I would like to ask you how many? Where does your information come from?

I happen to know a few men that have worn heels for quite a while, and would not leave a relationship to live as a pretend women. They would not "pretend" anything, as they are well respected, decent men, who can be trusted to be completely open and honest.

While I will agree that there are people who do pretend way too much in life, and at times to the negative effect of others. Your remark sounds stereotypical to me, in reguard to "Men wearing heels"....

Just my not so humble opinion...

Katherine

Mrs. Heels:-)

What you have posted is dead-on. I quite agree with you. As far as I'm concerned, you can post anywhere here as you like and as often as you like, and as prolifically as you want. I try to treat all people equally as it should be and I expect the same in return and have received the same in spades many times over. Your posts appear to come from a very fair and open-minded, intellegent person and nobody can ask for anything more. I for one completely enjoy the content of your posts and am looking for much more friendly conversation in the future. I am proud to be your friend.

Cheers---

Dawn HH

Dawn -

Thank you for the kind words, they are so appreciated.

The few moments you took to write something so kind, shall stay with me for a long time.

How are you feeling? Back in heels and taking life a wee bit easier, I hope?

I am proud to be called "friend" by you!

Warmly,

Katherine

Hello -

In New York, they have changed the laws a wee bit.....Now the handicapped sticker goes with the "person", from car to car...It stops several family members from each having a handicapped plate..

I agree there are way too many handicapped parking spaces.....Have you ever seen ALL of them filled?

I have to applaud the spaces for Mom's with small children. My daughter has 3 babies, and its a lot easier and safer for her and the kids to be parked closer. A lot of nuts driving in these parking lots!

Katherine

DDWW -

Good Question -

Sometimes its hard to completely understand anothers attraction, because perhaps they do not completely understand it?

I do love the way my guy responds when I am wearing heels, either in jeans, a skirt, or a nightgown. His responce is what drives me, no I would not wish him to focus on any other part, then the part which gives him the most pleasure, and anyway, it is still a part of me....

While I enjoy all of his parts, I do so like walking behind him, and watching his bum when he is in heels, don't completely understand it all myself. Simply enjoy the way it makes me feel....

Katherine

Good Morning Everyone -

I wish men were as socially excepted in heels, as women are.....

Having said that, I have to express how I am feeling now...

While I am aware that I as a women, am in the minority here on the forum, and also aware that I am the majority as exceptable by society...

I am not sure if it is because I am part of the minority here, or because men don't realise the struggle a women here faces...I feel like I only "belong" in the "for the girls section", that my opinion and the opinions of the other "10 or so genetic" female posters are not as important, unless a specific question has been asked of us....

I need to tell you, that being an understanding women of a man (I live with) in heels, is NOT easy, while it may not be as difficult as the man himself, it is still difficult. While society would like to strip and flog men in heels, they are not very excepting of the women who support these men. We are all too often thought of in a negative way.....

When I first came to the forum, I felt it was a place of understanding, a place of growth, a place where we all, as like minded individuals can learn from each other....

There is one place for the girls, and one place for the guys, the rest of this forum should be an open and comfortable place for anyone with or without feet!

In future, I ask that we all be mindful of what and possibly whom we may be stepping on in our heels....

Katherine

Gary0618 and I "Mrs Gary0618" would like to Welcome You to the Forum.

It is always nice to see another Female Member here.

I look forward to reading more of your posts in the future.

MrsHeels

Hello -

The first time I saw this movie, I was....well, under the influence, so to speak, and I thought, OH MY GOD, that was NOT real........

So my sister-in-law and I went back the following weekend....It was wonderful! I think we went almost every weekend for a very long time. We actually dressed up several times and had a blast!

The audience participation is great! They add lines to what has been said on screen, they sing along, they dance, and they throw several things at the screen, such as hotdogs, toast, toilet paper, confetti, and may squirt water also.

It is a lot of fun............Let us know how you liked it.

Katherine - Old enough to know better now, so not having nearly as much fun!

Hi Everyone -

I have 3 grandson's, oldest is 12, then 9 and 1.........They are all aware that thier grandfather wears heels. It was simply something they saw that was not a big deal with the family, and they grew used to the difference in his choice of footwear........

As for the oldest participating in this forum. I would have to be the one to chose which topic threads he reads and responds to, as some are way too much to explain to a 12 or 13 year old. But other then that, for the most part I believe this would help him to better understand the differences in people, and what truly defines people. IMHO

Katherine

OK I have to post this............

Several years ago, while I was a paramedic in New York, we responded to a terrible accident on the highway. This accident involved several cars in a badly snowy night. When we got to car number 3 to check out the woman driver, she was passed out. That stupid yellow window sign, "Baby on board", told us maybe, she had her baby with her, we did not see any baby seat in the car....We did find it over the guardrail in the bushes. No back windows were broken, the door was open. I believe that little yellow sign saved that babies life. Mom did not regain consciousness until at the ER, much later.

