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I have been in search of a woman who truly enjoys a guy wearing heels and hosiery and possibly other feminine items. It would be an incredible turn on to have a woman share in my desires and get turned on as well! I would enjoy hearing opinions about guys who wear Pumps or Boots etc. Also about guys wearing heels and hose! Where do you stop thinking it's exciting for a guy to be femininely more expressive? Thanks Sexy High Heeled Women! I Love All Of You!

Dressboots, I really feel for you on this! It is not something you can just shut off and forget! I have been wearing heels for over 25 years and I am at a point where I am like others when they say it's a drug! I love wearing heels and I love the way I feel and the way I look! If my wife freaked out on me wearing heels, she would also be talking about other feminine clothing as well! I honestly feel that if it really came down to it, rather than lie or hide again or not be true to myself about who I am, I'd rather be on my own! For me, it would eat at me and then I would be sneaking to wear my heels! I just wish I could meet a woman who thought it was sexy and encouraged me to dress in heels and or even more feminine if I wanted! I wish you the best of luck!

I live in Cleveland and would love it!!! Please keep me posted!

I would be very interested in anyone who would enjoy getting together in Cleveland! Especially women who enjoy men in heels! Please do Reply to me!

I have to agree with Dr. Shoe! At that young of an age, now depending of course just how often the heels are worn, will the shoe cause the foot to form! I feel though, that at age 14 and up of course a 3 or 4 inch heel at certain functions is fine! young people both Young Ladies and Young Men who wear heels can get away with it and after all, young folks wear what they want and don't care what others feel! We all were rebellious at that age! That is what a teenager does! Many grow out of it and many stay with it! I love bell bottom jeans but they are difficult to find in a man's size and have become more of a woman's jean! (drat!) Love heels under a bell bottom! So, I'd suggest she wait a few more years before she hurts her feet, spine and hips!

Well first to Amanda. Fear Not! Women will always have the power! Your feet, legs and bottom will and can never really compare to a males! Granted, men often have shapely legs but not like that of a real woman! (sigh!) A woman's foot is shaped with a high arch as it is and when wearing heels they are stunning and oh so sexy! A woman's bottom has a certain shape and angle that is second to none! You will always have the power so embrace a gent who enjoys wearing heels! After all it's only a shoe! An article of clothing! No one get's hurt or threatened! Ninanoora, I understand what you are saying about the walking in heels however, I, like many gents who so enjoy wearing heels can and do walk absolutely normally in them! No knee bent. There are those in both sexes from what I witnessed that do though! The great part for guys is, that certain manufacturer's like Pleaser for example make the shoe with a soul/heel one piece so the weight going on the heel will not bend or break the heel making it so much easier for a gent to walk in! I have about 14 pairs of different heels and I wish that more women's shoe companies would make larger sizes up to 15. I love peep toe and in a wide they are near impossible to find!

There was a particular situation at a computer convention where I had witnessed many women in heels. I was at this particular booth where there were two women in business suits(Goodness I love That!) They both had great shoes on! I could tell that one pair had to be Chinese Laundry Stilettos and the other woman's heels looked to me anyway, as Nine West. I was looking at the booth goodies when the woman I thought was the most attractive (Dark Hair, Green eyes, 5ft 9 In. or so with heels. 130LBSish about early 40s) she asked me if I knew about one of the certain products. I did and we talked about it for about 2 or 3 minutes and I commented on her heels. I said, I thought they were extremely nice and asked where she bought them. They were in fact Chinese Laundry and she bent her leg back and removed one and handed it to me! She had tan pantyhose on with a slight reinforced toe (which I love) and I was holding this sexy heel with an incredibly sharp arch (Like most Chinese Laundry Heels). I asked her if they are uncomfortable to wear after awhile. She replied no, actually they are very comfortable. I felt she could tell something about me as she grinned a very naughty grin. They were dark red with a peep toe and a natural leather soul and heel! As I held her shoe, she leaned over and whispered, "I doubt they have them in your size." with that naughty grin and gorgeous red glossy lipstick! I looked at her with a sexy grin and said "Pity isn't it?" She replied, "Most definitely!, I think you'd look great in them!" I looked at her intensely and said, " I know you do for sure!" as I handed it back and she asked me to place it on her foot! I passed my hand over her foot to feel the nylon and the shoe slid right on and we exchanged cards. We have exchanged very sexy and risque' emails for about 2 years now! I confessed I wear heels and dress and love feeling feminine! She keeps saying someday we will get together and go shopping. She knows I want to do much more! My spouse knows nothing of it!

I have driven in 4.5 inch pumps and I actually don't mind but having to keep paying attention to not scuffing up the leather takes away from relaxing in them so I have a pair of flats inside the car. I don't walk around in public though sadly!

I am not a big fan! As a male heel wearer, I find that they just make even a woman's foot look ridiculously long! Almost as if you are a clown! If the toe gets a crease then it begins to curl upward like Ali Baba. No, not for me! I don't find them attractive at all!

Although it's true for me to know my spouse doesn't mind my wearing heels around the house. I tend to still uncomfortable around her! There is an aura that develops with her when I am wearing heels. For example, "Oooow wearing heels eh? They look great!" but the facial feature is like she is fighting to put a smile on her face! I so enjoy wearing heels (usually 3,4 but no higher than 5 inch) I can and would wear them all day long! The feeling while wearing them feels so right and in tune to who I am within my soul, I often suffer from depression because I cannot feel I may display that part of me that truly depicts who I am! Fear of embarrassment or shame! I am now in my mid fifties and having worn heels in the closet for over 30 years, I so long to actually change my persona completely to female! I know it is a huge leap and my spouse say's she doesn't mind too much! Except for the fears that my family, work and our friends will all reject me and cause our lives to go into chaos! No pressure! I do not have the gumption many of you display here out of fear of ridicule and loss of masculine reputation among neighbors and friends. In fact, I may look and act masculine, inside I am a woman just suffering and dying to get out! Now, even though I am heterosexual and would be considered a lesbian if I were a woman, I know I would end up alone more than likely! I am wearing heels now with silver Charnos Elegance hold up stockings and soft nylon panties and a bra, skirt & lovely top. I feel so normal wearing them and yet I dare not let anyone see me! I feel a prisoner and lonely for so many years!

Bluesman, I think you dealt with the situation very well! I envy you that you go "Out"! I wear mine indoors and only dream of walking around town in my heels and heeled boots! Actually for me I would love to dress totally en femme and continue that way! Not likely going to happen though! My wife supports me to a degree however, I feel, since we only go around once and there is no "Later" to do this, I need to find the courage to be myself and represent myself as I really am even if it disgusts others or makes them feel uncomfortable! Good for you though!

My wife enjoys my wearing heels however, I want so bad to wear heels out and about and that I feel is where she may draw the line! I too am too shy to wear out and about for fear of the jeers and insults!