lee_loves_shoes

Many thanks for the encouraging replies. I guess I know what the right thing to do is, and maybe it's cathartic for me to anonymously admit it on a public forum as 'the first step', if you excuse the pun. There is a little dark side to her that she rarely shows, although it's not quite the same as mine, so I think we both hold back a little. I have a good feeling about revealing the last part of myself to her as I have tested myself to just about to tell her and gauge my own nervousness about it, and it's not as daunting as it once was. I am nervous about her reaction, whether she thinks there is more (am I a CD? TV? TS?!), whether she can accept it, and also to come to terms with it myself; I've dealt with this fetish all my life but never had the courage to share it with anyone. So... this is where I am now. Of course I'll post back and let you guys know how it goes. Once again, many thanks.

Hi all Let me tell you a bit about myself to start: I'm a straight 32yo guy who has a healthy obsession over feet and shoes. I have been in a relationship for nearly 3 years now and this is the one. We're happy, healthy and looking towards the future together. My partner does not know about my 'fetish', and it has been my secret all my life. I can trace back this fetish to early childhood through various events, none of which were abusive and had a very happy childhood. It has been a secret as friends and family are very much 'men are men' and 'women are women', and male friends would have ripped me for it, as they do. I never have had the opportunity to come out about the fetish. My dilemma is that I'm now at a crossroads - do I confess and show her my fetish side or keep it a secret as I have done for the whole of my life. I don't want to be a public crossdresser, but enjoy wearing heels in private. I can happily keep it from her, and it could remain a little corner of me that she will never see (we all have something like that, don't we?), or I can be open about this and incorporate it into our relationship. To be honest I'm scared: We're currently in a good place and I don't want to jeopardise anything, but she is openminded and think she will accept me for what I am - I'm actually nervous even writing about it. I know the obvious answer is "talk about it", but it's not always easy opening up about something so big and has been a secret for so long. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, as I think now is the time - if I don't do it I fear it will be too late, if it isn't already! Confused and frustrated, lee_loves_shoes

ah thanks tightsnheels! i've just emailed them to find out more.

hi balletbooter! i've been wearing heels for years but always in private and never shared this with anyone apart from my ex who wasn't very understanding! i would just like to talk to other heel-wearers and feel 'normal'! lee

hi does anyone live in the central belt and would like to meet up for a pint or coffee? would like to meet a guy or girl who appreciates a guy in heels. i'm straight btw. lee

hi this is me )

hi i really want a pair of transparent perspex shoes (sometimes referred to as 'cinderella' pumps). does anyone know where i can get some in the uk? thanks! lee

Hi, I've just added some wet and messy pics to my Yahoo group

http://ph.groups.yahoo.com/group/lee_loves_shoes/photos

Lee

greg thanks. no, i've never shaved my legs, although i'm a cyclist and could use that as an excuse! those cages are t-bar sandals with a 4" heel - feel very nice on. there's something about t-bars which are very sexy. i like wearing heels with jeans, and love girls in heels (no stockings!) and jeans.

Nice shoes greg, you have nice feet (for a guy) too ) I like the pink sandals above.

Thanks for all the welcomes!

I have a few pics of my shoes on Photobucket

http://s63.photobucket.com/albums/h147/lee_loves_shoes/

These are the shoes I like wearing, but I've never been out in them (except under the cover of darkness!)

I'm not sure if I could/would wear them in public as I'm not a TV/CD, but I just love the feeling of them. My GF is gradually coming round to the idea of her 'straight' BF wearing high heels. More on that later...

Anyways, thanks for all the good vibes!

Lee

Hi all, just wanted to say hi. I feel relieved I've found somewhere like this, to be able to chat to other people about guys wearing high heels, I feel a bit of a freak sometimes! Anyone from Scotland (UK)? Anyway 'Hi!', and I'll post up when I've got more time. lee x