I would like one that says "Boots on Board"......Save my Boots!

Katherine

Do you think "Stupid" should hurt?? I have always thought it should, might be less stupid people out there, or rude for that matter of fact...

I think we're all stupid at one time or another, but if it hurt, we might learn from it???????

Katherine

Hello Friends

What a wonderful way to spend a Sunday, with old friends, and making new ones too!

We all had such a great time, relaxing together, sharing two meals, and getting to know each other. The shopping together and realizing we were all becoming friends, was the highlight of the day.

Thank You Kneehighs for putting this all together, you are truly a great friend and such a sweet guy!

I believe several people noticed the heels the guys were wearing, I believe they also noticed the positive attitudes, and decided it was fine, afterall, we were in New York........

Mr. and Mrs. HOH, thank you both for making the trip out, and for making the day great!

There are many places we all have yet to explore, lets do it together!

Anyone with a desire to meet and make new friends, are encouraged and welcome to join us next time....

It was very nice of Admirer to call and speak to all of us, it made the miles between us fade away...

Be At Peace, For All Is truly Well.

Katherine

Gary and I are in the state of Wedded Bliss, which is located in New Jersey!

Hello Scott -

NYC are you kidding! Yes, actually we went to the first Heel Meet last year in NYC. We are meeting a few friends from here this coming Sunday for dinner. You and Meghan are welcome to join us.......You are right, it is 8th street, soooo many shoe stores!

My children live in NY, Westchester county, just at the foot of Bear Mountain. So I am familiar with where you are.

There are a lot of boots with heels that I would never think are for women, and I would never wear them! Keep looking, you will find what is comfortable for you.

Katherine

Hello All -

I am 5'7, don't know if that's tall or short. I have truly never bothered with all of that...

I wear long or tall jeans because I usually have heels on.

I could be 7 foot tall and would still wear heels.

There is always something about one that another won't find pleasurable, I find my own pleaure, and if that works for another, great, and if not, oh well, NOT my loss!

Katherine

I do like your new avatar Katherine, nice shoes and tattoos! I'm probably about a 10.5 US, so we could swap shoes if you like?

Chris

Hello Chris -

WOO HOO Swap, Swap, Swap, and Shop, Shop, Shop! Works for me!

Katherine

Hello Scott and Meghan -

Welcome aboard!

I am part of a married duo that enjoys heels. Gary and I have well over 300 pair, and actually have been selling some on eBay.

Do you wear heels as well? Where are you two from?

I am fairly new here, while Gary has been here for years.

You will find most of the people here are GREAT!

Katherine

*I enjoy the feel of the height and walk. 1

*Fashion - an indispensible accessory. 2

*For the extra height and confidence. 0

*A way to emphasise my femmininity. 3

*I am sexually stimulated by wearing them. OH YEAH!!!

*A useful tool to attract nice guys to me. There NOT ALL nice!!

I am also sexually stimulated by seeing "him" in heels......

What can I say, it does something to his backside....

(Blushing)

Katherine

Jeff B -

I am new here, and sorry to say I have not missed you. Anyway welcome back. It seems your return has made several happy, for that I have smiled while reading these posts!

Balance is everything in life. Like most things when it begins we indulge completely, and at times allow it to overwhelm us, comsume the better part of our life. You seemed to have shifted and are now regaining your balance. This new awareness is very healthy....Good for you!

I am newely married (8 months) to Gary0618, from this forum. In the past year he too has looked at his past obsession with heels. Once married we now had 2 of everything, and at least 4 of our heel collection. Only issue, I will wear all the heels I own, while he owned some very (my opinion) outragious heels. Together we have well over 300 pairs, and a small home.

My solution was he could only buy what he will wear, often in the house, and ocassionally out doors. As for what he already owned, so be it. Well, after thinking and living with this for a year or so, he has decided to sell what he will not or no longer wears.

We are having so much fun putting heels on eBay and watching others enjoy bidding on them. Just today we shipped 10 pairs out! Gives him more money to buy more, and maybe a few for me as well.

You have found your balance, hold on tight. Life is not always smooth sailing, but the bumps in the way only serve to make us stronger.

I agee don't give up your passion completely, rather take control of it, instead of it controlling you.

Good Luck and Be Well,

Katherine

OK So there are no top dogs here, they all play well together, and need each other...........So now can we??

Rules suck, but have to be obeyed....

Hey like my new avatar? I wrote all about it, in de-lurking wife...

And since I am not ranting or raving, I better geeeetttttttt.....

See ya,

Katherine