hhbill

I highly suggest you discuss the situation with him. If he does blow you off with "that's silly" or something similar, I would seriously reconsider whether you want to put up with this lack of sensitivity and sophistication for the rest of your life. A man should defend his bride and her feelings.

I agree with JL. Try www.comfilon.com. They are not "girly" because they are actually made for men. I especially like the 549's (which even include a fly) and the 577's. They have the added benefits of reducing chafing, which can happen with tight-fitting jeans, and eliminates the "pantylines" too.

And, no, you are NOT weird! And you have a wonderful woman. Don't rule out ever going out. As you will see in many posts here, few will even notice or care, and those that do are usually positive. But, definitely practice, practice, practice, around the house first - especially in 5 inch'ers. Then try going out to something with very little walking/standing, like a movie at a time when the line is short.

I will check out ny&company. Looks very nice. I also like tallandall.com because it can be difficult finding legs long enough for heels for my height.

Enjoy!