shoobeedo

I would go with whatever I can walk BEST in. Unfortunately, there are so many women who can't walk in 5" or even 4" heels and nothing looks worse than a bride stumbling down the aisle or worse yet, falling down. I remember my wedding and I had to go down a flight of stairs in my long gown and I was terrified that I would fall. So go with whatever you are confident that you can walk in without your ankles buckling or stumbling. Also make sure to get the CORRECT size. I've noticed that lots of women on the various lists buy shoes that are too big and gap in the heels. I'm not sure whether that's because in the high heels your weight is on the balls of your feet so your feet slide forward or that they buy shoes they like but that aren't in their size, but make sure the shoe fits. If it gaps in the heel, put a pad under your toes. And practice walking in those shoes before the wedding. Shoo

I like these, especially the B/W. Shoo

I got some new shoes too! My highest yet.

Shoo

Wow those shoes are lovely. Shoo

And yes, I made these myself.... Shoo

Here are a couple of the photos of ballet boots from www.missyshighheels.com:

I have tried to send a PM to RPMindy, but it won't go through saying that there's no member by that name. Since I know that you EXIST, I'm not sure what the problem is. However, I have evidence to back up everything I've said.

RPMindy, if you want to e-mail me privately at shoobeedo@hotmail.com with a private e-mail address, I would be glad to scan and send you proof backing up everything I've said.

As for the comments about introducing your children so it won't seem naughty, that may apply to some things and children of certain ages. But would you as a teenaged boy rather be introduced to women in fetishwear from a magazine, or seeing it on Mommy? Teenaged boys have a difficult enough time separating sex from mom. There have been many books written about it. That's why they tend to stay out of the house. Those same breasts that fed them are now sexual and they don't want to be sexual with their mothers. In this case, you have a mother being sexual in front of her boys. Bad idea. It doesn't introduce them to safe, happy fetish world. It makes mom = sex. Just like some people become wired so that violence = sex.

Shoobeedo

Please reread what I said. It's not the fact that the parents enjoyed fetishes, it is that fetishes were inappropriately flaunted in front of their children that may have caused problems. Think about how you would feel if YOUR mother were walking around when you were a teenager in the outfits that Missy wears in the pictures. If we are to believe what she and postcode said, she wore these clothes around the house and out to pick up pizza. All of this while she was aware of her son's problems. This isn't a chicken or egg scenario, not what comes first, but a statement that fetishes are for adults to enjoy and adults need to show appropriate behavior in front of their children no matter how they feel about fetishes. Wearing a rubber corset in front of a 13 year old son is questionable behavior. And wearing it in front of a 13 year old boy who had already molested his sister is seriously bad judgment. As for other variables, of course there can be and probably were many. (I did mention that most molestors were molested in my last post. That's a variable.) But having a mother flaunt sexuality in front of teenaged boys certainly causes sexual confusion. Let me ask this---how many of you are parents? And of those who are parents, how many of you walk around in front of your kids in the kind of fetish wear seen in Postcode's photos? I'm not talking about wearing high heels in front of kids, big deal. I'm talking about rubber corsets, thigh highs, leather mini skirts? Think of all the times you have looked at those pix of Missy and cheered her on. Would you have felt differently if you had known that these pix were taken in front of her nine year old son? Her 13 year old son? Her 15 year old son? And her two daughters? That certainly changes the perspective to me. I'm sickened knowing that children were watching. Parents have a duty to protect their children. Would you want that 9 year old reading Playboy? How much worse is seeing Mommy like that?

Sadly, I have come across information as to what really happened to Postcode and MistressM. I am sick to say that their 13 y.o. son was convicted of sexually molesting a 2 year old girl (not their child). He confessed to molesting his sister too. The sister and the youngest child now live elsewhere. This brings up a very touchy subject--fetishes are fine as long as underaged children are kept out of the mix. Even though their website said "No Pornography" we all know those photos were not for children. Does a sign that says to keep out under 18 do any good? Of course not. Remember all those e-mails where Missy said she'd come home from work and put on those clothes--rubber corsets and stilettos? Where Postcode would say that she went out dressed as she was in those photos to pick up pizza? Well, they have children. Do you think the children were sent away every day when she got home from work? Or when she dressed up to get that pizza? Or when she wore that "special" outfit for a job interview? I personally don't know. Where do you draw the line as to what's appropriate? If we are to believe the things that were said by those two, then it seems that they DIDN'T draw the line in the right place. I am not saying that fetishes cause people to become sexual offenders. There's nothing wrong with fetishes by themselves. But where do you draw the line? Should a 13 y.o. boy see his mother in a rubber corset and miniskirt with thigh-highs? Her child has molested several people and been convicted in court. I don't mean this to be flaming, but it's something those of us with kids need to think about. How much do our kids actually see? Now I'm sure you understand why their site was taken down by Postcode. They certainly didn't want the court to see that. Where does a teenaged boy learn to molest? Their son claimed in court documents that he learned from pix on the internet. Pix like those of his mom? Or mom in person? I don't know what he saw and I suspect that there's more than just pix behind his frightening behavior. Most molesters of that age were molested. Itis hard enough for teenaged boys to separate sex from their moms when their moms are dressed in jeans, how does a 13 or 14 year old boy feel when he sees his MOM dressed in these clothes? Mom the domanatrix! Sex = Mom. Mom = Sex. But you have to be more careful when you have kids. Don't you? So I open up to the forum---what do you all think? A very serious matter. Where do you draw the line in your home? On the street? At work? I guess when you don't have kids you can do what you want and you and you alone suffer the consequences. But once you have kids, you are not just affecting yourself. Shoobeedo

FYI, there are still some pix of Missy on www.sensualsara.com/missy_1.htm (and missy_2.htm and missy_3.htm). I came across them while I was looking for something else....

Shoo

Thanks for the welcome. Actually, there's a shoe company called Shoebedo. Sadly, they only make kids shoes! But I liked the name. Though Winnie the Shoe is pretty good. Sorry I didn't think of that.

And I've seen some videos mentioned but you can't access them now that the site is down. I'm really curious because I never saw them. (I've been a lurker for a while.)

Anybody have any of those great photos?